Family & Relationships - 21 May 2007

I met a guy on the internet. He lives about 75 miles from me. We have sent each other numerous emails and talked on the phone for hours at a time. We haven't met in person but he said that he wanted to get to know me from the inside out not the outside in. He said that I am easy to talk to and that he is falling in love with me. I think that it is sweet but I am a little nervous because I did meet him on the internet. He sounds like a really nice guy. Should I pursue this or should I leave it alone?

2007-05-21 05:51:25 · 14 answers · asked by donjour6961 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my 'best' friends is also one of my two moh's in my wedding. Well anyway, she moved 7 hours away about two months ago and has since done a complete 180 in the friendship department. We went from being inseperable friends to speaking maybe once a week and I haven't heard from her in almost three weeks now.

I sent her an email expressing my concerns about her being my moh and not having heard from her and I still haven't heard a response from her. I'm really pissed off and need advice, I don't want to drop her from the wedding because I care about her but something's got to change.....My wedding is in 74 days and I can't be stressing about not hearing from my bridesmaids.

2007-05-21 05:48:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how old were you when you lost your virginity x

2007-05-21 05:48:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in a few months. I sometimes feel really depressed liking I'm making a poor choice. I feel frustrated a lot because I don't often get much acknowledgement. I am never told I look nice, and I'm even jealous of the cat because she gets petted. He's a nice guy, and very nice... what to do?

2007-05-21 05:46:41 · 21 answers · asked by mariemotz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We know she is a prescription meds abuser, with a long track record in all hospitals within a three hour radius. She has had to move from towns brfore because of her and her mothers abuse of prescription meds. She has my husbands almost 18 month old son and it is not a good situation. We know she is using drugs again, maybe even cocaine. She begs his parents for money and even for meds. We are tired of knowing his son is unhealthy and neglected and paying child support is a joke because it just goes up her nose. My husband is afraid to call Children's Services and her end up running. We haven't seen the baby in over four months because she won't comply to visitation. We are just tired of seeing the baby dirty and in crappy old clothes and being left with her pill head mother for days at a time while she parties. She even drives with him while drugged up. Has anyone else ever dealt with this and have any idea of what Children's Services will do? We just don't want her to run.

2007-05-21 05:45:02 · 14 answers · asked by anitad8406 2 in Marriage & Divorce

was on top, she got so excited that she crapped a small load right there on the sheets; when i found out i just laughed my butt off, i couldnt stop.....and then she got embarrased, started crying and then left the room. Now she doesnt want to talk to me. What do i do?

2007-05-21 05:44:56 · 24 answers · asked by fahd_dogg 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 05:42:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met this guy who is in the military. We are both expats in a foreign country. We've been dating for a month and everything's perfect. Our dates were romantic, we have amazing conversations that would go on for hours and so far, he's a complete gentleman (we're not intimate yet). I'm starting to fall hard when he suddenly told me he's leaving at the end of this month. He's been transfered to another country. I'm devastated. I am waiting for him to broach the subject of long distance relationship but so far, he is saying he doesn't want one. What's puzzling is that he is asking if its possible for me to apply to another company thats based in his own country. He also told me he is planning to come back but he is not making any promises because its really hard. Although we both know our relationship is going nowhere, he still wants to see me until he leaves. I'm so confused! Is it because of our difficult situation that he wont commit or he is simply not just into me?

2007-05-21 05:41:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, my girl goes off on a trip to visit a friend. Her friends friend a man is organizing her a place to stay. She talks again about he is her friends friend. Then I have to drive all night to go pick her up because things have gone sour between her and the guy who she rented the place from. While I was on the phone she said 'thats it I am never meeting anybody from myspace again' meaning she met him on myspace. She was talking passionately and made a slip up revealing that.. Now when I arrive after driving forever, she is very affectionate and is now punting the story that he was her girl pals friend. I did not call her up on her little slip up about myspace.

So its her friends friend, then she met him on myspace, then back to her friends friend.

Does this sound suspicious?

2007-05-21 05:41:02 · 12 answers · asked by john g 1 in Singles & Dating

We have dated for 5 yrs and I told him I was not interested in sex with a man who could not committ. He was really angry and said he didnt care and to get out.
I am tired of this. I have dont a lot for him and am just fed up. I cannot see sustaining a relationship with someone who is dragging their feet and living in the past. He is still hung up on his ex wife after 6 yrs. She is re married and has totally moved on.
What should I do to help myself move on?

2007-05-21 05:41:00 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Singles & Dating

I mean, right now I'm in high school and it seems like all anyone cares about is how they look. Why is there such a high importance on that? Is that how it is as you get older?

It seems to me that the "standards" of physical beauty declines as you age because people realize inner beauty is more important. What do you think?

2007-05-21 05:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by . 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to say something to make her feel better, shes got bronchitus, or atleast to show her how much I care about her and that I dont like seeing her this way

2007-05-21 05:38:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I've been in a few long term relationships and I find the ones that are usually the most fun or most 'successful' are the ones where me and the other person dont spend every waking moment together. I mean, we see each other a few nights a week 2-4, hang out.. watch movies, go out to dinner, whatever. I find when I am in a relationship where i live with a person all we do is fight and complain, its like we spend soo much time together that we dont really appreciate the time we spend together.

Is this a common thing or am I just socially hosed?

2007-05-21 05:36:44 · 6 answers · asked by Drew W 2 in Singles & Dating

It's a BJ for men but what is it called for women?

2007-05-21 05:34:46 · 13 answers · asked by Here kitty kitty 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend which is fixing to be in college (19), cheated on his girlfriend, with her friend (16) in the back of his truck. I want to tell her, but hes my bestfriend and I'm going to see him this week, and how can I look at him without blowing up on him for cheating on his girlfriend with another girl in the back of his truck?

2007-05-21 05:33:24 · 7 answers · asked by punkprincessluvspink91 1 in Singles & Dating

I read with shock the answers to the question below. My oldest uncle tried that. He brought the other woman, now wife, to a family event. Everyone ignored her. They still ignore her. No one else in the family has done that ( at least no one knows about it.) It is disresepctful to not only the former spouse but the kids and family. Why do people do that crap?

----Why did you ACCEPT THE OW or OM so easily?
This question is to in-laws, neighbors, friends, relatives, co-workers.

This isn't a challenge. I just want to know. Did you think that this may happen to you? How would you feel if your spouse had an affair and then left you for that person and everyone around you, while saying that they like and love you and are supposedly your friends, open up and simply substitute you with the new person?

I am over him. I couldn't have such a liar back in my life. I am just very disappointed. Maybe that is why people are voting for Rudy Guilliani. That is just how it is.-------

2007-05-21 05:33:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I already know that this question should not be in this category but people like to answer here so I'll try here. Recently people have been adding me to their contacts after I answered thier questions and so I want to know what you think on why they are adding me to thier contacts. And people here who have added me I am not complaining but I want to know why.

2007-05-21 05:31:59 · 37 answers · asked by Nich 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean I really don’t get people who do it. Isn’t it disrespecting themselves? Why do something that’s so immoral just for sex and money? Have they no shame? Don’t they worry who on earth is going to go out with them because of what they do for a living?

2007-05-21 05:30:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to go see my guy friend this weekend. We live 3 hours away from each other. There are different things that he said that made me wonder if he is starting to want more. I told him about a job that was open and he said well they have jobs like that here too. Then he was talking about guy nights and how he felt like if he was serious with someone he could not have that. Then he said well with the right girl I probably could. Was he hinting or am I totally misreading him?

2007-05-21 05:29:32 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

If you think that you are in a happy marriage, are you absolutely sure that your spouse is also happily married? If you are the unhappy spouse in a marriage, have you told your spouse that you're unhappy? Or do you just pretend to be happy to keep the peace and avoid the verbal abuse, like me?

2007-05-21 05:29:23 · 16 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What are the main advantages of getting married compare being single?

2007-05-21 05:27:00 · 11 answers · asked by Ahangar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, weve been friends since sophmore year of highschool. weve been thru so much together. He moved out of my life for a year to miami to go to college but moved home a year later cause he missed home too much. We act like were in a relationship but we dont have sex. Although weve had our drunken nights in the past. He once told me he was in love with me things ended up getting a little bit weird then we were fine. We are like Will & Grace. I am single and he is a major reason i dont try to get a boyfriend he is holding me back. Do i let go of him and risk making the worse decision of my life (which i see being the hardest thing i ever do) or do i just spill my guts to him and risk rejection. or do i just keep things the way they are cause i love him more than anything . I never thought id end up in this kind of situation =( so hard

2007-05-21 05:26:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why?

2007-05-21 05:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not sure if I am crazy; absurdly jealous or way too accommodating...

My boyfriend of going on two years seems to cycle through girl “friends” with systematic regularity… about every 3 months he has another friend is part of his conversation regularly… he gets text messages and calls from these women and then they cycle off…

I finally called him on it the last time around… maybe I am nuts; but I don’t think that if you live with someone; you should be having multiple casual relationships with other people… I don’t have any “guy” friends who call me at home. I don’t have any guy friends who txt me at random hours and if I did; trust me; he would not be nearly as accommodating as I am.

Again; maybe it is me… my ex-husband cheated as did a long term boyfriend and I never once suspected… now I am hyper-sensitive and don’t want to be made a fool of again…

2007-05-21 05:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My 18 year old daughter is dating a half white half mexican guy... Help!!..Im NOT racist.I let her hang out with all different kinds of people.I just dont want her to marry a different culture than her because she dont understand other racis...She is white and I think she should marry into her own culture because shes familiar with it.She told me she loves him.!!.What can I do to get her to understand that she belongs with a white man??

2007-05-21 05:21:30 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you saw a really good looking man/woman in a bar say, ould you be a little scared of approachin them if you really liked them?
experiences would be good lol!!

2007-05-21 05:20:06 · 18 answers · asked by inapickle 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-21 05:20:03 · 4 answers · asked by chantelle_gancerez 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-21 05:19:48 · 10 answers · asked by monkeymom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does that mean if you are not going you don't respond?

2007-05-21 05:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by tinker bell 2 in Weddings

Hubbie and I have been married for eight years. We have two kids. I think we are in some kind of "platonic" stage in our marriage. Our sex life is ziltch. At first, several years ago, we tried hard to keep the sparks going but slowly it has disappeared where we have sex maybe once every two months or so. Neither of us wants it this way, it just seems like it is just too much work to keep it going. When we fall into bed at night all we are looking for is sleep. We love each other bunches but now it's more like a close friendship. Have you ever been through this? If so, were you able to change it? How?

2007-05-21 05:19:09 · 25 answers · asked by 4532 3 in Marriage & Divorce