i was snooping which i shouldnt have been doing and i found an envelope with 5 letters from some girl named sondra they said stuff like meet me here at blah blah time and dont tell your wife and i hope ur wife didnt find out about our date and ill be the one in the sexy dress with no underware ill signed sexy sondra and other bad things what should i do dont want to get in trouble for cheating and i dont even know if he is but i dont want to let him get away with it if he is he doesnt seem like that kinda person but thats kinda cold hard eveidence
2007-05-09 05:47:24 · 35 answers · asked by lill a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my parents are really in love and they rarely fight and im only 13 years
2007-05-09 05:49:46 · update #1
in the first part i meant i dont want to get in trouble for snooping not cheating i found it in his dresser
2007-05-09 05:51:23 · update #2
i thought maybe my mom might be sexy sondra but it was in an enevelope with his name our adress ex written in red with curvy writing and it was mailed to him from a city close to were i live with a stamp on it
2007-05-09 06:06:33 · update #3
Put the letters under your mums pillow. If you love her, let her know about these letters.
2007-05-09 05:51:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You MUST listen to me. You need to listen to me.
Don't get your dad busted in a foolish way. Nor should you be an informer suspiciously.
Now, follow my guidance.
Act as if you don't know anything. NEVER say this to your Mom. You just don't get your dad busted like that. Sure, you will be getting him busted without him knowing, and Mommy can't say " Our daughter told me that you were cheating."
1 Introduce Mom to where the dirtiness is going on, but remain invisible. However, bring your mother to where the letter is, but don't point your finger at the letter, let she sees it on her own. For example, try dust the room and willfully through the letter at her feet, but don't let she sees you do this.
If she picks up the letter and doesn't read it. Try do this again on a different day. Just trying and trying until one day she decides to read it. Now, Dad gets busted and you had nothing to do with it. Yeah you do, but only you know.
2007-05-09 05:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mac Pro 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay well away from this. It's not your place to say anything. Dont say anything to you mum..
If it really bothers you then, find a time just and your dad and tell him about the letter. Be calm and don't get angry. Just look him in the eye and basically say what the hell is he doing with this hoe?!
My thought is on you.. Good luck!
2007-05-09 05:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by minime_risk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your Dad. Let him know that you know and that you will be giving the letters to your mom. Your mom may know, or she might even be ‘Sexy Sondra’….
2007-05-09 06:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Robin C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd not give my dad any idea that I knew, grab those letters & give them to my mom. She deserves to know, hun. If you were in her place, wouldn't you want to know? If your dad is cheating, it can be dangerous. Loose woman like the Sondra could be carrying STD, which he can then give to your mom & your mom deserves better than that. Tell her.
2007-05-09 05:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by judy bo-booty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation. If you tell your mom and your dad finds out you told her then he won't be happy with you. But if you don't tell then you risk your mom being cheated on for god knows how long. Maybe you can set it up so that your mom finds those letters.
2007-05-09 05:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by #1 Lucy Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" i found it in his dresser "
This one still strikes me as odd... I find it hard to believe that he would just leave them their. If so I still find it hard to believe that your mom wouldn't have found them. I mean they must have been really hidden if you found them their. I'd bug your mom first. If it is how you thought well, she won't be so upset that you where looking out for her. Either way your dad is going to be hostile if you go to them. Will it **** things up if he was/is. Yes, all I can say is their isn't a wrong or right thing to do. You have the choose. gL
2007-05-09 06:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something isnt right... if it was sneaky she wouldnt have mailed it.. if it was in his dresser drawer it wasnt hiddent that well and your dad didnt feel the need to hide it further....I doubt it is what you think since if your dad was that dumb he would be dead by now..
your dad doesnt owe you an explanation for what is in his dresser, or anything pertaining to his sexuality. do not violate his trust in you and his privacy and you wouldnt be in a situation you dont have the capasity to understand. Step back and deal with it as your punishment for snooping.
2007-05-09 06:17:24 · answer #8 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like they desire some help with their marriage for useful. i do no longer understand how previous you're yet once you're relatively dissatisfied approximately all this, you need to talk to them mutually. tell them you do no longer think of how they manage one yet another is accepted and you desire to comprehend what's occurring. tell them you need to comprehend tremendously if it potential your loved ones isn't shelter. They paintings the selection hours and the weird and wonderful hours to steer away from one yet another. Ask your Dad, "whats up, I heard you went figuring out to purchase for garments, why did no longer you're taking me?" Then ask him what he have been given and ask him to show you. in the event that they're very cutting-area and flashy, ought to be he's having an affair with a guy or a woman. besides, all you're able to do is ask. only verify you enable them to comprehend it somewhat is frightening you and how it somewhat is affecting you.
2016-10-30 23:04:04 · answer #9 · answered by fernande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sugget leaving the envelope out in the open for your mom to find that way you dont get introuble to snooping, and its as if your mom found it out of nowhere
either way, she has a right to know about this. it isnt right what your dad is doing. even if you dont know if your dad is cheating or not, let your mom find the letters and decide for herself what hes doing.
2007-05-09 05:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad about this. He will be mad that you were snooping so be sure to apologize about your inappropriate behavior. Express to him that you too are also hurt about the possibility that he might have had an affair and are concerned about the hurt to your mother if indeed there was one. Tell him that you will not share this with your mother but that you feel that he should talk to her about it and seek out counseling if necessary.
2007-05-09 06:07:05 · answer #11 · answered by sloop_sailor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋