Boys...Men...Confuesed...?

Question

Hi, I am asking this question to the gents out there. Why do boys/men say they want stupid girls to date and all. But, when they want to get married, they say they want intelligent girls who can have conversations.

Also, why can't guys treat women right? I mean, if you treat us right, we will love you, come on, isn't that what you want.

Also, if a girl is really pretty and attractive, HOW and WHAT would boys/men do to flirt with her, etc.

Answer 1

Men DON'T want stupid girls. You heard wrong.

Why can't guys treat women right? Why can't women tell men how they really want to be treated? Every day I hear women say how they want to be treated like royalty, but every day I see women chase after guys who will treat them like crap because they think they can CHANGE them. Ugh....

If a guy thinks a girl's attractive, he'll either go up and start talking to her, or let her be since she's probably too hot to be single.

Answer 2

If a man wants a "stupid" girl to date, it must be a control issue, to the extent that it's about fun and sex, nothing more. Dumb chicks are easier to take advantage of and blow off than the smart ones. But, yes, intelligence is important in a LTR. No guy wants a dit in the house who has to be supervised. For a marriage to be balanced, the woman has to be able to think. Anyway, there has to be something to do after the sex, like have an intelligent conversation.

Now, it is inappropriate to infer that no men ever treat any women right. If my wife is happy, I'm happy. I like to keep it that way. At the same time, I've had my share of lying, manipulative little bitches. I don't regard all women as the same, it would be unfair and shallow.

Flirting is as different as each personality. Some men like pre-packaged pickup lines (Your feet must be tired, because you've been running through my mind all night). Some use the "Ghetto" or what I call Neanderthal approach, making crude comments (I'd sure like to check all that junk in your trunk, baby-girl). Some guys just come on clean. It starts with a smile or a wink, maybe just saying "hi." I've found the best way is to start out friendly and casual and see where it goes from there.

Answer 3

To answer your first question, I'd say guys like to date girls they can take advantage of, ones with low self esteem, IE: Dumb Girls. But they look at these girls just for dating, because they need more in a women they would marry.

Guys treat women to get what they want out of women. The dating world is about finding two things: sex or a happy marriage/ relationship. So the way a guy treats you is dependent on which of these two things they are after.

Their are many ways to engage in flirting. But you have to engage a women in conversation. Something like "what hasn't someone told you today?" could start a conversation in any direction. Show you have some sort of a personallity, and your golden. Next step, find out what you want from this conversation (what we talked about above), next step seal the deal.

Answer 4

Men want to date a stupid girl because they know it will be easy to score (know what i mean) and when they get married they know that if they have an intelligent one the girl will stay and don't leave and any ways ways married its sometimes forever and having someone smart they will have a nice life. If you treat a man right they will treat u right but mans should always treat a girl right even on the worst time because that will give a good detail from men's.

Answer 5

i want to date a lady (if she will have me) as or more intelligent than i am ---- i may not succeed BUT i do try to treat a lady with respect kindness and love

i dont flirt nor do i talk at least face to face to start with ---- i am better online (they cant see me) --- i prefer to have a conversation with the lady

Answer 6

It is fun to fool around with stupid girls.