hey everyone.
So I have a question about a boy. I have known him since elementary school and we are very good friends. Or we used to be. I have liked him for a while. Even when he was extremely dorky and the out cast. Now he is really popular but is haning with the wrong group. He doesnt do drugs but he hangs with the kids he do. He acts really different now except when he is with me. But he never really talks to me much cause he is occupied with these othere sl@tty girls at school. A lot of people think he likes me though. Sorry if this is confusing, but what do you think I should do? I kinda want him to know that I like him.
2007-05-09 10:29:51 · 19 answers · asked by Chat Noir 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is hanging with people who do drugs then he is doing it, too. At first it's easier to hide, but he is doing it.
2007-05-09 10:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if hes a slick guy, he might be hanging with the other chicks to get u jealous and see if you do react or not. But thats more of a girl thing to do. He is probably just living in the moment, its not bad, let him kno ur interested but if what he is doing now is turning you off, be sure to let him kno that as well, just be prepared for him to stop lookn at you. Men are quite afraid of serious relationships... Once you ladies start to get controlling, we often abandon ship.. Its just what we do. but let him know how you feel, just DO NOT sound like a parent figure with the "you shouldnt hang around people who do drugs" thing. Its not as bad as if he were doing drugs... Let him kno and GL!
2007-05-09 17:36:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're already very good friends, it should be easy to say you like him - just tell him, as casually and sweetly as possible. I'm sure the feeling is mutual.
So now that the mutual liking has been established, you start hanging out more often....and hopefully, the "wrong group" would fade away from the view.
Be cool and be happy!
2007-05-09 17:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Inday 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. You have known him for so long and you should be close enough to tell him anything. About the slutty girls, you will have do deal with that, their nature is like flies, they come from different angles and **** on you and bounce in the same second.
At least you notice that he acts one way with his other friends, but when he is with you, nothing has changed much.
You should tell him. Don't let your man pass you by, because in time someone else might sweep him up!
2007-05-09 17:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~Virtuous Woman~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand you well not all the time the guy likes you even though it might sound or look like it for example gilr have told me hey you like that girl huh and a whole rumor spreads when i actually never liked her but if you really hang out alot and have fun he might have hiddne feelings for you or just likes you as a very good friend and nver wants to break that .....ohh and please dont tell him you love him yet it might ruin it forever...(that happened to me) :(
2007-05-09 17:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by escobar.jesus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should act sl@tty like the other girls so he will be occupied by you too
2007-05-09 17:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by malcom1000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Express your feelings and also let him know that if e chooses to be with you whether a friend or a boyfriend that you will not tolerate him hanging with slutty chicks or drug users. good luck and GOD BLESS be confident and live above in influence
2007-05-09 17:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same exact problem as u pretty much this year. One of my friends told him that i like him and it got all around and i founf d out he liked me. (communication is the key )lol but its true. If he knows that u like him....a lot of your questions will be cleared up. Hope this helped
2007-05-09 17:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple solution to a not so simple problem. Talk to him. Communication! You are going to be there no matter what let him know that...explain to him how you feel...IN PERSON that is very important.......good luck
2007-05-09 17:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School drama...wait till you get into a real relationship in life and have to deal with them...especially divorce...
2007-05-09 17:34:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋