This guy and I are talking (not dating) and he said he was interested in me. Soon it became a connection and we started to like eachother. We would txt everyday and even had cute nicknames for eachother. I started to have feelings for him. Then I didn't have my phone for about a month, but I used my friends phone and talked to him sparingly. When I got my phone back I made sure to txt him and we were fine but he said he was busy. He then asked a question about my sex life and I told him the honest answer and it seemed like he was upset. He stopped calling me baby and stuff. So then I would text him but he would be busy. And the other day, I asked him if he still liked me and he said, "I think I still like you, I mean we haven't really talked in a month" What does that mean...that he doesn't like me anymore, or that he moved on? What should I ask or say to find out the truth?
2007-05-21 06:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by Me nutrit Me destruit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He always says that he wants to come see me and visit me..so is some spark still there?
2007-05-21 06:33:12 · update #1
That means he didn't really like you to begin with, he was just playing with you to see what he could get, and once you told him the answer he didn't want to hear, he dropped you.
Let him go, and find another guy who will appreciate you!
2007-05-21 06:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would look at it as he moved on. You didnt talk much for a month so he probably used some of that time you two would have been talking to meet others and develop with them. I would take it as he's lost the level of interest that he had before and move on. I know it sucks but you seem young and these things will happen. You cant expect every person you meet to be the one and be upset of unacceptable when things dont work. You might as well get used to this b/c it will happen more often than you think. Keep in touch with him and move on to other interests you have. Life's too short to dwell over one guy.
2007-05-21 13:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cool Nerd At Your Service 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this guy is possibly looking for a woman with whom he can engage himself sexually. So it seems that his mind is not in the same place as yours. You seem to want to enjoy a person thoroughly, you must know there are many who only are looking for one thing at that time. The conversations and texts daily are exciting and give a guy something to look for. I don't think that there is a big I WANT TO ONLY HAVE SEX MOTIVE. However, there was at once one frequent way you would communicate, then it was reduced drastically. The guy may actually feel slighted. You guys were building a connection and it was fractured for a month. Most guys are on the hunt unless a woman can slow them down or stop them. You had him then do the circumstances lost a part of him. I wouldn't ask anything of him. I think that if you make yourself too available to him it's a bad thing. If the guy wants to talk he will. If you have to make him talk to you, that's not the one for you. The one for you will cling to your heels because he is truly into you. (smile) You cannot miss what you never really had. There's someone in your world or on their way to you world that is waiting for the opportunity to sweep you off your feet.
2007-05-21 13:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to spend some time talking in person for a while in order to find out.
2007-05-21 13:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Egghead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him streight out.. what is the deal her .. are we an item or not.. just want to know as if not i am moving on.. you didnt say what you answer was on the sex issue but maybe he didnt like it..
2007-05-21 13:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your answer is more important than your relationship and he is having problems with it ---- if he cant get past it then he does not truly care for you ---- sorry and best wishes
2007-05-21 13:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u told hi something that unconfort him look he was waiting for a answer of his pleasure
2007-05-21 13:06:49 · answer #7 · answered by Shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he likes you to chase him don't give up get moving.
2007-05-21 13:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Bent Wheel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋