Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

my mother abused me on a daily basis for as long as i can remember. it was mostly physical and verbal abuse but she also abused me emotionally. i had to listen to her tell me how much she hated me and that no one wanted me. she told me in graphic detail when i was just 8 yrs old how her dad sexually abused her. she has also took numerous overdoses in front of me. and when i was raped at just 14 she told me that i asked for it and got what i deserved and when i told her i wanted to kill myself she aksed if i wanted her help. im now seeking therapy. is it possible to report her to the police?

2007-05-21 01:30:13 · 15 answers · asked by anon 1 in Family

2007-05-21 01:19:45 · 12 answers · asked by kutan 1 in Family

My bro is now 10 and he is acting alot like me or someone my age and im worried he is influenced too much because we are close:

He talks alot about sex and thigns relating to sex.
He uses adult words and slang
He has tried alcohol
He has had sex (as far as he says)
He fights and loves fighting
He works out using my wieghts.

Should i be concerned for him or is he just mature for his age

2007-05-21 01:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Family

i spent the night with one guy called josh (i know him for a long time). we have never been intimate and he used to really obssess over me before. this was the first time we were intimate in his bedroom (but we didnt have sex)
basically i was wearing his big shirt and no panties & we just kissed and stuff like that & thats what i wore when i fell asleep. this was all in december but reccently my friend ryan ( josh's best friend) told me that he saw some photos on josh's computer of me sleeping on his bed wearing "white underwear". i was shocked. I asked if i was wearing a shirt and he said he doesnt remeber. The funny thing is - I wasnt wearing any underwear - only a long shirt...so he is obviously lying.
my question what does it mean when a guy takes photos of u half naked in your sleep?
a) to masturbate?
b)to show off infront of his friends?
c)to admire and obsess over you?
d0 to laugh at you with his friends?
e)other reasons???

plz help me out. im really freaked out!

2007-05-21 01:09:39 · 29 answers · asked by babycake 1 in Singles & Dating

A. Buy an IPOD universal dock so everyone could listen to the music on the rare days off.
B. Bleach my hair blonde to look less like myself
C. Buy a baphomet necklace (satan symbol) to look like a freak and scare everyone.
Any thoughts?

2007-05-21 01:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I ve been workin at my company for bout 2 years now and have known my boss for bout the same time.Bout a few months back she started flirting with me and i mean a caress or tellin me how good i look.Last week we had a convention out of town and were stayin at a hotel and there was an after party during which she became really flirtatious.She told me "Ya know, Billy Graham never got onto an elevator with another woman." I said"Why not?!" She responded by saying that Billy Graham didn't want a woman to make any wrong assumptions or false accusations, then she said, "And I assure you, I am no Billy Graham."I dint know wot to say.We were all having some champagne and at the end of the party i was feelin really drowsy which is funny coz i wasnt that drunk.The next thing i know is that im almost out on my couch with my boss undoin my pants and then everything else goes blank.When i get up she's all dressed up i get a smack on my lips and she subtly drops the hint "Itwud be nice if noone knew

2007-05-21 01:01:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 years this year. We just bought a house, so money is kinda tight right now. Today is my birthday, & my husband informed me he didn't even buy me a card!! But, I found out that he took $70. out of our account on Friday. When I asked him about it, he said he went to the club & spent it. He also confessed that he had won $45. on Friday, but spent that also!!! The sad thing is he does this just about every year!! I ALWAYS make sure he has a nice birthday, why should I get ripped off?? Is this childish, or do I have a right to be mad??

2007-05-21 00:58:50 · 26 answers · asked by tracy1051 1 in Family

2007-05-21 00:58:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do eat out the whole day and visit museums/malls or do you all just hang out at home and spend hardly any money. I want to know what is excessive and what is acceptable.

2007-05-21 00:58:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-21 00:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by carla 1 in Friends

She constantly assumes that i will do the same thing. How many others find there 'ex' a troublesome memory?

2007-05-21 00:58:05 · 30 answers · asked by JOHN 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are planning on getting married this summer, 7-7-07 and we both have children from past marriages. My two children are thrilled that I'm getting married again and they love my fiance like their own father. My fiance's son however has had a change of heart. We got along very well and were very close, he wanted his father and I to get married, but now says he doesn't approve and that he wants his dad to leave me and go back to his mother (who is happily married again). I've done nothing but treat this little boy so well and be here for him and he once loved and respected me, but now it's gone!!

Can anyone give me some insight as to why he'd change his mind when nothing in our new family situation has changed???

2007-05-21 00:57:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm very scared that most women would not like it big and fat but we will hopefully find out by the end of the day thanks so much.

2007-05-21 00:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and how is her attitude ???

2007-05-21 00:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by ashu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how come people use straightjackets in sexual play??
ive always wondered why the use it on their lover when they have sex???
please answer=]

2007-05-21 00:50:58 · 3 answers · asked by buckcherry<3 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in school and i have to catch a bus and walk 10 miles to get to the bus stop. They wont take me 10 mins up the road because they are too lazy to get up. I make mine and my little brothers breakfast. I help him get ready.

I get home finally at 4 and then i go to work for 2 hours. I get home at 6 and start cooking tea for my mum while my dad is at work and my mum sits on the computer talking to friends.

Then i eat and clean up. I then get my brother a bath and finally at 730 i get to start doing my homework. I do that until 9 and get my brother to bed and then i finally sleep. Im usually exhuastednd its worse when i have to go to training and also take my brother as well.

I have a best friend and my parents dont want him to come over because they feel its too late to have him around. And on weekends my dad is grumpy. li I cant stop working because they say im lazy if i dont..yet my mum does nothing. She just spends all the money.

I have to pay board and i babysit all the time

2007-05-21 00:50:41 · 24 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Family

2007-05-21 00:47:58 · 11 answers · asked by emad z 1 in Singles & Dating

i am staying separately from my husband since last 2 years. we also have a 1.5 year old son . my forced me and my parents to give him about 10 lakhs worth jewellery and cash which he spent in gambling and lottery. he also used to torture me physically. now he says he will divorce me only if i give my child to him. i dont want my son to be like him. i dont trust him - he may harm our child just to avenge my decision of staying away from him. pleaze help if you know indian laws what should i do?

2007-05-21 00:46:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Spare a thought for little Maddy.

Send a heart ( <3 ) and bring her back.

2007-05-21 00:37:44 · 31 answers · asked by Colin H 3 in Family

s it ok to fall in love with someone you met online 2yrs ago?we have talked and i have seen his pictures

2007-05-21 00:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by funmi o 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious about your opinion to this thought.

Based on your beliefs, does it matter with whom you have your first sexual encounter with?

Are you male or female?
What is your age?

Have you ever wished you had your first time with someone else?

Ever wish you had sex with someone earlier than you did?

Ever wish you had waited for sex?

In your opinion, how soon in a relationship should a person have sex?

2007-05-21 00:23:36 · 20 answers · asked by Searcher 7 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I told my mom my intention to get married I church, but I’m changing my mind, and I want a civil wedding instead because we wanted to save money. But my mom wouldn’t approve of it. She wants me to have a church wedding but she might be critical of how it will turn out because she’s fond of criticizing other people

2007-05-21 00:12:12 · 15 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Weddings

2007-05-21 00:11:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He buys his 10 year old son everything he wants without suporting our household. He hasn't worked in 6 months despite graduation from college at 39 last December 2005. He turned down 5 jobs in the last month and now he won't work because his prized child is coming to NJ from Arizona after not visiting sonce March. I hate the kid!

2007-05-21 00:09:22 · 15 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2 in Family

2007-05-21 00:08:57 · 10 answers · asked by Ishmael K 1 in Singles & Dating