Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

Ok so heres the deal, I recently started to talk to a girl that i know is interested in me. I met her in class, we never spoke before and then one class she called me over and we started to talk. This went on for a few classes. A few weeks ago prom tickets go on sale and i was planning on asking her until she popped the question first and i am also staying with her for the after party the whole memorial weekend at the beach in a hotel that we rented with friends. I only really get to see her and talk to her in school, we hung out once after school. This Saturday coming up i want to take her out to eat at a really nice restaurant and then maybe catch a movie or hang out. I was planning on telling her how i feel and asking her out then. What do you guys think i should do? Is it the right time?

2007-05-09 10:41:25 · 12 answers · asked by alexga8 1 in Singles & Dating

i agreeded and made it clear that they were her kids. i don't mind helping to support them but i don't want the responsibility of making decisions or baby sitting for them. over time she has come to exspect me to do these things. we argue now instead of talking like we did before the kids moved in. 90% of the arguments have something to do with the kids. i love this woman but iam 50 years old i don't want to spend my days fighting with the one person i should be able to talk about everything with. should i move out and just see her as if we were dating or just break it off. PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-05-09 10:41:19 · 13 answers · asked by Wart 2 in Family

alright well i like this kid named chad
i mean he's really nice to me and
we always talk and stuff and were always
hugging and stuff like that and he likes
me but my best friend (ex-bestfriend) went
behind my back and tried to go out with him
and saying stuff like he doesnt need me
and all this crap.. should i be mad at her
and not talk to her or shoulld i move on?

2007-05-09 10:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband cheated cheated on me while we were engaged. i didnt find out about it until later, after the affair had been going on for a year. i am trying to forgive but i need to talk about it and find out exactly why he did it. everytime i try to bring up the topic, he gets mad and storms out of the house or goes into the bedroom and locks the door. i am trying to forgive but it infuriates me everytime he does this. what should i do?? we get along fine as long as we dont talk about it.but im still hurt..

2007-05-09 10:39:28 · 26 answers · asked by eliza l 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this guy who's some of my classes and I'm not sure if he likes me. Last year his look was kind of nerdy; glasses, bad haircut, ugly clothes. But he's always had a lot of friends. Recently he completely changed his appearance; new clothes, contacts, adorable haircut.

Even before this happened I liked him a little and now I'm majorly crushing on him. Everytime I look at him he's ALWAYS looking at me and I can tell that from the corner of my eye too. Whenever we pass each other in the halls he always makes eye contact. And when he sees me walking towards our class he'll start talking really loud and just draw attention to himself.

But the thing is that he's never talked to me. Once I had to ask him something, and at first he wouldn't respond, then I was like 'omigod' to my friend sitting there and he finally answered, in the lowest voice ever. I felt that was rude, or maybe shy on second thought? Btw, I'm not gonna lie, I'm pretty goodlooking, not to sound conceited lol!

2007-05-09 10:37:52 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 10:37:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a girl at work who i like and I spend lunches with her but recently I feel like she is wanting me to give her much more attention than before, I'm getting hot and cold signals from her. It feels like I have to go talk to her at her workstation more, when before she would come and talk to me at mine more.

Sometimes she seems really happy to see me and talk to me and she does still come just to talk but then other times she seems very quiet or a little off.

How can I tell whether she is wanting me to give her more attention or whether she wants me to give her more space?

2007-05-09 10:37:33 · 11 answers · asked by shark 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf has cheated on me and i havent talked to him since. We got together like 2 weeks ago. ANd are I wasnt really into the realtionship so i think that is why he cheated on me... And i met the girl who he cheated on me with and now shes sayin **** about me and its really starting to piss me off.. Should i just talk to my bf about it like when i see him tomorrow or should i just let him continue talking to her its been a week and a few days... I dunno what to do??

plz help??

2007-05-09 10:35:03 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years and have 1 child together (aged 3 yrs). We have discussed marriage in the past. Lately, I have been thinking that he is lying and stealing from me and my family. I honestly do not trust him anymore. We have broken up a total of 4 times before, within the 5 years we have been together. But the breakups have never lasted more then a month. This guy has cheated on me about 6 times that I can prove, and many more are rumored to have happened. But I keep taking him back because he is the father of my child, and I don't want him to come from a "broken home".

Should I stay in this relationship for my sons sake, or would he be better off if it was just me and him?

Also, should finances play a part in the decision, since my boyfriend completely supports both of us, and I am a stay at home mom?

Thanks for you input! It is greatly appreciated.

2007-05-09 10:34:58 · 21 answers · asked by Heather K 3 in Family

advantages and disadvantages?

2007-05-09 10:32:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

pls help me on this pls give me the best answer

2007-05-09 10:32:25 · 5 answers · asked by Roy 1 in Weddings

So theres this girl who lives by me...like 3 blocks away, but she's new to my school this year. She's a soph. and i'm a junior. She's in my history class, and I think I overheard her talking to someone how she had to move because of guys that wouldn't leave her alone. I just want to get the full story out of it, but I've never talked to her. I just wish she could trust me. I could help her out if she DID have those kind of issues.

2007-05-09 10:32:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-09 10:31:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Heres the scoop. I am married not because i haveb to be, but because i wanted to be. I am happy for the most part. but since i have been married an old friend has gotten in touch through email, we arent going to meet. but we just chat back and fourth on the computer. this was never a sexual relationship with this other guy - so i justified this being okay for awhile. but now i am questioning .. should a married lady not go behind her husbands back to talk with a man from the past even if it wasnt a sexual relationship. However he has expressed feelings for me if my current relationship broke up. where do i draw the line. Note i would never get with this guy if my marriage failed any way

2007-05-09 10:30:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey everyone.
So I have a question about a boy. I have known him since elementary school and we are very good friends. Or we used to be. I have liked him for a while. Even when he was extremely dorky and the out cast. Now he is really popular but is haning with the wrong group. He doesnt do drugs but he hangs with the kids he do. He acts really different now except when he is with me. But he never really talks to me much cause he is occupied with these othere sl@tty girls at school. A lot of people think he likes me though. Sorry if this is confusing, but what do you think I should do? I kinda want him to know that I like him.

2007-05-09 10:29:51 · 19 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I'm constantly trying to please my wife. I'm always trying to make her laugh, cater to her, and pay her all this attention, but most of the time, she acts completely aloof towards me as if to say "keep trying." It's led to all sorts of problems (most of which she's probably not aware of), but I've told her on a few occasions that I feel like a sap. i feel like a small dog jumping up and down around a bigger dog trying to get the bigger dog's attention. The bigger dog acknowledges the little dog every so often...just enough to keep it trying, but ignores it the rest of the time. Now it's not THIS bad, but its' pretty close.

And when I'm not "bouncing around her trying to get her attention" she asks me what's wrong, then SHE'LL start to cater to ME.

The bottom line is I don't want ot have to be an a s s h o l e to get my wife to pay attention or be nice to me.

What can I do here?

2007-05-09 10:28:48 · 11 answers · asked by Shawn L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28 and I have been w/ only one woman who is now my wife. We have two children, both boys. Sometimes I feel that I blame them for everything wrong in my life. Like if i wasn't married or have kids I could go do what I want with my life and relly be happy. I am stuck in a marriage I don't like and I don't want to pay child support or alamony. Everytime I bring this up w/ my wife she yells at me. I wish I could work it out, but mostly I dont care. I want to find someone else to be with, but I am afraid of the legal ramifications. What do I do?

2007-05-09 10:28:28 · 13 answers · asked by ibyt2692 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what do i do?
he asked me out before & this girl said i said yes, so we went out for 1 period. then my friend told him i never liked him. he left me alone for a while, but he put me as his top frient on myspace. my friend(the one who told him that i didnt like him) told me that he said he still likes me! im so freaked out! i do not like him! at all!

2007-05-09 10:28:02 · 2 answers · asked by Ashleyyy. 1 in Singles & Dating

today in pe after we had changed out and everything me and 2 other people heard somebody crying in the locker room, so we went in there and it was a girl from our class. i mean she was bawling and couldnt even talk and was sitting in the corner. the teacher didnt even know she was there because she stayed in the locker room while she was taking roll, anyways we went in there to see what was wrong and she started yelling at us to get out and leave her alone, and that she wants to be left alone. well her face was blood red from crying and she could hardly even breathe so we went to tell our gym teacher that she probably needs to go see whats wrong so she did, and it turned out her mother had been beating her and hitting her, she had bruises all over her along with cuts and scrapes. so she stayed in there talking to her and said she needed to go talk to a counselor so after class i realized that she never went to the counselor and she decided on her own that she didn't want to talk about

2007-05-09 10:25:18 · 52 answers · asked by kasey n 1 in Friends

Why do all of these kids get on asking questions about there Love life. Should 9 years old have a love life??!!
Where the hell are there parents dont they pay attention to what these kids are doing. If there thinking this seriously about relationships now there going to be thinking sex tomorrow!!!!! What is wrong with this picture??!!

2007-05-09 10:25:06 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

When a girl says you're cute, what does that mean?

2007-05-09 10:23:29 · 63 answers · asked by Alexei 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 10:22:52 · 2 answers · asked by romy_melendez 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my six yr old wets the bed, he's been doing this since 3yrs old, i assume he has a weak bladder in which i was told by a proffesional, or it seems he's afraid to go to the bathroom at night. ive tried minimizing his beverages close to bed time and talking to him about not being afraid to even yell for help if he's scared to go the restroom at night, his bedroom is close. this is not working cause no matter what he will wet the bed, now he will be 7 in December and i dont want this to continue and i also dont want to purchase big kid diapers as i feel like ill be handicapping him and allowing him to wet the diaper. my last option was to wake myself up at night and take him to the bathroom, but i have a long day and i just cant cope w/ out adequate amount of sleep.....any other suggestions??

2007-05-09 10:22:04 · 20 answers · asked by KAT 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 3 years and I don't have my wife's respect. She's told me she respects me but I'm positive she doesn't.

One thing that bothers me is that when she talks about other men in her life, her father, her brother, etc. she has a different tone...a respectful tone. Now maybe when she's speaking of me in front of THEM it's the same way, but I don't see it.

I want to be able to stand up to my wife. i want to be able to say something and for once hear her say "OK" without there being 100 conditions.

Any books, or websites I can go to or buy would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

2007-05-09 10:19:47 · 12 answers · asked by Shawn L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't really seem to get a girlfriend. Can't understand why I'm very stylish, all my female friends say i'm sweet (so i belive them) I'm a little overwieght but that's lik the only turn off. could have something to do with me? whenever i get a girls phone number i don't call for a long time 2 afraid ill screw something up. or ill do something like call her another chicks name or sometheing like that. plz help!

2007-05-09 10:19:08 · 39 answers · asked by patsfan 3 in Singles & Dating

The child is 4 and the mother "friend" I only met, the first time I looked after the child, The child was more than willing to go with me and stay at mine with my larger than average family and right from the start expressed the desire to stay with us, always making excuses not to go home, the mother has expressed her love for the child! but has readily agreed to the child living with us permenatly, I am more than capable of this the child is now quite settled and appears happy, I would like others views on this????. This agreement is between myself and the mother with no aurthorities involved.

2007-05-09 10:18:46 · 25 answers · asked by pinkitten 1 in Friends

So one of my best friends told me he was in love with me a couple months back, ever since then he has been trying to initiate a relationship with me, but i have declined time after time. Months ago i fixed his myspace page for him and he really liked it. I offered to fix his page the yesterday and he said to go for it, he told me he would email me his password. earlier today (iv been home all day) i called him to get his password, and he didnt answer, so i signed onto his name, because i remembered his password from before.....*with no bad intentions, just to fix his page*....so i signed on......well my computer automatically turns on myspace im...which is regular....but then he started getting ims.. i was just clicking them off... and then the person says, "you know i miss you, and i love, especially ****** me"..i was like whoa..whos he sleeping with(the default pic was of a baby)...and i opened it. and it was a dude....What do i do?? Iv already altered his page so he knows i was onit

2007-05-09 10:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by me 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is my ex dating the girl next door to me? is this a thing you guys do? is he crazy? I know he can date who ever he wants but of all people ya know. How can i enjoy my life if he is always outside with her i can never go out becuase they are sooo loud just talking and it gets old but is this normal and what should i do? thanks

2007-05-09 10:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by Maggie may 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-05-09 10:17:12 · 29 answers · asked by Molly 1 in Singles & Dating

your kids, parents, friends, etc.

2007-05-09 10:16:56 · 19 answers · asked by David 3 in Other - Family & Relationships