My friend lives next door to me and her dad gets drunk and sneaks over to my house. He has raped me already and keeps coming. I tell my parents but they dont believe me, they are drunk alot to. I am only 13 and i'm scared that i am getting pregnate, my stomach is getting bigger and i cant get to the doctor without my parents. My parents get mad at me when i try to tell them that he is having sex with me and they beat me. Then they lock me in the house so I cant run away and he comes over every night. This has been happening for 3 weeks. HELP.
2007-05-21 06:49:12 · 35 answers · asked by I_am_not_laughing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is normal so stop worrying about it.
2007-05-21 06:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by midnite_thundar 3 · 0⤊ 11⤋
If it's only been happening for 3 weeks, you're not pregnant enough for your stomach to swell. That doesn't mean that there's not a chance you're pregnant, but that you're certainly nowhere near that far along.
If your parents won't help, go to the police. If you're being raped it's illegal, the police WILL help. Call them immediately, don't ask or consult with your parents. There will be physical evidence on your body that the police can use to convict the man, so call them immediately and do not wash or change.
If you're not comfortable with the police, go to a teacher or the school nurse or the priest at the church down the road.
2007-05-21 06:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So sorry, Set him up! Call the cops and let them know or tell a teacher at your school, principal, teacher you like, tell an other neighbor that is not a drinking buddy with your parents, any one. Let them know that your parents don't believe you and are disgusted that you might be making up a lie. Put a recorder in your closet or under your bed, make sure to say his name and have him answer you. Call 911 before he comes put the phone under your pillow and scream.
2007-05-21 07:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! That is absolutely horrible. Run to the police station and fast, tell the police what is going on right away! Please...but be careful and don't' get discouraged because the police have this thing about believing adults and not children but keep pressing on. I love you and don't give up. Best of luck, truly.
2007-05-21 06:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry if i have a hard time believe thing. Your worried about getting pregnant, but your stomach is getting bigger...ummm i would htink your pregnant.
Two why are you on yahoo, why haven't you gone to the police, i wouyld think you go to school your only 13. So why not tell a teacher, the principal, a councler.
If this is happening, please tell someone there, ask to get the police, the Department of family and children. Dont wait, do it now.
2007-05-21 06:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Call the police AFTER he has sex with you - that way they can take a DNA sample and use it to prove that he has raped you. Once this happens, your parents will HAVE to believe you. I say shame on them... if you are telling the truth here, and if you are I hope you get the help you need right away.
2007-05-21 06:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Paul Hxyz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and you are allowed to see a doctor without your parents. You can also go to Planned Parenthood to go get a private pregnancy test. I hope your parents and that monster goes away for a very long time.
2007-05-21 06:54:04 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dial 9-1-1 and tell them that a man has raped you and you need help fast. Give them your information and then wait for the police to get there. They will take you to the doctors and get you evaluated and also that guy will get what he deserves. Don't tell anybody just do it. If you don't feel comfortable with that tell your principle at school. They can't ignore anything like this and they will help and protect you. Please do this its the only way for you to get your life back. If you need any help e-mail me and I will see what i can do to get you the help you need!
2007-05-21 06:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by waltdawg3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey call the cops asap and u don't technology need a doctor get a ept and i don't wanna scare u but your parents may be in on it they may be pimpin u out i no that sounds so wrong but u need to cal the cops and if u are pregnant then put ht e baby up for adoption cause u don't wanna kill the baby cause that baby didnt do anything wrong but call the cops like right now they can still get the exidence and if he come threw the window then lock it
honey im here if you need me
2007-05-21 06:56:15 · answer #9 · answered by Miss November 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG! You have got to get out of there. Got to the police, a teacher at school, another nabour(who isn't drunk) but just get the hell away from there. I wish I could come get you, and I'd kill that bastard that touched you. Please, get away and ask someone other than us to help you. I wish you all the best. Sorry this had to happen to you. I rarely feel hate, but this will turn me into a murderer.
2007-05-21 07:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's real shame when your own parents don't believe you!! You have to tell someone speak to a relative or a teacher you trust . It's going to be hard but you know it's wrong.CALL THE COPS!! No child should go through this alone .
2007-05-21 06:56:38 · answer #11 · answered by Boopalot 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋