Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

Ok...about 1 year ago i was raped by this guy from school...After i had pressed charges he tried to kill me. He got arrested. He promised me that when he got out he'd find me and kill me. Well after he said that i moved cuz i didnt want him to find me once he got out. He recently got out of jail..and is looking for me...Me and his Girlfriend used to be close till everything went down but some how he found out my address and everything. he started calling me so i changed my number. But one of my friends from back home has told me thta he is coming down to find me...i jus dont know what to do...every where i go i am paranoid that he is gonna find me! i jus want/need closure.....

2007-05-09 09:49:22 · 18 answers · asked by ~*~In <3~*~ 2 in Singles & Dating

some hot girl told me dirty things at the gym, and I wanted to have sex with her so bad so I did. I recently found out that she is pregnant. I did use protection by I burned a hole in the condom while doing it. What can I do now?

2007-05-09 09:47:07 · 1 answers · asked by ralph g 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently I broken up with this fantastic guy because he didn't want my father's and I relationship to go down hill because of him. My ex and I are still friends, and we really love each other still. He wants me back and I want him back but I may have to pay the concequences. My father lost a bit of my trust when I was dating this guy. My father thought I was staying after school with the guy and not working on my academics, which I was working on. I really want to be with this guy but my family doesn't really approve of him. What should I do? (note I will give you further details later.)

2007-05-09 09:43:19 · 36 answers · asked by Midget 2 in Singles & Dating

SORRY ITS LONG!

I am 20 years old. I have been out of high school for a year now. My parents are SUPER STRICT. Lately i have been getting pressured to go to college, and blah blah. they seriously think i will be a piece of crap with my life if i dont. i work hard, and i make fairly good money. i just dont think that college is all the right for me.

Also:
I have a boyfriend now of 2 1/2 years. things are getting pretty serious. We would like to get married. maybe next year or so. But for some reason that is like the worst thing to my parents. they are driving me crazy. I Really want to move out and get on with my life. but i have a christian family, so i have to be married to live with a guy. or they will like disown me.

My parents have always given EVERTHING to me that i wanted. So i have that holding over my head.

I really dont know what to do! PLEASE HELP!

2007-05-09 09:43:14 · 38 answers · asked by stargazer116 2 in Family

Ok there is this lady at my church that I have known for about 8-10 years. I am a very quiet person and whenever church is over with I speak to whoever is n my path and leave. I don't stick around. Now when I first started going to the church I use to look at her then look the other way b/c she is attractive. There has been times that she has caught me looking at her and she just smiles, and there have been times that she will walk in and she happily speaks to me as she is going to her seat but not to anyone else.As time went by we began to speak to each other each time we meet. Each time we talk I act myself and I always seem to make her laugh and smile . In 2005 I took a break from school and have been n birmingham for about 2 years and I told her that I would b going back to savannah on June 15. Once I told her that I plan on leaving b'ham in the middle of june she started smiling, became very enthusiatic and started encouraging me and ect. then all of a sudden she said "let me give you my cell number " . As she was about to give me her number she paused b/c her oldest sister came around the corner and asked her where they were having dinner, therefor I stepped back so it wouldn't look like I was being nosy. Her sis was trying c if she what they were having and if she needed to bring something and she was like " just meet me over moms house" and her sister was like "ok I will c u at moms house".At the same time I was trying to slowly leave b/c I picked up my Bible and as if I was about to leave, but she started talking to me again. That's when she was like, "let me give you my cell b/c I wan to you to call and keep in touch with each other and I am going to b checking in with you so we can stay on top on this." When she said that I pulled out my cell phone, but she was like "do you have a piece of paper" therefor I pulled out the church bulletin and she wrote her name and cell # one it. Each time we talk I call her Mrs. so and so, but this time she just wrote her name without the Mrs on it. (example Mrs. Ann, Ann). I wonder if she did that b/c other church members were around. What is so mind boggling is that her husband is n the military and he rarely, rarely comes home. I have never seen them together, but that doesn't mean he hasn't been home,she has a daughter that is 5-6 years younger than me that is n college. Once I ended the conversation I told her that I wouldn't b at church the next week, but I would give her a call at the end of the week to let her know how things are shaping up and she was like " that's fine, make sure you call". What's so mind boggling is you giving me your cell # and you have a husband ( SHE IS MARRIED) ? why didn't you give me the house #, why did you rush your sis off, why did you wait until you daughter left to do all of this and when i pulled out my cell phone out of my pocket why did you ask for a piece of paper and why did you stress that I call you? Keep in mind that I am a 25 year old MAN. It's no her responsibility to get me back in college; it's mine. So what do you think she is trying to do and how can I find out her motives. My friends said I should call her and ask her out? someone please help. Feel free to e-mail me

2007-05-09 09:41:31 · 9 answers · asked by stocks4bt 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have seen many asian indian girls..who grew up over here show attitude.. I find it quite amusing , since they don't have anything to show but still they act like as if they are princess or something.

2007-05-09 09:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 09:40:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need ideals on how to keep these children quiet and entertained for an extended period of time. The ages range from two to six. The forms of entertainment need to be cheap, with minimum mess, and the materials needed should be found around the house.

2007-05-09 09:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by Star 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-09 09:40:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this lady at my church that I have known for about 8-10 years. I am a very quiet person and whenever church is over with I speak to whoever is n my path and leave. I don't stick around. Now when I first started going to the church I use to look at her then look the other way b/c she is attractive. There has been times that she has caught me looking at her and she just smiles, and there have been times that she will walk in and she happily speaks to me as she is going to her seat but not to anyone else.As time went by we began to speak to each other each time we meet. Each time we talk I act myself and I always seem to make her laugh and smile . In 2005 I took a break from school and have been n birmingham for about 2 years and I told her that I would b going back to savannah on June 15. Once I told her that I plan on leaving b'ham in the middle of june she started smiling, became very enthusiatic and started encouraging me and ect. then all of a sudden she said "let me give you my cell number " . As she was about to give me her number she paused b/c her oldest sister came around the corner and asked her where they were having dinner, therefor I stepped back so it wouldn't look like I was being nosy. Her sis was trying c if she what they were having and if she needed to bring something and she was like " just meet me over moms house" and her sister was like "ok I will c u at moms house".At the same time I was trying to slowly leave b/c I picked up my Bible and as if I was about to leave, but she started talking to me again. That's when she was like, "let me give you my cell b/c I wan to you to call and keep in touch with each other and I am going to b checking in with you so we can stay on top on this." When she said that I pulled out my cell phone, but she was like "do you have a piece of paper" therefor I pulled out the church bulletin and she wrote her name and cell # one it. Each time we talk I call her Mrs. so and so, but this time she just wrote her name without the Mrs on it. (example Mrs. Ann, Ann). I wonder if she did that b/c other church members were around. What is so mind boggling is that her husband is n the military and he rarely, rarely comes home. I have never seen them together, but that doesn't mean he hasn't been home,she has a daughter that is 5-6 years younger than me that is n college. Once I ended the conversation I told her that I wouldn't b at church the next week, but I would give her a call at the end of the week to let her know how things are shaping up and she was like " that's fine, make sure you call". What's so mind boggling is you giving me your cell # and you have a husband ( SHE IS MARRIED) ? why didn't you give me the house #, why did you rush your sis off, why did you wait until you daughter left to do all of this and when i pulled out my cell phone out of my pocket why did you ask for a piece of paper and why did you stress that I call you? Keep in mind that I am a 25 year old MAN. It's no her responsibility to get me back in college; it's mine. So what do you think she is trying to do and how can I find out her motives. My friends said I should call her and ask her out? someone please help. Feel free to e-mail me

2007-05-09 09:38:50 · 9 answers · asked by stocks4bt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

alrighty well i was just wondering how i should treat my boyfriend... well actually what makes a guy feel good??

2007-05-09 09:37:33 · 37 answers · asked by ♥falling4him♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my best friend have been close for 3 years. He's the one i can talk to about everything and i'm the only girl that can "open him up" (pretty lucky to have that considering the fact he's the "shy boy" private-person type). He's liked me all this time and just recently i started to develop feelings for him. We care for each other deeply but decided that if the right time came, it would just happen - no rush. Recently, we just lost someone we knew - he was very close to him. I know i'm not being a pushover and i don't wanna annoy him so i would (now and then) call and txt to see how he's doing.

Personally, I've been going through such a hard time with other things in my life (my lowest point) and I've been reaching out to him letting him know i'm there but i get nothing in return. I know i should't expect much but i feel hurt by what's going on between us - there's no communication. How can i reach out to someone if they're not even there?

2007-05-09 09:37:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i wish to chat up a lady, but which is the best
start-up conversation to use ?

2007-05-09 09:36:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am wondering about everyones opinion. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, and we both smoke. His family loves me and I love them too, but his parents don't know that we smoke. He said if his mother knew I smoked she would hate me. That doesn't sound right to me, I know people that don't smoke don't like it, but I've never picked my friends by who does and doesn't smoke. I think its ridiculous. We are going on vacation with them in 2 weeks and I'm not sure how I'm gonna take 4 days of not smoking. Am I making a big deal out of nothing??

2007-05-09 09:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by ThisNthat77 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am 9 he is 9 what is a good way to ask him he alredy knows i like him

2007-05-09 09:35:47 · 16 answers · asked by mystery 1 in Singles & Dating

Gotten a divorce and then remarried that person after a period of time?

2007-05-09 09:35:19 · 13 answers · asked by IceIt71 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to turn my friend bi so in the future we can be together if we decide not to be with guys she is thinking about it but how do i get her to say yes about her first sexual experence with a woman???

2007-05-09 09:34:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 09:32:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been happily married for 7 years. I love my wife very much, but lately, I noticed she is different. She's always been a "party girl" but its gotten more frequent over the past year or so. We used to spend so much time together, but lately she's much more focused on going out with friends or meeting up with her guy friends. She has one guy friend (who I went to school with) with whom she is very close with. Also, she constantly talks about how she thinks marriage is unrealistic and how she's not sure if she wants kids. We have had several talks about it but she insists she is in love with me and that she just wants to live it up still while we are young and living in a big city. But the bottom line is that her behaviour really bothers me and I feel we are both going down different paths. What should I do?

2007-05-09 09:31:19 · 72 answers · asked by vizzini 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok what do u do when your boyfriend wants you to come to his house to go 4-wheeler riding and u think that your parents wont let you go because one day you asked them to go to his house and they said no. but this time we are going 4-wheeler riding. and i need to know how i should ask my parents about going to his house to go 4-wheeler riding.

2007-05-09 09:28:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 3 weeks late ..........

2007-05-09 09:23:37 · 10 answers · asked by ♥♥lala♥♥♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

You are married and having twins. You’ve been cheating obvious only to you until you deliver a white baby and a black baby.
Yes, you were cheating outside your race. This question is not about race so please don’t take it there! It’s just something to make you think because it can happen and has happened.

What do you do? What would you say? How would you explain?

2007-05-09 09:20:47 · 16 answers · asked by honeyb 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I suspect it wouldn't matter, but am curious, as the husband is convinced if the wife makes up her mind to divorce him and he refuses to sign that the divorce will not go through. He will not go to court..will refuse to cooperate entirely? Suggestions? (and he won't sign and cooperate, so working with the husband is out of the question.)

2007-05-09 09:13:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Obviously, men are powerless against visible nips, erect or not.... why in America is it so bad?

2007-05-09 09:11:44 · 21 answers · asked by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 09:09:47 · 18 answers · asked by cut_the_krap 1 in Singles & Dating

which one will you be more sexually attract to, the man who is open or the man who is little mysterious?

2007-05-09 09:07:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I found a photo of my husbands ... well, you know... on his cell phone, he CLAIMS he doesn't know how it go there, he didn't take it, I accused him of cheating becuase he has no answer to this mystery? He says he would never do that to me, and I want to believe him what are you thoughts. We have been together 6 yrs, and I have never thought about him cheating until now?

2007-05-09 09:06:02 · 41 answers · asked by Curley-Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Girls your man has proposed and you are getting married. When you tell your parents, they are excited for you and your fiance. Since weddings tend to get outrageously expensive quickly, both of the parents offer you a nice down payment on a house and a simple wedding OR you are allowed to have a sit down wedding, with all of the trimmings, etc.

Which would you and your spouse choose and why?

2007-05-09 09:06:01 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been married to my husband for 4 years, I love him very much and it doesn't really bother me I was just curious.

I have lost 10 pounds and he never says anything, yes I know 10 pounds isn't a lot but it's still something.
I clean the house, he never says nothing.
I change my hair color sometimes he never says nothing unless I ask him about it.
The only time he notices anything is if I have a new shirt (well new to him, I just haven't wore it in a long time), then he doesn't even compliment me he just asks me when I bought it.

2007-05-09 09:00:06 · 12 answers · asked by T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I am 13 but I want to raise as much money as I can to buy a car when I am 17 because I want to, you know, pass the test and get my car straight away but every now and again my friends ask me to come out to swimming or cinema or some place which needs money.

I want a good car but I also want to go places..
What should I do?

2007-05-09 08:55:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends