We broke up but his brithday is on saturday. ( any advice here.)
2007-05-21 06:31:46 · 48 answers · asked by babygirl111794 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't give him a damn thing. He's an EX for a reason.
2007-05-21 06:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jen S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kind of funny that many people that answered assumed he is a jerk and that he hurt you.
By asking the question it appears that you have remained friends or that you want him back.
If you have remained friends you should know what his interest are (i.e. sports, books, clothes, etc). Dont give him jewelry, this sends the wrong message and make sure you get a humorous card, not a serious one.
If you are interested in resuming the relationship you should still stick to the ideas above. Friendship is the most important part of a relationship. Build on that first.
I have several ex's that I have remained friends with and we still exchange gifts. Clothes, music, and baseball tickets are always safe bets (as long as there are not serious love songs on the music you give him).
Good luck.
2007-05-21 06:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. He's your ex boyfriend. Not sure what the situation was for the break- up, but giving him a gift isn't necessary. If the two of you have remained friends, you can simply wish him a Happy Birthday and move on from there.
2007-05-21 06:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by HuntersMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You're a fool, if you do. At some point, you have to live your own life -- and balance resources that maybe a gift & money is better spent on your little brother or father or a family member of permanence (aunt? grandmother?) vs. a has-been relationship (no matter if you can/can't get over it). Advice: Think about things currently that can add to what you're doing day-to-day and longer term. Like reading, studying, advancing yourself career-wise, and moving toward better days AHEAD.. which means walking beyond what's behind you, boy-wise.
2007-05-21 06:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me guess. You broke up with him and he still loves you. You want to continue being just "friends". If this is the case then STOP IT. Do not buy him anything. Leave him alone. Stop trying to lessen your guilt for breaking his heart by being "friends". You are just leading him on. Let him get over you and find some one else who does want him. If the conditions are different and what I said above is not true, then just buy him a card.
2007-05-21 06:37:54 · answer #5 · answered by miklo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. He's your ex move on.
My husband has an ex wife, her gift to him is nothing. There is no obligation to give an ex anything. Friend or not. He's got kids with his ex and she still gives him noting except happy bday. But basiclly nothing.
2007-05-21 06:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends. if you both broke up on good terms and are still friends then get a cd or video game. It is too early though to give an ex a gift them.
2007-05-21 06:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lightly humorous card sighed by at lest 4-5 mutual friends and you sign it too nearest to the punch line on the inside of the card (place of most prominence) YOU deliver the card to him by hand and simply smile and wish him a happy Bday. that is thoughtful and shows you are confident and at ease returning to friendship status. classy!
2007-05-21 06:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by sdy12003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both friends and on okay terms then I would say a nice Hallmark card!! Nothing romantic or mushy -you don't want mixed feelings get like a funny friends card to show you care in a friendly way. Please don't go any further than that!!
2007-05-21 06:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by Shayk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You broke up. You don't owe him a thing. In fact, you are better off NOT giving him something, which would suggest that you wanted to get back together. Awkward!
2007-05-21 06:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋