so theres these 2 amazing guys. whom both LOVE me. one is an ex. one is a previous crush. the ex is a jealous guy who has sweet words to say and who i stlil love because we were together for a year and a month. the previous crush is sweet and nice and basically...perfect. i cant seem to let go of my ex..so umm help?
2007-05-09 10:53:58 · 26 answers · asked by musicislife810 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a year and a month??!!
Oh, puh-LEEZE!!
I have been married for 14 years, and have known my wife for 16!
A year and a month is NOTHING!
P.S. He's jealous AND has "sweet words"- he's a loser and a potential abuser. Why isn't he still with you?
There's a reason you broke up.
If YOU broke up with HIM - he hasn't changed. Remember the bad times - they will be WORSE if you get back together.
If HE broke up with YOU - believe him! He's saying you are SECOND!
GO with the "crush" and see what develops.
2007-05-09 11:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help has arrived in shining armor. This is a simple problem to fix. Logic will dictate that. Add one more guy. That changes the equation from a love triangle, to a love Square. Immediately drop two of them. What you're left with is a great 2 people, couple, perpendicular relationship. Shift the problem to the remained 2 to find their one extra for their problem. Any other questions? Brought to you by Triangles R Us.
2007-05-09 18:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that with your ex..u broke up with him for a reason right? well, think about it, if you date this crush guy then u got to see the difference between whom u dated and new date...and your new crush might be better than what u had or have with your ex! just get to know your new crush
2007-05-09 17:58:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i first saw this i thought i wuz going to tell u to find some way to go on a double date but do not do that it could get rid of one if not both of them
well if that one is ur ex he has to be ur ex for a reason so i think u should try the other guy
good luck
2007-05-09 19:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this happened to my best friend...her ex was obnoxious and flirted with other girls but her knew how to sweet talk her. Now they are just friends but they have their fights every now or then....but she is also crushing on someone but she wouldn't dare ask him out...she eventually let go of her ex but it took a while....so don't worry bout anything....just live your life normally and let it flow
2007-05-09 17:58:04 · answer #5 · answered by layniee(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to let go of ur old love. i think u should give ur previous crush a try. it will give u a chance to know how both guys act. then u can decide which one u would like to keep.
2007-05-09 17:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you made your choice already and it's the ex. Do them both a favor and make that descision and stop the love triangle you are causing it.
2007-05-09 17:57:36 · answer #7 · answered by jay k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds alot better. He also sounds heartbroken. It depends on why he's your ex. If you think things will never be right again, let go of him. I suggest if that's not the case you give him another try.
2007-05-09 17:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by Hiram Abiff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isn't it okay to date more than one guy. If the ex can't handle it then he has a problem. Will he then find a need to transfer that to you?. If your are not ready to commit one way or the other don't pretend to.
2007-05-09 17:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard one think about why you broke up with your ex. then think about this crush. I think you should go for what your heart wants.
2007-05-09 17:59:30 · answer #10 · answered by larissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋