My bro is now 10 and he is acting alot like me or someone my age and im worried he is influenced too much because we are close:
He talks alot about sex and thigns relating to sex.
He uses adult words and slang
He has tried alcohol
He has had sex (as far as he says)
He fights and loves fighting
He works out using my wieghts.
Should i be concerned for him or is he just mature for his age
2007-05-21 01:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i loved 2 copy my bros wen i was dat age. bt since he is acting lik u,u mst b a good example 4 him!!!!!!!!
2007-05-21 01:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Caz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you and your bro have a very close relationship, as you have said. all you can really do in my opinion is just set a good example for him. maybe sit down with him and tell him when you said those things, you were just messing around. at age 10, he doesnt need any of that, or need to think about it, or even have any of that stress. sure he wants to be like you, that happens a lot...but it's all up to you. you just need to talk to him and set a very good example...good luck
2007-05-21 01:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be concerned. working out with weights is okay but the rest is way to old for him. he is trying to immitate you probably b/c he looks up to you. one of the best things you can do is be aware of how you act and what you say in front of him. when you're together, bring yourself to more of his level. don't swear. throw the ball around, rollerblade, bike ride. do things with him that a 10 yr old should be doing. if he is trying to impress you or begging for your attention,he'll do things he thinks will accomplish that.
2007-05-21 02:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should watch what you say and do around him, he is copying you in all aspects, he is only ten beware here comes a gangster, that is how bad this sounds to me, you had better become a better rol model for your younger brother
2007-05-21 02:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is way too young to even be thinking like he does. You should censor what you do around him. Obviously he muist see this behavior somewhere. You should get him to talk to a counsillor or someone that can help him.
2007-05-21 01:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋