If you tell on a person hows going to commite sucide dose it make you a bad person?

Question

my frieand took a whole bottle of muscle relxer and some other pills and I told the school they took him away now that his back he hate's me so much. its killing me inside .plez help im only 16 and i feel like i want to take my life because the pian of me know that he hates me is killing me

Thank you for your advice

Answer 1

you did the right thing, one day your friend will realize this and thank you for being such a good friend to him, he may not know it now because he is angry and isn't thinking clearly because of his bad emotional and psychological state, but you shouldn't feel bad about what you did because it was out of the kindness of your heart...

Answer 2

You did the right thing here no matter how he feels about it. Just think of how you would have felt knowing what you did but yet did nothing and he overdosed? Someday when his life is back together, he will thank you for not letting him end it. Youre a hero and being a hero is not always easy but a fact nonetheless. You should never feel bad about saving someones life as its the most precious thing that God gave us. Life is not always an easy journey but things can change around in a day and none of us ever knows what tomorrow will bring. God is very proud of you for saving him. He probably doesnt hate you as much as the idea that he didnt succeed. Be patient he will be back around soon.

Answer 3

I'm sorry your friend put you in the position of feeling guilty for saving his life. His anger is misplaced, and so is your guilt. Whether you're spiritually inclined or not, part of being human is doing what you can to protect others when you can do it. That's what you did. I know you're sad, but you should tell yourself, and him, you do it again in a second if you could.

Depression is tricky, because it's not like drug or alcohol abuse. I mean, if this kid came up to you said "I'm gonna snort cocaine until I die!" it'd feel different, because there is a stigma attached to that kind of illness that's officially sanctioned even by the drug users themselves...like, they'll thank for it once they're sober.

But depression isn't ANY different. Your friend has an imbalance, caused by circumstance or genetics, that's making him feel the way he's feeling. Depressed people certainly seem more lucid and aware than drug addicts, but they live their life behind a fog that changes them. It's that FOG that is angry with you, not the person. Like heroin, that chemical fog wants to win. And it will do what it can to win. Including push away the people who want to help and save them.

The truth is you can only help to a certain point. And in the end, you don't answer to your friend, but your own conscience. It kicked in and saved a person's life. Be glad for that.

Answer 4

Nope far from being a bad person or friend, you are the best of people and the best friend to have. You care about somebody besides yourself. Thank God there are people like you in the world. Stay just like you are. Do not let anyone tell you that you did a bad thing. Just know that the person will dislike you for what you did but you did it out of love. Not many people have the courage that you showed.

Answer 5

I guess he can not see what a really good friend you really are and how you actually saved him from hurting himself .If he really wanted to kill him self he would of definitely not let any one now about it .he may just be crying out for help and didn't expect you to tell anyone and get him in trouble .Nothing is worth killing your self .You seem like you knew the right thing to do even thought it may have cost you a good friend so why would you put other people who love you through the same thing.PLEASE DO NOT KILL YOUR SELF !

Answer 6

First off, you should talk to someone you trust immediately about how you feel. You did the right thing. Sometimes things seem really bad, but it would have been worst if he actually took his life. Would you have been able to deal with that? Its much better to have someone mad at you then to have them gone. The anger will subside eventually, so just remember that you did the right thing.

Answer 7

he will be mad for a while becuz he feels like you betrayed him but he will get over it and you were only concerned about his well being so you did the right thing by telling if he didnt want help he wouldnt have let you know he took the pills he would have did it when he was alone were no one could save him so dont feel bad he'll get over it

Answer 8

you did the right thing
and yeah they might hate you now but
you help them and they dont relize it
don't say those thing like i want to take my life
because you wouldn't for one thing you help your friend out
a good friend helps there friend out they dont understand how good of a friend you really are there jus mad
because they didn;t want to deal the the problem and thought that taking a whole bunch of pills would help take care of there problem and what ever pain they had
my friend was in a situation and trun to drugs his older brother got him in on it i went over to there house ther mom said they where in the garge working on the cars but
they weren't i screamed real loud pulled my friend out he was ok but his brother died fromoverdoseing he hated me for a while but came around we talk about what was going on that made him want to do that but you can't force your friends to tell you all at once. they have to come on ther own trems
dont hate yourself because you did something to save others life thats a big deal your a hero when you help someone whos not in the right stat of mind
try to talk to your friend and explain the you where scared of them hurting them selfs and only trying to do what was best at the time becuase they mean alot to you

Answer 9

someday they will thank you, its hard but you did the right thing