Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

I have been with my husband for 8 years, we have had some troublesi n the past with him being unfaithful , well last week he sent one of my friends a bunch of roses and a card saying you take my breath away, Ot make it short some things were said and he said something to her and she cracked it with him, now he wants to know why she cracked and hates him, which means he is going to go around there by himself. Am I wrong to be upset about this or is it that I seem more upset cause Im pregnant. Thankyou in advise for your respones.

2007-05-09 20:25:16 · 3 answers · asked by bellasmummy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend is getting married at the end of the month, and she and her fiance filed for a marriage license in Kansas (where they live). However, their wedding ceremony will be taking place in Missouri. Does it matter if the license came from another state than where the ceremony is taking place?

2007-05-09 20:19:22 · 11 answers · asked by Wubs 1 in Weddings

i been married for 3years, i have a pretty daughter has 2 y/o,before 7 months i met a womanon the internet and i loved her too much and i cant imagine my life without her, but at the same time i still love my wife also,what i suppose to do?

2007-05-09 20:18:07 · 184 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I seriously don't get it. I have friends that continually go after the guy i would deem as assholes, they get hurt and come crying to me or another close friend. They don't realize what they deserve and how perfect they are just as they are without any changes. They want a specific guy but they know that that type of guy will mistreat them yet they do it over and over.... why?

2007-05-09 20:17:49 · 103 answers · asked by d_z_burger 2 in Singles & Dating

My yahoo personal said I was gay why I like girls but not like that

2007-05-09 20:17:25 · 31 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Family

anything like that, but he is respectfull and has a decent car, fairly good job..and most importantly likes me for who I am and has not tried to make me into something or someone I am not..Yet my family and friends tell me that I am settling for someone who is beneath me..Merely because he is not physically fit...I say who cares, he makes me feel like I am on top of the world...If I don't care about his weight, why should they? They are not the ones dating him....Suggestion on how to stop the stupitidy?

2007-05-09 20:17:05 · 40 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 20:15:46 · 19 answers · asked by tccballetmusic 1 in Singles & Dating

When we first split she said that it was a break that she needed, then later i learned that she liked another guy. she said that with me she lost the love and the butterflies, and their were moments too that i did not feel them, but i was happy with her and my feelings were always strong. now it has been 1 month that we split and she is telling me that she likes this guy, but in the same time she says that she feels that if we get back together that our love for one another is going to be everlasting. the thing that confuses me is that there are moments that makes me feel that she is falling for me again and then their are moments that the only reason that she is hanging out with me is just because she has nobody else. The other guy is 10 years older, has a daughter, lives with the ex girl, my ex she is 21 and goes to college and is a strong women that is lost right now. i want to know what should i do, i love, i miss her, i dont know if i should just ignor her, be there, or what? Help

2007-05-09 20:15:39 · 10 answers · asked by chinchan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

guys im confused i love two girls what do I do

2007-05-09 20:10:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A safe relationship with no fights,but no passion.Or a deep, passionate bond with more fights than usual??

2007-05-09 20:10:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is real love realy excist ?

2007-05-09 20:05:43 · 3 answers · asked by lovley lady 1 in Singles & Dating

so there's this guy at school and all his friends say he likes me but when i try to talk to him he acts all stuck up. so i then think 'ok so he doesn't like me' but then i catch him looking at me like all the time and his friends won't leave me alone! what the hell is going on here? what is this guy up too? i need urgant help!

2007-05-09 20:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by valleygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 28...


I have lots of debts....
Turned down by universities that i have applied for my post grad...now start university hunting again....and afraid to hear the result again
My family business is in shaking boat...and i am one of the person responsible for it..
No time for myself to do my hobbies; read novel, write story, draw comic...


and...still single...never had boyfriend or been in any relationship...why this is matter? because i feel like i am carrying all the burden alone...feel like if i can share my problem to the person that i trust, maybe it will lessen the pain...


so..please anybody out there..don't misjudging me and make any statement that may put me into worst situation.


i don't have best friend either..since they all have been married and have their own set of problem..

2007-05-09 20:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by miya 3 in Singles & Dating

I am planning to get married but my fiance is Canadian so we will have an influx of about 30 to forty canucks.
I am thinking we forget taking a honeymoon and just hang out in our town with all our friends instead - do you have any other tips?

2007-05-09 20:02:24 · 4 answers · asked by Lauren goes to India 2 in Weddings

i love one girl who use to be my classmate and i proposed her and even i forced her little as everyone do and our affair was going good and hopefully we completed 5 months together but after that she left me saying that i don wanna keep any relation with u and she din even tell me the reason but i still hope that she will come back, can u ppl out there help me out ??? what should i do in this situation i love her like ne thing and will do ne thing for her ,,,, plz girls and boys out there tell me what to do in this situation,,,,,,and if i din get her back then no meaning of livin in this world i jus feel like dying and one day i will die if i din get her back

2007-05-09 20:01:22 · 3 answers · asked by bs_20042002 1 in Singles & Dating

Meaning marriage for one and divorce for another.

2007-05-09 20:01:18 · 4 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 20:00:01 · 8 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 19:58:05 · 67 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 19:56:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-09 19:56:28 · 18 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 19:55:06 · 1 answers · asked by stranger 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 19:51:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know she's twice my age and married but I L.O.V.E. my History teacher. I can't stop thinking about her. How do I go about asking her out on a date without looking stupid?

2007-05-09 19:51:14 · 28 answers · asked by FUN 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm one to think that marriage can be great without the aspect of bringing kids into it and can well be easier and less stressful. Married almost 8yrs chosen not to have kids it's awesome you have so much time to do the things you want to do and well can just up and go whenever you want.

2007-05-09 19:50:47 · 10 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

she knows i like her very much but evry now and then she tells me i shud stop callin/sms her. but when i dont call she calls saying that i dont care bout her and that i shud atleast call to find out how she doing. whats this, pls help coz im confused.

2007-05-09 19:50:42 · 21 answers · asked by mister m 1 in Singles & Dating

So, our relation hasnt been on top of the hills lately. I tried my best to make it work and so has he. He has been an angel. Very sweet, honest, and a real gentleman. Plus he has a very stable job. But something he said today upset me a lot. He told me, "I think you should loose weight because you have gained a lot since we have been dating." Now that isn't the part that upset me, what really upset me was when he said, "It the summer time and girls are wearing skirts. I never did this before but I started looking at them." I understand he's being honest but that hurt me a lot. What would you do?

2007-05-09 19:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you cheat just because you did not get enough sex in your marriage or did you just want to hurt your spouse?.
Really there is no excuse but I was just wondering I could never cheat on my wife.

2007-05-09 19:47:00 · 6 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's a example of what he do:

-Walk two miles to meet me after I get off work to walk me back home because I don't like to walk home at night. He do this EVERYDAY. He once crack his ankle and still walk me home. I didn't know about it until few days later when he end up need a cast.

-Put pillow between my knees and massage my hips and thighs before we go to bed. He say it's better for my hips and massage so my legs doesn't get sore at night. He never did this to himself.

-When he was sick, he would still clean the house up, have dinner ready for me when I get home, and even do dishes. Then he'll try to pretend he's not sick until after everythings is done. However if I'm sick, he'll make sure I stay in bed or on couch, get plently of fluid, check my temperature, and take really good care of me.

-He'd clean and put neosprain on any cuts on me that he find. However he get cut up a lot from rock climbing and never took care of it beside shave around the area.

Why is he like this?

2007-05-09 19:44:44 · 11 answers · asked by cfrei8 1 in Singles & Dating

anybody believe in true love? i know i don't

2007-05-09 19:42:53 · 13 answers · asked by Chris T 1 in Singles & Dating

Torn between bf and ex. help, its tearing me apart.?
my ex and i broke up 6 months ago, we were very much in love, we were on and off for over a year. he stopped talking to me for that 6 months of which we have been apart, but lately hes come back into my life saying how he loves me and that hes here for me now and that he doesnt want to leave me ever again.
my bf has supported me through all of the pain that my ex inflicted upon me, and we have been together for 2 months. im still in love with my ex but i love my boyfriend so much. what do i do?? its so confusing. i want to be with my boyfriend without all of these hassels.

2007-05-09 19:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by xxredjumpsuitxx 1 in Singles & Dating