Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

How does one go about making new friends when they already have a reputation for being a 'outcast'????

And when they already have almost none?

2007-05-09 08:46:16 · 1 answers · asked by nilleh 3 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to think of a birthdays present, but can't spend too much. Is this a good idea or do you have any others.

2007-05-09 08:46:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Most of the women on Yahoo Q&A seem to think in exactly the same way when it comes to questions of what to do about real or imagined infidelity. "Divorce him" , "leave immediately", "Install spying software", "check his cellphone bill" etc. What planet are you people from?

2007-05-09 08:45:14 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

During the sep. I got pregnant w/ my 3rd. I NEVER claimed it his & NEVER made him pay anything. We got together & 2 yrs later I found out & had him convicted for molesting our dghtr - he pled guilty as there was evidence. He served no time & for the past 3 yrs - works to pay a minimum of child support & medical coverage for all 3 children. I am heavily dependant upon that for income right now as I only work PT w/ no benefits & job prospects are not panning out very well. My family helps tremendously & God Bless them for that. He ate through what little savings I had when we reconcilled &left me with no other choice but to file bankruptcy. I need to do this very soon in order to try & save some money rather then continue to pay off his debt. Is it true that I need to divorce first then file bankruptcy - the second I divorce he can drop my youngest from the medical coverage & he's the only one on a life saving prescription?

2007-05-09 08:45:10 · 15 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im 19, im not married, but most married people say they hate it....why? What do YOU hate about it.

2007-05-09 08:42:49 · 28 answers · asked by woah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are seperated and he wont talk to me anymore. But i'm 4 months pregnant and of course want him to be in the babies life So should I just leave messages everytime I find something new..Like on the 30 th I find out if its a boy or girl, the first kick. Or should I just let him be? He said he wanted to be in this babies life..Clueless.

2007-05-09 08:42:24 · 18 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The true natural tendency of the male in all species is to procreate. spread the joy so to speek. So in humans there is that natural urge and it may be only society that is screwing up the natural course of events for most males.

2007-05-09 08:37:24 · 28 answers · asked by Tha Fade 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 08:32:31 · 3 answers · asked by J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-09 08:30:13 · 2 answers · asked by J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

GIRLS THAT WEAR
A. NO MAKE UP
B. SOME MAKE UP
C. ALOT OF MAKE UP
D. TO MUCH MAKE UP

PLEASE ANSWER ! THANKS x

2007-05-09 08:27:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm only 24, married 2 years. My husband's perfect for me. He's calm, collected, hard working, good job etc. We moved 3,000 miles from home and I hardly have any friends, a few but not real friends.
I think my husband's happy enough with it just being us two though I know he misses friends and family. Can it ever be healthy to soley rely on him?
I don't work as I'm studying from home. He's a great help at that too, doesn't let me get lazy! I love to go home to my home time every few months and from time to time meet up with some girls here, but is it enough? We pretty much just have each other.

2007-05-09 08:26:25 · 23 answers · asked by cloclo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever lost interest in a guy during a relationship and ended it, but in the future felt like that was the wrong idea and wanted back in?

2007-05-09 08:24:39 · 18 answers · asked by theman9654 1 in Singles & Dating

I love him deeply and dont want to lose him , i can not imagine life without him but at the same time the current state of relationship disturbs me , how do i get over it ? it would be very painfull if he tell me that he is seeing some else or has got bored of me .

2007-05-09 08:21:57 · 6 answers · asked by Paree 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 08:21:29 · 5 answers · asked by J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-09 08:16:21 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

All I see when I come here are questions on divorce or cheating. Our marriage is not glitz and glamour, but it is strong, healthy and happy. We work really hard at this and the reward is going home to your best friend every night! Does anyone talk about the lighter moments of marriage? The good stuff?

2007-05-09 08:12:37 · 23 answers · asked by mommy of 2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Most of the women on Yahoo Q&A seem to think in exactly the same way when it comes to questions of what to do about real or imagined infidelity. "Divorce him" , "leave immediately", "Install spying poftware", "check his cellphone bill" etc. What planet are you people from?

2007-05-09 08:10:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

they wouldnt stop asking me questions about me and they keep making fun of me when i blush. (he's not my boyfriend, yet)

2007-05-09 08:09:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

a) Skinny
b) Average
c) Built/Muscular
d) A Little Chubby
e) Fat

2007-05-09 08:08:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 08:06:38 · 55 answers · asked by Kenny 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the body and at the girl inside? Or do they just see the body with it's flaws and it's good points and make a choice based on that?

Come on fellas, tell me true.

Shi

2007-05-09 08:04:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm gonna give it to you blow by blow for those that missed it. my boyfriend of two years has a baby mama besides myself who still comes to every family function his mom has at her house. should i be ok with this knowing she still likes him. during the two years weve been together we split up for two-three months and he went and got her pregnant while I was already pregnant with his child. i don't feel comfortable around her and i wont go to anymore of the events because she is there. but i dont think its fair and im considering breaking up with him because of it. i feel threatened a little bit as well. she calls his phone almost every day and texts him. i just think they are disrespecting me.

2007-05-09 08:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by msgemini82 1 in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I have been dating for 18 months, lived together for 8 months. He has decided to move out.

He is under a lot of stress right now (just lost his job of 18 years, is worried about his elderly father with bad health, has regrets about not being there for his grown kids more when they were growing up, and is worried that he is a failure because he hasn't accomplished a major life goal in a creative field).

I asked him if he is ending the relationship, he said he isn't, he loves me and we will still be a couple, but he needs his own space to focus on the creative project (he is a writer, but in the past has only been able to write when living alone in his own space). He has also lost some interest in sex (still cuddles, hugs, kisses, and we do have sex, but less often) - symptom of job loss, depression?

I want to believe him, that we will be okay, but it seems like a big step backwards. I am having a hard time understanding this, but I know there is no other woman.

2007-05-09 08:01:04 · 1 answers · asked by KLB 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-09 07:57:37 · 39 answers · asked by lovelyc 1 in Family

There is an expression that goes like this: "...like kissing your sister."

What does that even mean?

2007-05-09 07:56:31 · 10 answers · asked by Coxy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 07:56:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Baby trees to all the guests? It would be to be planted in honor of us and the wrapping (comes in a tube kind of thing) would have our name and date and everything.
Do you think people will plant them?

2007-05-09 07:53:43 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So her name is Mary, and I wanted to know if I should do the old fashion and take her out or just simply take her out on a date? Do you think roses are a bit much for a first date?

2007-05-09 07:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Maricus S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. guys I appreciate the advice, but maybe I should have been more clear. In the two years we've been together we split up for three months and during that three months he got her pregnant while I was already two months pregnant with his son, and two months after finding out i took him back. Do you still have the same advice. I really want to hear from u.

2007-05-09 07:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by msgemini82 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and my fiance are thinking about eloping, i sitll want that wedding every girl has dreamed of but it still seems best to elope with our close friends and family...i difinitly want a photographer and lots of flowers..any place you know of thats beautiful but still in the state of califonia? i want it to be beautiful but cheap since im eloping...any tips or ideas would be great

2007-05-09 07:46:21 · 8 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Weddings