Im tired of the sex with my husband, it's always the same. i have the best sex with my lover(we dont' love each other). but can i find another love that i won't be tired of having sex with? Or is every marriage like this? i've been married for 5 years and Im so bored and depressed.....
2007-05-09 05:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by Top Contributor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you took vows "for better or for worse"...ring a bell? If you're bored with your husband, tell him and maybe the 2 of you can figure out a way to spice it up. He's supposed to be your best friend, talk to him. Who knows, maybe he feels the same and is just to insecure with himself to approach you. Don't turn away from him, it could be the worst mistake you could ever make.
2007-05-09 05:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by whatever2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing is.. that you probably could have gotten all of that from your husband if you would have went to him prior to cheating. Now you will end in a divorce. If you have children, you will break their hearts. And your husband will be jaded for all other women. All because you could not take your needs to him... Darlin' it may be too late, but you should really go talk to him and see if this could be worked out and maybe he can become what you desire. Most men are more than willing to spice it up, should they get the opportunity
Or maybe you should not be married. Good Luck to You.
~Goddess Bless!
2007-05-09 06:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess Bless, Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took vows "for better or for worse". Instead of just cheating on him, why don't you tell him of your issues in the bedroom. Talk it out. There are always other ways to spice things up. If not, then give him a divorce. If you're already bored with him after 5 years then you shouldn't be together.
My husband and I are hitting our 5th anniversary next week and our sex life is heating up. Every week things get hotter and hotter.
2007-05-10 03:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by hmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With that attitude why not just get a divorce and that way you can do whatever pleases you. If your husband makes you feel this way, don't you think one day you will be saying this about your lover also?
2007-05-09 05:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your husband must change sex positions in this way you will both enjoy there are a lot of sex positions ......SEX& LOVE is really beautiful.
2007-05-09 08:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by no nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a woman you need touch to feel sexy and he needs to talk to you like you are sexy to turn you on. as a man he dont need any thing to be on but for the wind to blow.so you need to tell him what you want in sex.most men think a woman feels the same as they do.so you need to tell him what you like and want.dress up for him do things he dont think you would do and surprise him you have a lover he is your husband you just need to train him.
2007-05-10 14:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like I said Do your Husband a favor and give him a divorce so he can move on like you have.
2007-05-09 05:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like divorce in on your horizon. You get what you deserve. Instead of meesing around, you should have been working on your marraige. Hope you like nothing, because thats what your gonna get.
2007-05-09 05:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lloyd O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach your husband other ways to satisfy you. watch porn and do it together.
2007-05-09 05:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by jomat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
, you are sick. You probley have STD's pouring out of your body.... ewww... I mean crawling..
2007-05-09 05:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. November 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋