Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

2007-05-21 02:17:36 · 21 answers · asked by pc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy the other night. We seemed to be hitting it off. He asked me if I'd like to go out to dinner the next day, asked for my number and said "I'll call you tomorrow." He never called. Did he just change his mind or is it a game that a guy plays to see how many phone numbers he can collect ??

2007-05-21 02:13:17 · 19 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter has recently made friends with a girl from her school. The girl lives on the same road as my family and I.

I've recently begun talking with the girls mum as my daughter often goes over to her friends to play and visa versa.

On first meeting the girls mother, she was quite open in telling me that she didn't work and was on benefits.

she has on two occasions now asked to borrow money from me, not large amounts (£10's). I have given it to her because 1) I do not want her daughter to go without the essentials and 2) I feel very uncomfortable when asked.

At first I felt sorry for her, but then I got to thinking that she like me has a 9 year old daughter. I manage to work fulltime and am contributing to her benefits by doing so!

How would you broach the subject?

2007-05-21 02:11:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

like people try to get me in trouble and i keep hanging around with the wrong crowd and my family nor my girl would not like at all

2007-05-21 02:10:40 · 4 answers · asked by Keith W 1 in Friends

1. Stay with a husband who ignores you and the kids, but works so you can stay home and care for the kids.

2. Leave husband, get a job, and do it alone.

2007-05-21 02:10:14 · 42 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

big wedding, small wedding, getting married at the courthouse. i know is what i want but what if im not sure what i want in terms of this.

2007-05-21 02:07:53 · 21 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Weddings

I'm 20 yrs. old. And I like a guy that's 28. Is that to old for me? What is the oldest of guy I should date??

2007-05-21 02:06:02 · 12 answers · asked by StAr 3 in Singles & Dating

i am looking for a place in northwest IN to rent out to have our daughters first birthday at but i am not sure what i would search under . like i type in recreation centers to rent in the yahoo search box and its not what im looking. any ideas?

2007-05-21 02:05:23 · 1 answers · asked by MADDYSMOMMY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 19. i like one man that is 41. what can i do to get his attention? and do older man avoid women that are still virgins?
please, i know, that he's old enough to be my dad. but apart from this, please, give an advice. don't keep saying that he's old)

2007-05-21 02:00:00 · 3 answers · asked by Rose M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 01:58:18 · 27 answers · asked by angie_graves123 2 in Singles & Dating

He is not going to sale the house, and I have been paying all the bills. for the last 2 half years he comes home at 4am gets some and leaves to go to his moms because.and now I want a divorce he is sometime 2 faced. he put a credit card in my name without my knowing,he's trying to do things around the house and he never would do things I would ask I would pay some one to fix. What shall I do?

2007-05-21 01:57:52 · 15 answers · asked by rm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Soon, the movie,Star Wars will have it's 30 yr anniversary. That was my first date movie! Where has the time gone? Do you think time moved too fast for you and did you accomplish, in life, what you had hoped??

2007-05-21 01:57:27 · 17 answers · asked by FireBug 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i asked my partner when she was looking at a Johny depp picture ,if she had the opportunity to sleep with him and that i would never find out would she.she said probably yes.it was light hearted banter but she probably meant it.not a problem as she ain't ever gonna meet him.besides if i found myself alone with say Jennifer aniston [well lets just say ID be busy for a few hour's i put it to you, ,your favorite man[actor pop star] if you had the chance and no chance of getting caught .would you.now be honest.

2007-05-21 01:55:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 01:54:47 · 8 answers · asked by snewell2222 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 45 years old, 5'6", have light brown hair, and green eyes, an athletic body, and I don't smoke. I'm financially successful, drive a nice car, travel a lot, own a nice house, and have lots of cool toys. What's more, I'm athletic, sophisticated, classy, funny, reasonably good looking, and I dress and smell nice. And on top of all this, I'm a gourmet chef-quality cook, display very good taste in everything from clothes to art, I can carry on a good conversation, and have a good (but kind of warped) sense of humor. I'm NOT mean, abusive, arrogant, sexist, egotistical, or a hater of kids or animals. At the ripe age of 45, I find myself with a HUGE crush on a 26-year-old woman. So ladies in the mid-twenties age-group, would you consider dating someone in their mid-40s or would the age thing kill it for you despite of everything else offered?

2007-05-21 01:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by Charlie 4 in Singles & Dating

I know this girl from college. We are in many of the same classes and have known each other for about a year. A month ago we got together for a group project for class and started to hit it off. We only just started to see each other, we didn't have sex, but we did fool around. She seemed really in to me. I thought we had the possibility to really be compatible. It happened near Easter, so a got her flowers, nothing elaborate or expensive, they were nice and in her favorite color, I also included a note. I said that I was happy to have the opportunity to get to know her and that I liked her. Anyway, she broke up with me shortly there after. She said that she didn't want a relationship, she believed that she had led me on, and to save myself for someone special. I don't know what to make of that, we never had the chance to really talk about anything before she ended it, I really liked her. Worst, she seemed completely unaffected by the whole thing.

2007-05-21 01:51:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends parents said that she couldn't date her lover anymore becasue he's mexican. What should she do?

2007-05-21 01:51:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bestfriend stays in same apartment.these day my room met come very late night and disturb my sleep.so today i say to him to not to disturb me on my sleep.so we having clash.i want to move to another apartment but my best friend is not coming with me .i cant leave him and go to another apartment . i like him a lot.he is telling me he coudnt move to anther apartment .so wat can i do???? pls tell me answer any one pls plslpsl

2007-05-21 01:50:42 · 3 answers · asked by mike 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now but when we were at skool he dumped me as he cheated on me. I was devastated as he is my first love. Just to make matters worse i still slept with him after that as i wanted him back! then i found out that he was sleeping with a 14 year old as well as me! after that i begged and pleaded for him back but he didnt want me! then wen i stopped i got a phone call on christmas day saying how sorry he was. after that we started seeing each other and eventualy got back together. I love him so much but now i have a big problem with trusting him and i have become a bit of a control freak and im only 16. im scared that im going to be the one thats going to split us up again as i have become such a bunny boiler and a control freak and do not trust my botfriend even though he spends most of his time with me. Help me what should i do???

2007-05-21 01:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 3 weeks ago i met a guy and landed up going back to his place and had sex with him. The next morning he dropped me off at my place and asked "would he see me again" and my response was "yes". I haven't really heard much from him since and most communication comes from my side so last week i emailed and asked him straight out if he wanted to see me again or not and this was response "Am certainly keep to hook up again, just been quite busy, I know its not an excuse, but we must make a plan soon" and since then i haven't heard a word so my question is: Was this a definite one nightstand and he just doesn't want to hurt my feelings or do you think he wants to get together again...?

2007-05-21 01:47:51 · 16 answers · asked by Angelic Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Please help me. Sex with my husband is always great, I just don't ever feel like doing it. We have a 16 month old son and I feel exhausted all the time, not because of my son, just in general. This is NOT the kind of wife I want to be. What can I do? I've tried aromatherapy, massage oils....any ideas??

2007-05-21 01:47:24 · 23 answers · asked by blessed 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well ummm, txted me "would it be wierd if i sit with you's tomororw" well i frankly do not want to her to sit with us,
1. our group sorta doesant talk to her at all,
2. she is my ex (3 week relationship ended on both agreeing its not working out)

she only sat with us becasue i was there, and still not many people talked to her at all, its gonna be worse and wierd for me for her to be there.

how would i tell her in a good way that i dont really want her to sit with us or should i let her and then in the end she may get the hint that sitting there is not hte best option.

2007-05-21 01:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Renegade99 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex would change when he was drunk which meant I had to leave him. He would drink very heavily then dwell on things I had supposedly done wrong. H ewould then shout and become physically threatening. This could sometimes become physical such as threatening me with a pint glass to cut me or throwing me out of the house onto concrete floor. He would then sober up the next day and say he couldnt remeber it and it was the alcohol not him. This happened a few times before I dumped him scard to death. He says that this is alcohol and it does this too lots of people but he wont stop drinking. do you think alcohol makes people behave out of character to this degree or it fuels the inner aggression present in a person???

2007-05-21 01:45:50 · 18 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 01:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I went and talked to my ex recently and she admitted that she had fought with her new boyfriend and things weren't going to well but didn't mention anything about us maybe getting back together. Then a few weeks later I talked to her again and trying to sort out the problem but she didn't want to listen So I said look I know you're not happy with your new boyfriend because of what you told me earlier and her response was to put a big fake smile on her face and say I am happy he loves me and I love him. Why's she doing this? Does it mean that maybe she still has feelings for me?

2007-05-21 01:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by john 1 in Singles & Dating

what should i do? i love her but she looks so happy and hes done some bad things in the past i just don't want her to get hurt. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-05-21 01:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by eastbrook girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do i tell my parents i spent £30000 that i received from an accident.im married with 2 kids & dread having to go to visit my folks in sept as dad helping us build our house & he wants me to take this money (that he thinks i still have)out of the bank to finish house.will they disown me

2007-05-21 01:40:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-21 01:40:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is a nice person but is v. dependent on me, if i cant cometo a lecture she doesnt go either, she always wants me to drop her at her college after class, wants me to meet with her to study but really is so that she can talk about how horrible her life is, how she is so stressed ( we both do the same course, i work on top of that, she doesnt),and about a situation with some friend of hers that i dont even know, she wont actually disclose,the situation but complains about, so basically she doenst trust me enogh to tell me what it is but does use my time to complain aboit it, moreover, ironically she thinks i talk too much and that that is why we dont get much study done!!!!, the teachers dread her, always asks the same irrelevant questions..several times, Today, in class she asks if she can drink some of my water, i hand her my trusty water bottle and just as she was about to drink turns and says "oh wait but, its clean right?, do you think she is anoying?what should i do, tell her?

2007-05-21 01:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by saminita 1 in Friends

im 18 and im a virgin but when someone finds out they never believe me and i dont understand why, i dont dress in little skirts and tiny tops, i dont get off with loads of guys when im out down town, even people who have never seen me when ive been out at night dont ever believe me, i dont even think im that flirty a person, and a lot of the people that say i dont look like a virgin are actually older people aswell, at first it didnt bother me that much but now so many people have said it!!
i just dont understand how someone can look a virgin or not because people who have only seen my pic say it aswell
xx
ps sorry for rambling on, lol

2007-05-21 01:34:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating