I went and talked to my ex recently and she admitted that she had fought with her new boyfriend and things weren't going to well but didn't mention anything about us maybe getting back together. Then a few weeks later I talked to her again and trying to sort out the problem but she didn't want to listen So I said look I know you're not happy with your new boyfriend because of what you told me earlier and her response was to put a big fake smile on her face and say I am happy he loves me and I love him. Why's she doing this? Does it mean that maybe she still has feelings for me?
2007-05-21 01:43:38 · 11 answers · asked by john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is she doing this...she's going through with her boyfriend and probably is confused herself about a lot of things. Does she still have feelings for you...sorry, that is probably a no. Even if she did, now wouldn't be a good time to get back together. Giver her some space and not push anything. Just be there as a friend when SHE needs and be a good listener.
2007-05-21 01:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry but i dont think she wants to get back together! Each couple has their ups and downs and need to talk to a third party to get it off their chests so that they can move on from it. I just think that she needed to talk to a friend (which is what she seems to see you as) and that you shouldnt read into the reason y she spoke to u about the problem. They are obviously having problems but seem to be trying to sort things out! Each relationship goes through a really rocky patch! But if you care enough about eachother u get over it and grow together! Rather move on and go and meet someone else who can make u happy cause ur ex has moved on. And if you still have feelings for your ex maybe u should back away for a while til you get over it!
2007-05-21 02:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question contains elements which indicates that you and your 'X' are probably not ready to be in a relationship at this time.
I'd suggest that you not focus on her, or any other person, until you find a mentor that can help you expand the way you 'see' a relationship.
If you insist on focusing on her, or if you meet someone else to take her place, you will find yourself in relationships that cannot work.
Be patient, learn about 'who' you are and make adjustments to areas of your personality that can use improvement before you ask someone else to accept you.
Remember this: You cannot give what you do not have and cannot recieve what you do not have to give.
2007-05-21 02:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tree Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't know the answer to that question until you talk about it directly. I'm 37 and trying to decifer someone elses actions is a waste of time. In addition, there is never 1 answer that covers everyone. I'd try and have an honest talk with her. If she can't do that, she's not ready to face it herself.
2007-05-21 01:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by The Lord's Child 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it to you if she's happy or not with her bf? Forgive me if I say this, but, It's none of your business : she's not your gf anymore and whatever the problem with her new bf is, it has nothing to do with you. Her behaviour clealy tells she has no intention whatsoever to get back with you.
2007-05-21 01:51:32 · answer #5 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wanted to know how you feel about her, and when you show that you still have feelings for her, she throws darts at you to make you feel worse.
If I were you I would forgive and forget and move on with your life.
2007-05-21 01:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person really wants you you'll know. My experience, when people actions are unclear, it's their job to blow away the haze not yours. Move on my friend!!
2007-05-21 01:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think that you are deluding yourself into seeing what you want to. Quit interfering with other people's relationships and let them sort it out on their own.
2007-05-21 01:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no, but that doesn't mean she don't. Id you really want to know the best thing to do is talk to her about it.
2007-05-21 01:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Misty Lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she probably is just trying to keep her good look in front of you because she really isn't happy she just doesn't want you to realize it
2007-05-21 01:58:04 · answer #10 · answered by Austin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋