well ummm, txted me "would it be wierd if i sit with you's tomororw" well i frankly do not want to her to sit with us,
1. our group sorta doesant talk to her at all,
2. she is my ex (3 week relationship ended on both agreeing its not working out)
she only sat with us becasue i was there, and still not many people talked to her at all, its gonna be worse and wierd for me for her to be there.
how would i tell her in a good way that i dont really want her to sit with us or should i let her and then in the end she may get the hint that sitting there is not hte best option.
2007-05-21 01:46:13 · 12 answers · asked by Renegade99 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her that nobody likes her much since you broke up with her ;) she'll get the hint
2007-05-21 01:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by hollybear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that it would be uncomfortable for her to be there and hope that she understands. That's all u can do. If the group has no interest in talking to her it's best that you hurt her feelings then a gang of people do it. It'll hurt a lot more if she shunned by 10 people than just 1!
2007-05-21 08:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that right now since you broke up it will awkward if she sat with you and your friends during lunch that she should go and hang out with her friends.You cant make someone do what they don't want to do if she wants to sit there let her the best you and your friends can do is respect her and keep the talking with her minimum.If she asks why you guys aren't talking to her just take her aside and tell her the truth.good luck.
2007-05-21 08:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by Tornedeaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her presence makes you and especially the your group feel uncomfortable, then level with her.
Be nice about it - but tell her that it would make you uncomfortable for her to be there.
Thing is, you are not the spokesman for the group. Let someone else ask her to leave. Just don't go out of your way to defend her presence.
2007-05-21 09:10:12 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three weeks? Come on. You're what... 13-15? She's just a girl, get over it. If she sits with you, she sits with you. You'll get over it and she'll get the hint. Don't let her know it bothers you.
2007-05-21 08:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by raanin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you dont want her to be there. You guys aren't together anymore, tell her go do her own thing.
If she asks again tell her yes it'll be weird for her to be there.
And if she goes anyways, then let her, just dont talk to her, she'll realize she is there making a fool out of herself more than being there just to be with you.
2007-05-21 08:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason you can't be friends just because you didn't work out romantically. If you don't want her there just text back and say yeah I think it would be a bit weird and offer to catch up another time.
2007-05-21 08:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by sticky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would just tell her that you and your freinds have talked about it, and agreed it would be best if she didn't sit with you. I think she needs to move on. She may be upset, but it's best to make a clean break and not have her watching every move you make.
2007-05-21 08:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by oisian88 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her, girls hate when you hint about stuff that they should really know. It makes them feel stupid when they find out the truth and it is very embarrassing to them. Please just tell her, it'll spare you and her both.
2007-05-21 08:51:06 · answer #9 · answered by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's that duh...that she wants to sit where she isn't wanted, let her..maybe she will take the hint and move on.
2007-05-21 08:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋