Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

He gets his and then its overwith and it only lasts usually about 2 minutes. i don't know how to talk to him about this and I don't wanna cheat, but there is this at work I'm attracted to who is having relationship problems and we vibe, I just don't want either one of us to get caught in a volitle situation.

2007-05-09 05:52:45 · 11 answers · asked by mlilmonica53 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone have any general knowledge or statistics on this? I'm wondering just how strong a committed relationship or marriage can be going forward when they began as an extramarital affair. It would seem to me that whether one or both has been deceitful with their own spouses during the affair, they can't very well trust one another afterward. Also, does not the lingering guilt make the new relationship have a strike against it from the start. I can't imagine being very happy knowing I'd taken someone away from their family for my own selfish needs. But maybe that's just me.

2007-05-09 05:51:23 · 6 answers · asked by joe friday's grrl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a small town/city, there were only decent, loving and caring, well educated honest, no racist, none smoker/drinker (alcohol) none cheater on his/her partner/boyfriend/girlfriend/ wife and friendly, geniune people only??

2007-05-09 05:51:04 · 15 answers · asked by fatanlonely845 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been talking to a girl I dated a couple of years back and had the pleasure of taking he out on a couple of dates over the last few months, but she is making it very difficult for me to pursue a relationship with her: She rarely answers my phone calls and takes about 1 day to 1 week to call me back. Under normal circumstances I wouldnt care but I really like this girl. I figure that if she really wanted to have nothing to do with me she wouldnt call back at all or at least tell me straight up. Next time she calls should I not pick up and call her back a few days later just to put the burn in her stomach, or pick up and play it cool, or ????? need help.

2007-05-09 05:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by geroge d 1 in Singles & Dating

i was snooping which i shouldnt have been doing and i found an envelope with 5 letters from some girl named sondra they said stuff like meet me here at blah blah time and dont tell your wife and i hope ur wife didnt find out about our date and ill be the one in the sexy dress with no underware ill signed sexy sondra and other bad things what should i do dont want to get in trouble for cheating and i dont even know if he is but i dont want to let him get away with it if he is he doesnt seem like that kinda person but thats kinda cold hard eveidence

2007-05-09 05:47:24 · 35 answers · asked by lill a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I see her every day and i know shes gonna bi+ch if i delete some of her comments (myspace)

So my question is, does she get notified, like by myspace or whateva??? or is it the perfect crime to get rid of this boring chicks comments which are cluttering my...myspace

2007-05-09 05:45:26 · 14 answers · asked by tom1122bb 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom passed away going on 2 years now when she passed me my 2 kids and my mother were living together my brothers would come and stay for a while and leave after several months. While they were there she would take care of them completly like feed them clothe them and give them money as well so when she passed she asked me to keep the family together. Which I have tried.In doing so I am losing my apartment because I can't pay my bills while trying to honor her request. since she has passed they won't leave they have never held a job. they are in thier early to late 40s and when they have money they never offer any for bills or anything and I can't get rid of them. Also mycousin lost her apartment last year and her her son and a dog came to stay with me as well. To add to all that no one pays any bill but me. I am taking my kids to a shelter and going to try and rebuild my life

2007-05-09 05:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by ladym 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a question.
Would it be ok if the man didnt orgasm if the woman didnt orgasm? Because I dont always orgasm when we're having sex and sometimes it doesnt feel good...its uncomfortable, so would it be bad to ask for him to just stop and not orgasm?

or is that rude to ask?

2007-05-09 05:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 05:41:56 · 48 answers · asked by John D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will tell you why i should be. I had a one night stand about a year ago and just found out I fathered a child from this. My first reaction was there was no way I was the father because I had a vasectomy about 2 years ago, but we had a DNA test done and yep it is mine. Now you would think I would be happy cause now I can sue the doctor for malpractice. Easy payday right??? Wrong!!! I can't sue because that would mean I would have to tell my wife I was unfaithful. Talk about if it wasn't for back luck I'd have no luck at all

2007-05-09 05:40:06 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was in a drug treatment center for 6 weeks than when i got out my boyfriends mom told my social worker she gave everything i owned and her grandsons stuff away now i get very angry just thinking about it, i'm having a hard time just letting it go i have absouletly nothing no clothes dishes toys nothing can i charge her or something anything this is so not fair

2007-05-09 05:37:58 · 4 answers · asked by Tanyelll 1 in Family

I found out that my husband was opening profiles for sex dating sites in our area. He looks at porn abiut 20 times a day. The porn part is fine..i guess...but the fact hat he opened up a personal profile & put info about him and what he wanted in a woman for sex. Said married for a year & looking for a one time sex fling in my area. include your phone #.....it got in detail personally about him self. I want to leave him because of what hes done but hes leaving for a iraq fora year and i dont want to upset him while hes there because of the dangerous mission hes on. What should i do??

2007-05-09 05:37:21 · 83 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The catch is that, during this particular song, I'll be dancing with my new mother-in-law while my new wife dances with her new father-in-law. It'd be nice to have a slow sentimental song about welcoming a new member of the family, general friendship, taking care of one's son/daughter, etc. Any song suggestions?

2007-05-09 05:34:44 · 10 answers · asked by hallmanjj 4 in Weddings

I would like to know some things about Babylon 5. If anyone can tell me enough details to be able to talk to this guy. I want to be able to carry on a conversation and not seem like a total girl. Thank you for any help.

2007-05-09 05:34:31 · 4 answers · asked by Kelley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 05:30:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how would you feel? Would you allow her to be in contact with her ex-boyfriends, by phone, text or msn?

2007-05-09 05:30:06 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am usually happiest when I am in a relationship and I have been single for over a year. I have a good job and I live alone I just feel like I have some kind of a void in my life. Is it wrong to feel this way? Should I be happy with what I have instead of being upset what I dont have?

2007-05-09 05:29:47 · 32 answers · asked by hollygolightly 5 in Singles & Dating

made up, real, from a book, what ever....

- big events in our lives should be done under the open sky
- it is bad luck to be married after noon
- the bride and groom must go into isolation for 14 days before the marriage
- and many more please

2007-05-09 05:26:15 · 3 answers · asked by grey_worms 7 in Weddings

2007-05-09 05:26:07 · 28 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been online dating for only a month and I havent had much success. Then men will talk for a few emails and then they disapear. What gives? How do I meet someone serious?

2007-05-09 05:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by hollygolightly 5 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i are not talking at the moment and i just didnt feel guilty about startin to like her bf

2007-05-09 05:23:46 · 12 answers · asked by Coco 2 in Friends

One night while sleeping. (I had a cold and took some meds) my husband had sex with me while I was sleeping. I have not been able to get over this. We are currently seperated and I am thinking of divorce. I am in counseling and on depression med. There are other things in the relationship that are problematic. IE: bills, trust. I know in my heart I should move on. This is marriage #2. Any advice? Thoughts?

2007-05-09 05:21:26 · 31 answers · asked by sadgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would choose some where probally on a beach or on a cruse ship rented out to us..

2007-05-09 05:18:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok i have been married for going on a year. I am wanting to plan a romantic event for me and my wife because i feel as if she deserves it. The only problem is, we arent made of money. I am a soldier in the US Army, which equals poverty...LOL Well my question is, what can i do that doesnt cost an arm and a leg...like what resturants are beautiful but not expensive, or any other ideas like romantic parks or stuff around Georgia. Thanks

2007-05-09 05:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Rick R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a big girl and have been witht his dude for 2 years. I use to be comfortable with taking all my clothes off when it came down to sex. Well, recently he asked me to ride him. I refused because i told him I will hurt you. (He is skinny!) ANyhow, now I refuse to take off my shirt during sex. I get uncomfortable. he gets mad when i don't takes it off. So he takes it off hisself but I can't overcome the uncomfortable feeling. I lovee being big but I am scared to get on top because i might hurt him. What should I do!!!

2007-05-09 05:16:55 · 19 answers · asked by babywitback 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that most of the people in the world now days have camera phones. i have one myself. the question is, what do you really use your camera phone for??

nudy pictures of b/f or g/f
making home videos
or do you use them to just take pictures of whatever??
Or do you even use it at all???

2007-05-09 05:13:54 · 22 answers · asked by **Q-T-Pi** 3 in Singles & Dating

Im tired of the sex with my husband, it's always the same. i have the best sex with my lover(we dont' love each other). but can i find another love that i won't be tired of having sex with? Or is every marriage like this? i've been married for 5 years and Im so bored and depressed.....

2007-05-09 05:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to be rude but I have at least one of my ex's family members call me and ask how our son is and if I can work things out with my ex. They always say he is really sorry and he will be better next time, but I know he won't. They must think that if they ask enough then I will give in. How should I deal with them it has been months of this. his parents are older and I don't want to be rude.

2007-05-09 05:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am engaged to this really great guy. BUT everytime I see his pictures, I jump back, and feel scared. What the hell is that. We met through mutual friends and we had exchanged photos first. Well I had said no when I saw the pic, cause he scared me. But my friend convinced me to meet him ,I did and obviously we are doing well! BUT, is this a cause for concern? Do pictures tell more than what meets the eye?

2007-05-09 05:08:02 · 17 answers · asked by jennaj 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and the guy i am with now is 20. When i first got with him, he had broke up with his ex girlfreind four months prior to getting with me. Since then, she has continued to call him to do stupid favors for her and ask him for little favors. One night she even called him up to ask him to stay the night with her for she could pack her things and he could help move her things into her moms house the next morning. Of course I got mad. Him being a very sweet person told her no that I wouldn't be happy about it. Well just recently I had found out that he went out and bought her a blue tooth head phones that cost 50 dollars and a pack of cigerattes. I asked him why he still hangs around her and (she does have ovarie cancer and is a crack addict) he told me because of her "problem" and that he's afraid she would kill herself and he would feel responisble. So now I'm wondering, does he still love her?

2007-05-09 05:07:57 · 16 answers · asked by greenmarkalyssa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships