Ok I'm gonna give it to you blow by blow for those that missed it. my boyfriend of two years has a baby mama besides myself who still comes to every family function his mom has at her house. should i be ok with this knowing she still likes him. during the two years weve been together we split up for two-three months and he went and got her pregnant while I was already pregnant with his child. i don't feel comfortable around her and i wont go to anymore of the events because she is there. but i dont think its fair and im considering breaking up with him because of it. i feel threatened a little bit as well. she calls his phone almost every day and texts him. i just think they are disrespecting me.
2007-05-09 08:03:44 · 10 answers · asked by msgemini82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know which of you are the sorrier POS, you or your boyfriend.
Why are you complaining, didn't you take him when she was pregnant?
The other baby is his kid, and so the kid and the mother will always be part of his life, just like you and your kid.
So quityerbitchin and decide if you want to stay or go.
What happened to getting married before having children anyway?
BTW, you will go much further in this society if you learn to speak and write Standard American English.
2007-05-09 08:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
and they are disrespecting you..... coming from experience, baby mama will not ever go away for sure if she allowed herself to get pregnant while you are pregnant. Sad for you and your baby, but you will do a huge favor for your baby to move on...... there's no hope unless he and his family start respecting you more by putting a limit to her visits. Regardless of their kids together there is always a limit. I speak from experience and needless to say there is a huge limit and baby mama is not welcomed to the family any longer because of her evil ways. Put your foot down, or leave. No other way around it, but no woman should put herself in this whole mess because it's not going to get any better.
2007-05-09 08:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by b-lea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with this fool? He disrespected you while you were seperated and pregnant with his child and you're complaining about her? You don't need a clown like that she can have him. What you need to do is to go find someone who won't disrespect you like that and does you good. Forget about the family.
2007-05-09 08:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by kickstatus101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya, he is a pos first of all. You were pregnant and he goes and sleeps with that girl. And now, he is texting her and all that. They should only be contacting each other for the child's sake. Sorry hon, but you have a crappy dude! Get rid of him! Just get his loser butt for child support. And secondly, i bet he is doing her too. Most likely. Be smart and see the situation! It's not good. Good luck!!
2007-05-09 08:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him, personally, but you (I assume) knew that he had a baby when you got with him. The mother is probably always going to be an important part of his life-- if you think that their interactions are inappropriate and romantic/sexual, then you should leave. But you're going to have a hard time cutting her out of his life.
2007-05-09 08:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very disrespectful and for him to allow this should tell you something about him. If I were you I wouldn't put up with it, if you can't trust him what can you do. He probably never stopped sleeping with her and just using you. But I wanna tell you to be strong for that baby and say f**k that dude.
2007-05-09 08:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by 2sexy 2cute 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're NOT getting the respect you deserve if you continue to be there, letting it go on. He will always have an connection with her, because of kids btwn them. Just as there will be one with you and him.
2007-05-09 08:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by sheron h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......while I don't agree with her texting him, I hate to tell you that she is going to be part of his life forever.
2007-05-09 08:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest bailing out ASAP!
2007-05-09 08:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you all for your answers and opinions.
2016-08-24 01:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋