2007-05-21 00:11:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't let a wrong marriage prolong u will feel miserable ask 4 getting out amicably
2007-05-21 00:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing as a wrong marriage. At this stage as yours, almost every couple things that they made a mistake in marrying their partner but that's a normal feeling that should be handle with wisdom/maturity.
First you need to understand and accept that there is a huge difference between men and women. A healthy, fun, attractive, successful man does NOT want to be with a woman long term who turns uncertain or challenging situations into NEGATIVE emotional experiences every time. It makes him behave a type.......that you might want out.
The issue here is that there's what is called the "honeymoon" phase. Relationships GROW and CHANGE. You're no longer in that early "intense" stage, and have moved past it together, is largely a GREAT thing. You're heading for a long term and things can't possibly be that hot again. You will NEVER get back to how you both were before things grew into a new place in your relationship. Even if you get a new one, its still going to grow and change.
The truth is, in a REAL and LASTING RELATIONSHIP, things are going to CHANGE - whether you like it or not. His feelings will change. Your feelings will change. How you both interact will change. And how much attention each person gives to the
relationship and to the other will change. These are INEVITABLE, no matter who you are or what you want from love and a relationship.
What really matters now that things are changing is how you choose to deal with the changes.
Wish you the best, though you didn't give any infor to work on.
2007-05-21 00:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,no and no. You have realised nothing .Let the marriage last for ever. Have mutual understanding ,confidence and devotions among spouses. This is absolutely not proper. Involve elderly persons and parents. Love marriage was at initial stage it was just a form of selection of spouse and after marriage it is family only and both should discharge the family life. Hope you both will have patience and faith in each other. Best of luck. If not satisfied ask again making reference to this question and state specific problems.
2007-05-24 21:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do another love marriage and this time,after 5 years you may realize that it was a wrong marriage again.So,what should you do?EITHER carry on with the time cycle of 5,7,9,12 ....years OR sit down with your partner and make the relationship not only workable but also Lovable.Remember that the foundation of relationship was LOVE and and historically love can make people achieve what would be thought of impossible by most people.Please give it an honest try.Wish you both a good luck.
2007-05-21 02:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, Marriage is bond where you live up to understand and stand by each other for rest of life you have done love marriage that means i am sure you did not realised that it was wrong marriage,its something of psychology problem.maybe,you find now some other more attractive or so.., dear relation remain happy only when you are ready to make it to be happy. hey,cheer up., cool down and get talk with each other nicely and never think to leave each other,other wise i am telling you that you will land on same problem again and again. as you know once you get slip then it is natural that you will be trend to get slip again and again. so don;t commit this mistake. o.k best of luck
2007-05-21 01:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by pema thinlay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the divorce as the last solution. try solving the problems with all your potential first. There must be something wrong from your side too. which she doesnt like. try to to correct that. make him realise her mistakes in a polite manner. And the time is the best medicine for these kind of problems.
Right of Divorce is legal solution which even God doesn't like.
Hope you save your marriage...
2007-05-21 00:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by kalloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have married for love, but did you work to keep the love going strong in your marriage? Love is a feeling, once you get over the love "feeling" you got to work at being a good husband, father, wife, mother! Once the communication is gone the love feeling goes down, the arguments begin and temptation is on every conner...If you've tried marriage counseling and it didn't work, then try separation or divorce...don't let divorce be a first option...wish you well...
2007-05-21 00:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have a second love-marriage with the same person after another 3 years but how to look after your children for 3 years. .
2007-05-21 00:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is full of compromise. Dont take any hefty decisions now. First find out where it all went wrong, then consult the matter with your close friends or parents. According to their idea you act. Never think of a divorce for the time being as this can make problem bigger.
2007-05-21 00:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Shinoj Kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing could be more wrong than knowing that u r wrong and still continue to stick with it.
honestly, uve just wasted 3 years, thats not much, imagine if u still want to stay wrong with this person for the rest of ya life, that's scary.
seek a divorce if u can, i know this is not exactly a good kind or right kind of advice, but i can't think of anything else to say.
hope it helps!
2007-05-21 00:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by curious_vanila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i believe is if you think it was right 3 years ago then it should be a right for your whole life.
How can something be right now and turn wrong after 3 years ??
I think it must be "you" who might have changed your outlook towards you partner which is making you think that your marriage was a wrong decision.
2007-05-24 11:44:38 · answer #11 · answered by Deepa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋