Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

1. I recently started having sex with my boyfriend... I don't know what to do, i hear a lady should be active. What should i do? 2. How do i make myself enjoy sex longer than i do now because after about five minutes i just want everything over and done with. he can go on and on and on...
3. Is it right for me to ask for "an allowance" from my boyfriend if he doesn't give me any money

2007-05-09 01:08:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If the person is having another companion other than married one, who is also married, they both are in the middle of their married life with kids, but dont want to disturb their married life (which will affect on their kids upbringing ) Still they want to continue this companionship till life long, coz they deeply love each other, respect each others family, can't live without each other, finds completeness , security with each other, do not have any financial or materialistic need to satisfy, shares the same proffession in real life, known as best friends by other people. They want to continue this relationship life-long like the married couple without bringing to the notice of outside world except God coz they think that God has only united them to make them COMPLETE. Advice on how to live this companionship happily. Strongly believes that PLEASURE is always followed by PAIN & vice versa. Also to make any relationship successful, it is needed to make ADJUSTMENTS & SACRIFICES.

2007-05-09 01:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 01:02:56 · 40 answers · asked by __ 1 in Friends

I'm divorcing my husband due to his lack of physical affection toward me. He never touches me and we never have sex. This has been an almost ten year marriage. I've tried everything and he always has an excuse.

I'm exhausted emotionally and physically. I sometimes feel as if I will never have the love I need in my life.

What are some good tips to get through all of this? I feel starved for affection, but I don't have another relationship waiting in the wings. Where do I start again? Should I remain alone and learn to like it? I'm tired of hurting emotionally.

2007-05-09 00:59:07 · 13 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i was at a new year celebration and not really in the mood to be there when i saw a guy from my work that i had been out with a few times - he seemed nice as a mate, anyway he told me there was a party at his house if i wanted to go back to his (i had been to one of his parties before) anyway we got there and nobody was home, i kept telling him i didnt want to do it but i did because i was getting scared and didnt want him to get violent or anything....now i feel horrible......it happened in the year 2002 so there is not a lot i can do now....but how do i make this feeling go away

2007-05-09 00:58:22 · 8 answers · asked by leeanneb2308 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 00:52:19 · 15 answers · asked by chuculate7 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend can (aparently) im not sure if i believe him, or even if its possible.

2007-05-09 00:51:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well ive been wiv him for 3 years now n he isnt the same as he used to be he doesnt want cuddles...or kisses he lies to me...? im really not sure wots goin on?

2007-05-09 00:51:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 00:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by Mushtaq D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 00:48:56 · 2 answers · asked by Cloe C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

just care to know

2007-05-09 00:44:48 · 15 answers · asked by wife_E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP ME what was going I can't leave my girl problem is we are among relative I think it is not blood relation even she not my first cousin
(her mom & my Grand mother is sister)between me & her has no problem don't tell me to leave her just tell me if marrige is not posible us
how can we get together that nobody can't shame on us?

2007-05-09 00:43:30 · 3 answers · asked by Nayan Sinha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think women who have been through a divorce will have trouble maintaining a relationship after they get divorced (emotional baggage)?

2007-05-09 00:40:18 · 28 answers · asked by Bob R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Truth is.
I'm starting to love my boyfriend
I'm writing poetry for him {afraid to show him thou}
I really want to tell him i love him.
But what if he doesn't have those feelings for me?
I told him i have something for him. {the poems}
Now he says he has a "note" for me.
I don't know what this note is. but, i told him
I was afraid to give him my gift
Should i tell him i love him? Or should i wait?
He's really shy like me, It took him 20 mins of silence on the phone for him to ask me out
He writes me little bulletins on myspace
I love Lauren forever x100
And has I <3 Lauren on his myspace, and me all over his site
But i just dont think he will ever be able to say it to me.
What should i do?

2007-05-09 00:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by Skye 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

So she boots me out because I'm a drunk and I sober up for a few weeks and now she's mad because I'm sober.
Ever felt like you just couldn't do anything right?

All I can say is thanks for the boot, hun.

2007-05-09 00:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by Meatball ;) 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my really good friends has a chronic case of depression, which means he's ALWAYS depressed. He's not emo or anything, but he threatens to cut himself all the time and refuses to talk to a counselour or a doctor about it. His girlfriend just recently broke up with him because she said he was to needy and she didn't want to be around him, and now he's even MORE depressed. What should I do??

2007-05-09 00:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When you break up with someone and they say 'Oh well your loss' does that make you laugh inside, an does it make them look even more of a loser.

This happened to me with this guy I was dating and he goes 'its your loss, you will realise that you missed a good guy oneday and regret it', I couldnt believe a 30 year old could say that. Why would I want to be with someone I dont feel 100% with, it wouldnt be fair on either of us. Thing is he really likes me too, said he loved me but he has really annoying habbits. Is it a losers way of saying I lost really.

Girl's guy's what would you think if someone you just finished with said that to you?

2007-05-09 00:37:24 · 20 answers · asked by Bonnie B 4 in Singles & Dating

Do u accept it to stay at home and get your financial support from your spouse?
The question is for both; males and females?
P.S. Please Indicate to your Gender?
Thanks for your participation

2007-05-09 00:34:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 00:33:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a dream that I was hanging out with my family that I really dont have because I am an only child but then we we being chased by bears and wolves but we got away by jumping over a fence.

2007-05-09 00:21:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The question is for both; males and females?

2007-05-09 00:15:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce