Guys, does it matter to you if your girlfriend is a virgin or not? If your gf is a virgin and she tells you that she wants her first time to be with you, would you be ok with that? Would you be upset with your gf if you found out she was a virgin?
Thanks!
2007-05-21 06:36:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having a gf that is a virgin does put a different spin on the relationship. I have dated a girl that was a virgin in the past and it was different.
Must guys know that their gf has been with other men and that is the root of a lot of jealousy issues. The wonder if they can stack up against the others. You dont have this concern if you are dating a virgin. Also, if the guy is a decent guy at all, he wont push as much as he might with somebody who is not a virgin.
I would not get mad if before our first time the girl told me she was a virgin so I could be prepared.
I would be pissed if a gf told me she was but then it appeared that she wasnt.
Hope this helps.
2007-05-21 06:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually does not matter..
Goin by the generation and how we are moving i feel its very hard to find a virgin wife or GF. Talkin in around 5-6 years..
So i think guys should get over the mind set off being stubborn in finding a virgin gf.
If u get one then be very happy with it and give her your best.. Else try to be the best.
I would not be upset at all with my GF if i found her to be a virgin. I would be happy. But its not a criterion at all.
2007-05-21 13:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could careless if she is a virgin or not. I'm not one so it would be an adjustment but I would respect her and her choices. Her wanting me to be her first I would make sure that its her mind talking and not her...well you get the picture. I dont want to take it from her to have her regret it shortly after. Sex is something you learn over time so if that's her drive then I wouldnt see anything wrong with it. Also she has to know that once its gone that it DOESNT mean you stop respecting yourself.
2007-05-21 13:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Cool Nerd At Your Service 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't care if a girl I dated wasn't a virgin. If the girl I was dating was a virgin though, that puts a little pressure on me and I wouldn't want to be your first unless I really loved you too. I would assume most guys would have sex with you just to have sex though.
2007-05-21 13:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys it does, some guys it doesn't. It all depends on personal preference.
I would never do another virgin. The only virgin with whom I slept still tries to contact me to this day at least 6 years later. Far too clingy for me.
2007-05-21 13:40:12 · answer #5 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't care that much about the girls they date.
I know no Guy that would be upset that their Girl was a virgin, quite the opposite.
Now marry, that is a different story.
Good Luck!
2007-05-21 13:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i had a gf that was a virgin i'd be ok with it... much respect 2 her! now if she wanted me 2 be her first then wow... that is deep... she must really care about me alot then. but i'd be ok with it i don't see why not...
2007-05-21 13:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't expect anyone to be virgin. Its not possible. it just cant be possible. So, its insignificant and unnecessary to think about this non issue
It is all about having good time together, living life happily, in broader sense
2007-05-21 13:45:06 · answer #8 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has never mattered to me although it can be a lot of pressure to be someone's first. But I certainly wouldn't be upset.
2007-05-21 13:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back when I was young enough for it to be possible, it didn't matter either way. I would have stuck a snake if I could have held it still enough.
It didn't matter one way or another to me.
2007-05-21 13:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by joker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋