Does this sound suspicious?

Question

ok, my girl goes off on a trip to visit a friend. Her friends friend a man is organizing her a place to stay. She talks again about he is her friends friend. Then I have to drive all night to go pick her up because things have gone sour between her and the guy who she rented the place from. While I was on the phone she said 'thats it I am never meeting anybody from myspace again' meaning she met him on myspace. She was talking passionately and made a slip up revealing that.. Now when I arrive after driving forever, she is very affectionate and is now punting the story that he was her girl pals friend. I did not call her up on her little slip up about myspace.

So its her friends friend, then she met him on myspace, then back to her friends friend.

Does this sound suspicious?

Answer 1

Well there is the possibility that it was her friends friend from my space. so she could have not been lying.

But it does sound a lil suspicious to me.
I would say that you confront her about it and ask her what is up because sounds like there is a piece of the story you don't know, that you deserve to know.

Answer 2

Your best bet by far is to DEFINITELY stay away from married guy friends new ones and old ones that you haven't seen for years.Look up the word adultery and contemplate being a person whom does that. Also when you are an outsider you really can't judge the whole picture of the married relationship you may be offending. You will only hear His side of the story and that story will have been edited to make him out to be the innocent victim and his wife to be the cause of all his woes.What if there are children involved ? An adulterous relationship destroys so many lives potentially. Would you want to be a cause to the break up of a family?Think very hard ON what the consequences are of doing such an evil thing like knowingly have a sexual relationship with some one that does not belong to you but is promised to another?

Answer 3

*Yeah well I hate to heighten your suspicions, but yes...it sounds like she got herself caught.

.Now I would say confront her about it, but of course she will deny it, and say that she never said anything about myspace to you...and that you are crazy for even thinking of such a thing!

.Yeah so this is really a matter of your personal choice, and what your gut is telling you. You should always listen to your gut instinct, and if you feel her story is a little shaky and suspicious or whatever then 9 times out of 10 it probably is.

.*So I think that maybe you should call it quits with her, b/c without trust you don't really have a relationship. And I think that if you are having a problem believing what she told you, and the fact that she blurted out to you that she met him over myspace, pretty much gives you your answer. Now it's up to you to decide whether or not she's worth keeping around or not.

.good luck.

Answer 4

Yes it does. But she could have met him on myspace through her friend that she met on their. So dont rush to a judgement.

But you do need to find out because it sounds alittle weird to me personally. Do you know her friend that is friends with this guy? If so, ask her about him. If not, ask her about this friend of hers because she may not exist, and she may be seeing another guy.

Ask her how she met this guy, did she just run into him at her friend's place, did she meet him some where with her friend, did her friend get them together for her to rent a place? ask her about it without bringing up the myspace thing. Then, if her answers are alittle sketchy, tell her that she said something about meeting him on myspace. Tell her its ok and that you understand. Saying that to her might make her confess anything. If she says its nothing and that it is her friend's friend still.

Say that you want to meet her girl friend. Say that you 2 should get together with her and have dinner or something. Then if she says ok and you actually have dinner with that girl, wait til after dinner, when you are around her friend without your girl there, just casually bring up that guy and ask her how the apartment thing is working out between your girl and him.

If everything seems fine and the questions you have are answered and it doesnt seem like she is cheating, then dont worry about it.

If things still seem sketchy, then tell your girlfriend about that you know. tell her that if she doesnt tell you everything about that guy, then you dont know if you can continue the relationship. If she doesnt want to tell you, then she obviously doesnt care about your relationship so end it anyways.

Answer 5

Can you somehow get on her myspace profile? That would tell you right there what she is up to. Why don't you just flat out ask her what is going on? It sounds suspicious to me...

Answer 6

very suspicious. You should ask her about it. If it sounds like she's lying or wiggling around, get rid of her instantly. You don't need anybody who doesn't care about you enough to tell you the truth.

Answer 7

yes....very suspicious. Sounds to me like she may have been checking out other options. Confront her with it. Tell her you know the truth and that she needs to come clean.

Answer 8

sorry to say but yes it dose a little bit....
but if she was cheating so probaly wouldnt have told you it was a man she was meeting. i would try and have a look at this persons myspae profile but make sure you dont let her find out your sneeking just to make sure because she will get hurt...and mad

Answer 9

it sounds weird but sometimes things like that happen. to get mad until you find out what really is going on, she was affectionate with you because you took that long drive to go get her. ask her what is really going on. then you determine from there what to do.

Answer 10

She thinks she is a player. If I were you, I would have made her find her own ride home. Fool, fool fool.