I always seem to be attracted to girls with boyfriends and go after them. I talk to a girl I like a lot, try to hang around with them, joke with them, flirt occasionally and then BOOM, what do I find out, they have a boyfriend. I don't find this out until someone else tells me or I find out for myself of course. It's caused me many Goddammits and I would really like to know why I am always attracted to these girls and even if they have boyfriends...what to do about it. Cause you know I'm a playa...haha, yeah, so what do you guys think?
2007-05-21 06:09:53 · 13 answers · asked by Chris G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't totally you...the girls who have boyfriends are mre secure, and will flirt & chat for the attention, knowing full well they have nothing to worry about - and they don't have the stress that always happens wanting to meet someone new.
Girls who don't have boyfriends are a lot more shy and reserved, nd getting a conversation going can be hard due to being nervous.
2007-05-21 06:13:54 · answer #1 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just attracted to the females that are laid back and comfortable. The carefree ones, that is some of the qualities we posses as taken women, it's not you at all. SOME single women are usually on the prowl and some men don't like that. It's like when I wasn't in a relationship I didn't get as many takers as I do now. I came to find out that when I didn't have a man I was looking and without knowing it probably looked desperate. But when I gave up and had fun my guy found me and now I get more offers than I can handle. Again, it's the vibe women have, especially the taken ones. Don't give up eventually you will pick one that is not taken, never settle for less, good luck.
2016-05-18 23:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by rosalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I think that you should find out if a girl is taken or single BEFORE you put all the effort into flirting. "Playas" can usually spot single girls, so maybe you need to kick you skills up a notch.
2007-05-21 06:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by ..... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because girls with boyfriends are usually happy and confident and that is probably what you are attracted to.
I know when I am in a happy relationship it seems that I get more guys attention. A big smile goes a long way :)
2007-05-21 06:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by asking away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...a girl youre interested in, has a boyfriend, because if you think shes great, then someone else thinks that too. these girls dont go unoticed so its no wonder that theyre already hooked up. next, "what to do about it" is up to you. if you think youre a "playa" then go ahead and play your games, but dont cry if you dont win. after all, youre playing with fire...
2007-05-21 06:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Love101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a line you can use to save you all those embarrassing moments - start with this - "Hey, who you dating these days?" then go from there.... if you have the nerve to talk,joke and whatever with the girls - then speak up and save your sanity.
2007-05-21 06:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because usually the girls with boyfriends are confident and that is attractive to most and also it could be b/c they have boyfriends! their off limits and untouchable! everyone wants what they cant have!!! later, allison
2007-05-21 06:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is a challenge to get them. They are not available and you see it as a game to try to take them away from there boy friend. Then once you get them you won't want them. Becareful it is fun at first but it gets you into trouble!
2007-05-21 06:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by chris m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe b/c you think they're more open with their BFs. Or with you. Either way, say you'd like to be friends and see what happens.
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2007-05-21 06:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lauren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny!!! do one thing man! ask the girl in the first meeting .....
So howz ur boy friend doing! :p
2007-05-21 06:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Gravity!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋