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my friend's 1st husband died in accident and she married one of her friend and she had one boy of 10 years old. he is friendly with her son . they got married 6months before withour permission of his parents and still he is not informing his parents and they are not living together . if she gives pressure to him he irritated and what she should do now what type of step she can take pl suggest

2007-05-21 06:18:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

16 answers

I don't understand the problem.

2007-05-21 06:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Feel Realgood 2 · 0 0

I'm not sure I understand the situation. Are you saying that your friend has a son of 10 years old from her first marriage and her second husband neither lives with them nor acknowledges the marriage to his family? Why exactly did she marry him? I mean, she must have known that he wasn't going to move in with her. She must have realized that he didn't want to tell his parents. She knew what he was when she married him. If you pick up a snake, you should plan to get bitten.
The only thing she can do is like it or lump it. Live with it or end it. She can't force him to do anything for her (not take care of her or her child, not tell his parents, and not move in with her) so she can either deal with the situation as it is OR she can divorce him.

2007-05-21 06:28:24 · answer #2 · answered by Manda B 4 · 0 0

Obviously you are not from my culture.
In my culture, people get married and live together without having to ask anyone's permission. Unless they are under the age of 16, in most states.
My feeling is this "man" needs to grow some guts and tell his parents what he did, live openly with his wife, and her son, and be happy.
If she has to pressure him to do the right thing, he is not a grown man.
If he won't respect and honor his wife and their union, then there isn't much she can do, but tell him to grow up.
I am so sorry you all don't live in my culture, so you can have a chance for a happy life.
PS It is not your place to do anything, but support your friend, and be nice to her. If she is big enough to get married, she is big enough to handle one puny little man.

2007-05-21 06:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0 0

number one he sounds like a mama's boy and we are talking his age is way over 18 or 21 right


i mean come on he sounds more like a kid than a man

get a anolment and move on find some that wants to be that man she needs and wants in her and her sons life

and has she realized that the only time he comes over is to get some bed time and that maybe he just married her feeling guilty because her husband died and she was in a mess

2007-05-21 07:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

Girlfriend needs to be the adult she thinks she is. She needs to open her mouth and let it all out. They are married adults. At their age they need no one's permission to be together. He needs to step up and out. He needs to be the man. I wonder how long they will last if he can't be the man. He needs to say Mom and Dad we are married and living together as man and wife. They may be upset-but he can turn and walk away from it to. I say you may be escorting your friend down the isle yet again in a couple of years if they can't stand up and be adults.

2007-05-21 06:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0 0

How does she comprehend he's "mendacity" while you're no longer attentive to what precisely she is asserting and doing . the actuality she is getting protecting without even understanding could be a cue that there is in actuality something that's making him uncomfortable which triggered him to point it to you . i could attempt to locate somebody else to take him to his scientific care . in case you adult men are previous some places will supply county transportation to and from appointments for little to no charge . i could attempt to talk extra on your husband . There could be of project he's not telling you what replaced into pronounced as a results of fact he would not prefer your thoughts harm via some off the wall words pronounced via Diann . permit him comprehend while ever he's keen to talk it extra you're keen to hearken to . some adult men attempt to be extra modest and could no longer flow into info of a female working off on the mouth ignorantly at their mate . this can be the case . My father was one in each and every of those guy . Gave sufficient information to warn somebody that somebody else isn't as stable a pal or confidant as they could think of , yet in itself no longer help unfold what ever rumor or undesirable mouthing replaced into going around . stable success sweetie !

2016-11-25 22:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Here in the states an adult married couple doesn't need to inform anyone that they are married, they do not need anyone's permission to marry they can marry anyone they choose. There is nothing to "handle" here.

2007-05-21 06:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Why does this man want to be married? There's something really strange here. If I were her, I'd hire a private detective to check this guy out. There could be something very wrong.

2007-05-21 06:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0 0

Join the circus, they like clowns

2007-05-21 06:20:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if the guy is over 18, he doesn't have to tell his parents...not push the issue...

2007-05-21 06:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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