1. I recently started having sex with my boyfriend... I don't know what to do, i hear a lady should be active. What should i do? 2. How do i make myself enjoy sex longer than i do now because after about five minutes i just want everything over and done with. he can go on and on and on...
3. Is it right for me to ask for "an allowance" from my boyfriend if he doesn't give me any money
2007-05-09 01:08:08 · 4 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, its your choice to be "ONE' of the active....you are now. Be that way. You will only enjoy it if you really LOVE him . On money matters, why will you ask? If he really love and respect you as a person, he will take care of you and financially support you. Don't ask. If you will gonna do that, you will only degrade yourself .
2007-05-09 01:25:02 · answer #1 · answered by amy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to hear say...ask a doctor if a woman should be active to prevent issues such as ovarian cancer etc. If you didn't want to have sex or don't want to again, don't do it...plain and simple...now will he be happy about it....probably not! But then again, you gotta please yourself before you can please anybody else. You can get into sex by doing foreplay getting really relaxed and getting comfortable before and during sex. Last but not least...Please don't ask for an allowance. If he starts giving you an allowance then you will get used to it, thus he will fill like since I'm giving you money then you should be willing to do whatever for me or he will fill like he has the right to tell you what to do with your money. Plus do you really want a man issuing you money when you can make your own?
2007-05-09 08:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to know how to enjoy sex already.. wait till you are older, you will understand that it is pleasurable to you too... allowance? i think get a job....
2007-05-09 08:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to enjoy sex, you first have to enjoy your partner,
you have to learn to let go,
if you ask him for $, than i think that is pay sex
2007-05-09 08:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by transformer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋