What would you do IF...?

Question

I found a photo of my husbands ... well, you know... on his cell phone, he CLAIMS he doesn't know how it go there, he didn't take it, I accused him of cheating becuase he has no answer to this mystery? He says he would never do that to me, and I want to believe him what are you thoughts. We have been together 6 yrs, and I have never thought about him cheating until now?

Answer 1

He probably isn't seeing another woman... trust him, 6 years is a long time. If he hasn't given you reason to doubt him then don't. Maybe it's a photo of his best friends...well, you know... maybe he likes to compare or fantasize about men. Maybe he just took the photo of his friends thing as a reminder of how much he loves women...

Answer 2

Well, I would definitely find that to be a suspicious story. He did not take the picture and he has no clue how it got onto his cell phone?? Yeah right!! I think he would remember it if someone else took a picture of his "package". If I were you, I would confront him one more time. I would tell him that he had better come clean with everything, now. If he still tries to sell you some ridiculous story, you need to think whether you would rather believe him or face up to the truth. Taking pictures of those sorts of things with cell phone cameras is something that lovers do when they are playing around with each other. I am sorry.:(

Answer 3

How many lies has he told you before? Have you caught him in other lies? I found a jewelry receipt for diamond earrings. I had it in my pocket when I ask my ex husband . Oh, a friend saw you looking at jewelry , and wondered what he had gotten me for Christmas. He told me 5 lies in 5 minutes. I had known for several years he was having an affair with my youngest sister. I would confront him and got nothing but lies and I was crazy. Well, he left the next day. He is still with her and moved into a house 1 block from her house. He is such a hipocrit . He goes home to his house each night so he does not consider it an affair. He is with her all day just does not spend the night. He is the only one that is that crazy to believe and act like that. Don't believe the lies. Keep your mouth shut and eyes open and gather all the proof you need. you will know it when it hits you that you have had enough. HE IS LIEING. ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEATER AND LIAR.

Answer 4

I was a great wife and I did everything your supposed to do to keep a marriage good...but he cheated on me and I can tell you this....
a picture is worth a thousand words....come on...think...it didnt get there by itself and WHY is it there in the first place...is he going around showing people? did HE take it or did someone else take it...is it a close up or far away? Does it look like he took it himself? If so why lie about it in the first place unless he has something to hide? If he claims he doesnt know...then he is a LIAR...did someone snatch his phone and take it? If so then was he lying around naked? Think woman...start demanding answers to these questions because if he is able to lie to your face, then there is no respect to you and it is all game to him- and he is therefore able to be a cheater also... NO EXCEPTIONS TO THIS RULE...WHY LIE? I would either demand he come clean or head for the hills myself. I wouldnt want to wonder and torture myself with a stupid man that doesnt have enough respect for me to be honest. If he can lie-he can cheat and if he is not being honest to you about this you can bet your bottom dollars there is alot more he is lying about! And then you need to approach the issues to much deeper things,such as: does he like to expose himself? to others? Why would someone have "it" on a cameraphone in the first place...is there phone #s you dont know about? You have trouble in paradise here.....dont be blind to it...Remember this...To thine own self be true! I wanted so bad to believe my first husband was honest and true to me....what a joke...I went thru hell trying to believe this...but the good news is now I DO have a husband that IS faithful and I am SO much happier than I ever was with whats his name!...hope it helps...

Answer 5

why not give him the benefit of the doubt. People are always borrowing cell phones ,sometimes photos get taken that shouldn't be. If he has never given you any reason to doubt him in the past,let this one go and don't throw away six years over something that could be completely innocent.

Answer 6

well it depends on exactly what the picture is and how many of them there are.

if the picture was taken at his work place then it could just be some numbnutts taking his phone and taking a pic of a girl without ur hubby's knowing about it.

if the picture is in a bedroom or something like that...and there's more than one of them...i suggest you check the call logs

even if he is cheating on you, this can be worked out. but it's up to you

best wishes

Answer 7

Everything you need to know is in the answer to the question, "Why is it on your cell phone?" Forget the accusations for the moment; demand to know why. (But show a little patience, cause something like that, well, the answer might be embarrassing and hard for him to get out.)

Answer 8

What kind of picture? Was it an sms or one that has been taken with his phone? How likely is it that someone else has used his phone and taken a picture like that?

Depending on the answers to that question, I think I may have been a tad suspicious.

If it's a "risque" picture taken with his phone ... who on earth would have borrowed his phone for that and then returned the mobile to him? Doesn't seem likely. If it's an sms on the other hand, then he is probably as innocent as can be.

Answer 9

Listen, I just found about 10 pix of a naked woman in different postions including one of her giving him oral sex on my husbands cell phone. Confronted him. Of course,he lied, denied, blamed etc. He finally broke down and confessed to cheating on me with some tramp in his office. Dont be blind. Why would a man want a picture of his penis on his own phone (assuming that is what you meant) unless it reminds him of who is behind the lens. Dont let him get away with it!

Answer 10

Do you think it possible that he took the picture of himself, and is just embarrassed about it?? Do you think he wanted to send it to you and chickened out? And if he were cheating, why would he have a pic. of himself on his phone? I would think it would be on the other woman's phone. You need to check and see if he SENT it to anyone.