Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

i just broke up with my ex because he wanted to get too serious and i dont feel like i am ready but he is...i constantly find myself thilnking about him... i miss him..i dont even talk to him as a friend no more cuz he said that if i wasnt his lady then he didnt want to be my friend at all cuz he just wouldnt be able to take it...wat do i do?do i get back with him or wat?

2007-05-09 11:13:22 · 2 answers · asked by sexychikalatina 1 in Singles & Dating

I was molested as a child. I called the police, I started to court procedings and the family was so agry with me I dropped the charges. Now it is about 15 yrs later and my 11 year old daughter said it happened to her, by the same realtive who violated me. The police were called and he is facing life in prison and it feels like my family is rejecting us. All I keep hearing is when are you going to get him out of jail.

2007-05-09 11:11:41 · 25 answers · asked by cmariem 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy who likes me (I'm like 95% sure) and I don't know how to tell him I like him. I have tried asking my friends to tell him and ask if he likes me. I have called him saying, "I like you." and he thought I said, "I like math." and he wasn't telling a lie.

2007-05-09 11:05:52 · 23 answers · asked by lil genius 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy derek a couple years ago and right away i fell in love with him and the closer we got, the harder i fell. finally, we were best friends. it sucked, though, because i met him when he was going out with this girl for 2 months, and it was really hard to see them together or hear him talk about her (their problems, etc. hardly anything good). after a while, we started hanging out everyday and cuddling on the couch and in bed and watch movies and have tickle fights. he told me he loved me and he would ask his gf why she couldnt be more like me, which was kinda awkward. 2 years of doing this, they finally broke up because he didnt like her anymore and everyday i was debating whether to tell him or not and risk losing the best friend id ever had. a couple weeks later, he told me he was in love with me and i was so happy and told him i loved him so much. we didnt talk about it until 2 days later when he had a girlfriend. whats going on?

2007-05-09 11:05:48 · 14 answers · asked by maleenoodlesoup 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

LADIES: (In regards to a serious relationship) What is it that you want in a guy? Not only in a guy, but what do you want from that guy? What are some of the things that you need from him? Please explain. thx!

2007-05-09 11:05:25 · 30 answers · asked by Micah 2 in Singles & Dating

for 10 million dollars but not true love?

2007-05-09 11:05:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 11:03:23 · 29 answers · asked by christen a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a woman could do to make a man last longer in bed?

2007-05-09 11:03:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering.. cuz one of my friends told me that! =]

2007-05-09 11:02:28 · 16 answers · asked by Vikki 2 in Singles & Dating

because i did it and some people told me it ment that im i good kisser.

2007-05-09 11:01:31 · 3 answers · asked by gendogg21 1 in Singles & Dating

arguments. What do you think of the babys name having the mothers second name and not the fathers? We are together. xx

2007-05-09 11:01:03 · 26 answers · asked by meoi 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask this girl out but she thinks i am a nerd and a loner but i have many friends. i am kinda shy and not real talketive. how do i ask her outr and where should i go?

2007-05-09 10:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by jspikejlv 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-09 10:58:06 · 6 answers · asked by michael j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girl say's its bad but thats just how I talk and its just my personality.And her friends like me and my female friends like me is that bad because they know I would never do anything to hert my girl so is this still wrong?

2007-05-09 10:57:13 · 14 answers · asked by $Money$ 2 in Singles & Dating

im a teen and my parents pasted away awhile ago. and im currently living with my grandmom. im often asked this "why do u live with your grandmom?" or "why dont u live with your mom?" or "where is your parents?", etc. im sure u get the point. well...THE QUESTIONS ARE REALLY ANNOYING. whenever i answer and say my mom pasted away. there is always a followup question like "for real, what happened?" When did it hapen?" are u sad?" did u cry?" OFCOURSE IM WAS SAD AND CRIED YOU ******* IDIOTS!!! **what do i do about this?** IT REALLY BOTHERS ME ALOT!!! please im beggin help me. what do i say?

2007-05-09 10:56:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do they?

2007-05-09 10:55:43 · 9 answers · asked by meoi 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl i know has more in common with me that anyone i have ever met. she know my soon to be ex-wife and they are going to continue to hang out, but she is better friends w/ me. she has been over to my house and i cooked her favorite food: steak and had red wine. we talk on the phone every night till the batteries go dead. she isn't seeing anyone, nor am i. she hasn't seen anyone for 5 months. the chemistry is there alright, but she insists that she just wants to be friends, so there isn't hand holding even. she says that she doesn't wnat a relationship to close her off from other friendships and if she has a relationship with me, she will only meet my frinds and if it doesn't work out, then all my friends wouldn't be her friends anymore. i explained the prob is i can't help developing feelings from all this time together and i'll fall in love and she's breaking my heart. if i make myself somewhat hard to get a hold of, think she'll miss me to the point that she'll change her mind?

2007-05-09 10:55:34 · 16 answers · asked by jon n 1 in Friends

How do players keep sexual relationships completely sexual? How do you keep you emotions from getting involved when the person is a friend? How do you not hurt the other person or get hurt yourself? I need some advice for the emotional safety of everyone involved.

2007-05-09 10:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by Pam 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 weeks now...and about 2 months ago he asked out my best friend but she said no because they went out earlier and it didn't turn out so well........but NOW 2 1/2 weeks after me and him have been going out...she decides she likes him! I'm not mad at her though because she's my best friend. My boyfriend told me that I shouldn't worry about it because he ONLY likes me and not her. But still...and my friend said she knows we both like eachother and doesn't want to interfere...please answer these questions:
1. Am I being a jealous girlfriend?
2. Should I be mad at my friend?
3. Should I be worried?

2007-05-09 10:55:03 · 5 answers · asked by layniee(: 2 in Singles & Dating

so theres these 2 amazing guys. whom both LOVE me. one is an ex. one is a previous crush. the ex is a jealous guy who has sweet words to say and who i stlil love because we were together for a year and a month. the previous crush is sweet and nice and basically...perfect. i cant seem to let go of my ex..so umm help?

2007-05-09 10:53:58 · 26 answers · asked by musicislife810 2 in Singles & Dating

there are these 3 guys at my school and i'm talking all of them. One of them never notices me at school (at least i think he doesn't) and he always messages me on myspace asking me to call him but i never see him. Then there is another guy who i went on a date with. I stopped talking to him because he never really called me at all. Now he's trying to talk to me again. Then there's this other guy but he's REALLY REALLY ugly. He HAS A VERY NICE BODY and i talk to him on yahoo all the time every night. He's really sweet and i always talk to him on yahoo. I really like him but he's ugly he has a nice personality. He wants to have sex with me but i dont think he wants to go with me. I'M A VIRGIN!! i'm thinking about having sex with him...even though he's ugly. HE'S REALLY SWEET. should i be talking to all 3 of them?? and should i have sex with that guy and lose it to him...he's really ugly, he has a nice body, and he's really sweet. OH the first guy has a girl i think yet he talks to me...

2007-05-09 10:53:51 · 19 answers · asked by 2much 4 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 10:51:56 · 12 answers · asked by G~Bell 2 in Weddings

2007-05-09 10:51:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the deal, I have been dating this guy for 6 monthes and when I met him I smoked. He was well aware. Now, if he even smells a cigerette on me he wont talk to me for at least a day, did I mention that he lives with me?? When I met him I smoked almost a pack a day, now I am down to 2 or 3. I have been smoking for 10 years, and I am quite proud that I have cut down. He however doesn't see it like that. I am affraid that he is using this as a control measure. His ex wife mentioned to a mutual friend that he was very controlling. What do you think??

2007-05-09 10:49:17 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, its not like i DONT believe in love, its just i don't believe in being IN love. really what is love? a time when you cant be away from them for a second? a true deep feeling like you can never let them go? a feeling that you'd kill yourself for them? you'd beg to their every will?

arn't those all obsession?

2007-05-09 10:49:15 · 22 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this caucasian male the other day and he told me I was "pretty" and asked me "did I date white guys?" I said "yea." But I didn't think he wantd 2 talk to me. less than 30 minutes later...he text me saying that"he'd never talked to a black girl b4,but I seem diff." I'd never dated a white guy b4,but I'm open 2 diversity n respect! so he wants to hang out this wkend n he asked what I wanted to do.I said something *relaxed*...so he asked if I drink n smoke.I'm not up 4 engaging in those activities with him esp. the 1st time we chill...plus he needs 2 see me as an individual n not a drinking buddy.He asked me were we still on 4 the wkend..I just said let me know the plans b4 hand n not @ the last minute.all he said is "ok. better come fly!"?I don't know where we're going...but he also said."don't be intimidated bc i'm white." it doesn't bother me, but I hope he doesn't bc i'm blk.I don't know what he's up 2. I think he's tlkd 2 a blk girl b4, but don't c y he would lie about that..??

2007-05-09 10:47:05 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do for the right guy?

2007-05-09 10:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by 7h3 UpRi$inG i$ cOmiNg 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever been there???

do you like it??

i love the sharks they are sooooooo cooool!!!!!!!!!

:)

=)

2007-05-09 10:45:08 · 2 answers · asked by Party_Hottie12 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 10:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean a gym membership is no good unless you use it right--and this is reallt annoying me--I'd take mydelf if I could drive--but I still got a few years befor thats gonna happne---so how can I talk my dad into taking me?

2007-05-09 10:42:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family