what should i do? i love her but she looks so happy and hes done some bad things in the past i just don't want her to get hurt. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-05-21 01:41:06 · 9 answers · asked by eastbrook girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No matter how much you try, she won't believe you. It will actually damage your relationship with your sister if you try to get her to leave him. She probably already knows you don't like him and that makes the bond with him all the more meaningful to her. Even if he tried to get with you sexually, she won't let him go. You will have to let her make her own mistakes, and just make sure you are there for her when she decides to leave him on her own.
2007-05-21 01:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by cinnatigg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello:i do understand your feelings here: but now listen everyone has done bad things in their life including you so don't be so quick to judge,besides how do you know,maybe he has changed the direction in his life and don't do those things anymore.(people can change ya know).but if this is bothering you that bad then just pray for your sister and kind of watch her back from a distance ok?ya think,at least that way she always has you looking out for her best interest,just don't make the mistake of butting in or you really might make her mad at you and thats not a good idea(then she will be on her guard exspecting you to try something.)....bye now,hope i help!
2007-05-21 01:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is talk to her and tell her how you feel but don't do it in a way to hurt her or make her mad. If she chooses to stay with him thats her decision. If it turns out to be a bad one just remember we all learn from our mistakes.
2007-05-21 01:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Misty Lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to find out some things for herself. Sometimes getting hurt is part of the learning process. Some people have to learn the hard way.
It is her life, not yours. If you try to make decisions for her, she will hate you for it. If she already knows how you feel about him, then let it be.
2007-05-21 01:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business
2007-05-21 01:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by chris m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mind my own business
2007-05-21 01:45:09 · answer #6 · answered by DickyNowItAll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to learn from mistakes made let her learn hers if he is not the one , just be there for her when she will need you if you do anything now she will just turn on you just continue to love her.
2007-05-24 18:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by twinkle2twinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business
2007-05-21 01:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on her age! but really it dosent matter if u like him or not, its your sisters life, and only she can make that decission.
2007-05-21 01:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by hiphiphurray@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋