LADIES: (In regards to a serious relationship) What is it that you want in a guy? Not only in a guy, but what do you want from that guy? What are some of the things that you need from him? Please explain. thx!
2007-05-09 11:05:25 · 30 answers · asked by Micah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for your input. All of you were quite helpful. Some of you more than others. Thanks for stopping by and giving me some of you time, like I said, you have certainly been a help to me. I hope that the man that you described to me finds you and you all live happily ever after! It can happen!
2007-05-09 11:32:49 · update #1
someone who knows how to keep me interested by acting uninterested sometimes... (hot girls get bored easily if a guy is too nice)
do cute little things
dont be cheesy
our humor chemistry is important
a real man
someone who seems a little bad is always attractive at a subconcious level to girls
"the only thing worse than a man you can't control is a man you can control" - a woman
2007-05-09 11:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. confident but not controlling
2. treats me like the princess that i am
romantic but not to the EXTREME, cuz that's just creepy
3. trust worthy
4. good kisser
5. nice
6. funny
7. honest (nothing destroys a relationship more than a liar)
8. knows what to say and when to say it
9. commitment (as in: don't cheat on a girl)
10. calls me even if it's just to say hi, goodnight, good morning, etc.
11. good listener (doesn't talk about himself all the time)
12. understands my feelings and what i'm going through
well that's all of the "girl world secrets" i'm willing to give up for now. good luck with whatever you needed!
2007-05-09 18:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by sassysassle 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I want a guy that makes me laugh, understands my feelings (most of the time, anyway) has a good brain, and plays no games with me. I want a guy who is kind, and cares about people, and their feelings.
I want a guy to respect me, my family and my wishes.
I want a guy to make my feel special, and to appreciate when I return the favor (I will!)
I want a guy who understands if I get moody, and just gives me space if I need it.
I want a guy who appreciates who I am, and won't try to reconfigure me in any way, because what you see is what you get.
2007-05-09 18:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by tottpaula 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I need someone that I can talk to, about anything and everything. To me, communication is #1. If I cannot find anything to talk to a guy about, then I'm outtie. If I can sit down and talk to a guy about events, literature, music, ideas, etc then things are way more interesting. I love a good debate, what can I say. I need empathy, compasssion, humor. I like someone that enjoys what I do, can expose me to new ideas/ adventures.
2007-05-09 18:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by tinks44 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women want Loyalty Respect Comittment Love the rest is common sense
2007-05-09 18:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want his attention
to know his true feelings
for him to hide nothing from me
and feel that he doesnt have to hide anything from me
his love
a simple gift once in a while
txts or calls saying cheesy but cute things
calling me beautiful
make me feel like i am the only one from him
i need to feel that i can trust him
and that he trusts me the most
2007-05-09 18:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by [mh♥kv] 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What I would want in a guy is respect, honesty, loyal, trusting, caring, loving, faithful, cute, personality, sense of humor and that he is romantic. Also hot, attractive, handsome and good-looking.
2007-05-09 19:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i want him to pay attention to me and let me know that he thinks of me when im not around, it doesnt need to be every time im not there but an occasional phone call to see how my day is going would be nice. he should be and want to be nice to me and do anything it takes to put a smile on my face. he doesn't need to go over and above to impress me, being himself would do the job. if i need to cry he doesnt need to say a word, just hold me or be next to me, comfort me. all these things that i want from him are things that i want to do for him. just someone who i can share myself with. thats all
pce & lv :)
2007-05-09 18:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lindsay O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I need honesty, fidelity, trust, respect, passion, love and humor :)
Picky or unrealistic? No, this is the man I'm gonna spend a huge part of my life with and no one should settle for less.
2007-05-09 18:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by NoSurrender 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the perfect guy. Well not perfect but nobodies perfect. My husband is loyal, kind, he respects me, loves me, trusts me, I trust him, he makes me feel like I'm the olny woman in the world, he is smart, and stubborn when he wants to be, he is my one and only man.
2007-05-09 18:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Hillary J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋