The true natural tendency of the male in all species is to procreate. spread the joy so to speek. So in humans there is that natural urge and it may be only society that is screwing up the natural course of events for most males.
2007-05-09 08:37:24 · 28 answers · asked by Tha Fade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thats just a bad question. Seriously? If you're being serious NO. If you want to cheat on someone, don't get married because you would have paid for the wedding AND the divorce for nothing. If you do this you totally don't deserve your wife. It is NOT ok to do that when married.
2007-05-09 08:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that you want to ask if it is OK because you know that the answer is "NO" Probably you want to question if it is "permissible". The answer being "NO" brings with it the pleasure men take from eating the "forbidden" fruit. Talking of "society", we look with some disgust at a woman who had multiple partners while her husband can brag in a bar about so many women he had scored and worse made the envy of too many who had not been so popular. Sorry pal I put it that way but that is the way it is.
2007-05-09 16:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I will keep that in mind for future reference. Because some men as well as some women find nothing wrong with having their cake while they eat their steak and instead of just admitting that they are wrong for cheating on their spouse they make up excuses and in some cases they really believe that the reason why they strayed away from the marriage is the other spouses fault.
2007-05-09 15:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it OK for a wife to have a boyfriend or two on the side? If that's ok - then sure go ahead and have a few girlfriends. It works both ways. Why do men bother getting married if they want girlfriends on the side?
2007-05-09 18:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you but I am a male species
married to a one woman species and not the urge
or society has made us be happy togeather, it's
the two of us that has made it happen, so we live
in a world where two people can decide and not
let society dictate.
2007-05-09 22:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm-kay...let's rethink this, shall we?
YES, it's normal for men to want to have sex with other women, and a ring on their finger, some pretty words, and a desire to have a significant, meaningful life with one person will NOT make this healthy natural sex drive go away!
However...
It is also perfectly normal for WOMEN to have a similarly healthy and vigorous sex drive, and their desire to be emotionally intimate with one person, likewise, does not make this drive go away.
if you want to look at it from an evolutionary standpoint, it's in women's best interest to seek multiple partners as well. Men are always looking for a place to put it, and women are always shopping for some good genetic material. A woman with a fired up sex drive can be damn near insatiable, whereas men often build up to one very explosive orgasm.
Now, while I think it's perfectly okay to have multiple relationships if you can handle it emotionally...and physically...I absolutely disagree that it's okay to cheat on someone. If someone has to lie to his or her spouse about their other realtionships, it's VERY wrong.
2007-05-09 15:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupidest question ever!!!! If you want to have girlfriends on the side, don't be in a commited relationship, and definately don't get married! What are you thinking????
2007-05-09 16:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound perfectly happy in the land of denial.
So long as you both screw around, and your girl agree's, and you use safe sex...to protect the world.
Go for it.
2007-05-09 15:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by naughty lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if its OK for the wife to have a boyfriend or two on the side whats good for one is good for the other
2007-05-09 16:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by LaRie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the sort of BS a husband would say after he got caught cheating. No, it isn't okay, and you know it!
2007-05-09 18:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Helen W. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋