Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

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2007-05-09 19:38:38 · 1 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Singles & Dating

My B/F told me today that his lease will be up on July 25th and that he will finally move in with me, after 4 years of dating!!!! The problem is that I have a roommate. She moved in with me in March and already doesn't like my duplex because of the neighbors that live downstairs. She has been bugging me to set up times to look at other places because our lease is up in June and she ALREADY wants to move. I dont know if she is cool with it, it sounded like it at first, but then she said things like, "I know about this one bedroom Justin could look into, it's really cheap." She did ask me how much I really wanted to live with him, and I told her I've been waiting for a long time and yes I do really want to live with him. I do most of the cleaning and ALWAYS do the dishes, so I want to finally do it for someone who I really care about and not her. (I mean I like her and everything) I found a place for all of us, we'd each have to pay $333+utilities. She is worried about us breaking up and

2007-05-09 19:09:26 · 31 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Friends

somebody that gives you inspiration

2007-05-09 19:07:33 · 6 answers · asked by Theta40 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been married for 5 years.but now i am in love with my husband's brother.he loves me too.

2007-05-09 19:05:45 · 23 answers · asked by blonde beauty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I cannot have children due to infertility and having had a hysterectomy.

My partner and I were going to foster some kiddies but now after knowing my situation since we met 2 and a half years ago, he's decided that he does want his biological children after all.

He moved out last Friday to take some time to decide on what he wants to do. Apparently we're supposed to be talking on Monday night.

I don't know what to do.

Should I stay or should I leave? If I leave, how am I ever going to trust someone again after all this.

Thanks for reading.


Deb
Sydney, Australia

2007-05-09 19:04:24 · 3 answers · asked by aquariusdebbie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and what kind.

I drink Monster@ 48oz a day. Thats about 3 a day

2007-05-09 19:03:44 · 6 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

have affair with a guy from last 5year& problem is that have physical relationship we both love each other& want to marry but i cant go against parent now i broke relation with him but still v love eachother. now i m geeting married in nov. but i m affraid m i ready to make relation with other. whether i have to say about my physical relation to my hubby or not. it is cheating& i m feeling that god will punish me for my affair.my would be hubby is so caring but feeling that it is not good if dont tell abt relation & i have to pay for it. whether god will punish me or not for all my doing or not. but all u know that we cant control our feeling when someone v love have in front of us& it happens automatically. suggest me whether told to hubby or not

2007-05-09 19:03:18 · 17 answers · asked by jhanak 1 in Weddings

i just want to be loved
accepted
i can't understand people

2007-05-09 18:59:18 · 9 answers · asked by silver D.W.V.E mirror 3 in Weddings

2007-05-09 18:38:32 · 10 answers · asked by Princesita 6 in Weddings

Can you forgive cheating in a marriage, or is that grounds for divorce? What will be the consequence of staying? How will staying affect the other areas of your life and HOW do you forgive and move on?

2007-05-09 18:38:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy. Only thing is he is 10 years older then me. I'm 21. Well almost. Anyways. He's really cute. I know.... I know. We had some problems in 2001. With some of my old freinds. They were harrassing him and what not and he turned me in for it... not knowing where they lived. I guess. Damn people. Anyways we went almost 6 years not speaking. I would completely ignore him. And visa versa. It broke my heart heart cause I really thought he was something (still do) he always waved, smiled, and talked. But cause of some idiotic people that all stopped. But he was my wake up call. Shortly after that happened I stopped running with that crowd. And have never spoken to them since. So 6 years later. We see each other and do the occasional wave, and what not. Seen him in town one day and he just stared at me as he walked past me. Since then we have been waving, and smiling at one another. I am really shy and took a chance about a month ago now, and seen him managed to say hey

2007-05-09 18:26:22 · 1 answers · asked by Snowflakes 2 in Singles & Dating

Ever since spring came every guy I know every guy I talk to is flirting. Even my guy friends are acting wierd. Please tell me is it just the guys where I live or are all you guys like this? and If it's all guys how long willl it last?

2007-05-09 18:17:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to sort of be attracted to this guy. One night, at a party, I danced with him and hung out the whole night. We were both drinking. I introduced him to my friend that night and a week later, I found out that he thought my best friend was super hot. I was crushed, because this guy was the first guy I felt something for in a long time and began a period of self-consciousness, feeling ugly, low self-esteem. It was the worst 4 months, lowest point in my life. I felt like he used me that night. It felt like my standards of pretty were all wrong, and I was the ugliest person ever. Finally, a few months ago, he messaged her on myspace to get her screename for AIM, and then they started talking more and more often. As a witness to everything, every step of their relationship was crushing me. it was what I completely DREADED, and it was finally happening.

2007-05-09 18:09:52 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

continued and she like me and there is tis other girl who wants to be with me and the other day she cheated on me and she told me and i tried to forgive her and she made it seem like i was the bad guy and everything and then today she said she really wants to be with me and then the other girl that i like wants to be with me i want a decent relatiponship not a half one if you know what i mean 'i mean i want to be with the one that did not cheat but on the other hand i want to be with theone that cheated cause i do have feelings for her but truly i have never met either of them in real person but i think i am in love with the one that did not cheat but i also like the other one one is from missouri and te other is from cali i live in cali i would like to get this confusion out of my moind and everything i mean i am so confused on who i want to be with right now i know there is a possibilty that she can cheat again and i forgave her for the first one but idk she does have alot of issues

2007-05-09 18:06:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are 2 guy that like me and one is a player and jerk and the other one is sweet but when he get around me hes rude

2007-05-09 18:04:46 · 10 answers · asked by melissacampero805 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf used to smoke but she dident tell me I found out by other people and then she fineally told me. This has happened two times a. I think she is smokeing again I just wana know if she is that’s all. How can I find out if she is or not. I have asked her but she says no. tthats what she said the last two times aswell

2007-05-09 18:04:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she belong to someone else.. and i love her... and she does too..they live together.... i want her to end up with me but i dont want us to live together yet...? but i lover her and she's leaving out of the country..with her significant other.. and im broked.... cuz i dont want to loose her and at the same time i dont want to be in responsibilities of moving in with her.. geeshh.. and miss her so much.. cuz shes not showing up anymore...

2007-05-09 18:04:03 · 6 answers · asked by watdahell 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-09 18:03:26 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well we have been together 2 years at first we had an awsome sex life,then because i was on the same birthcontroll for 5 years i ended up having a tuble pregnancy,i had been so far along that the doctors had to cut me open,it was very scary,i almost died.
i knew he was always a huge porn nut but i started finding that women from sex sites were e mailing him and that he was on the t v and computer alot for sex stuff,i tried everything to try and have sex with him for a year now but its gotten worse,he wont have sex with me at all,i feel very unnatractive and hurt,and i really dont know what else i can do.i almost just dont want to get married because i feel put down by this behaviour,does he love me ?

2007-05-09 18:02:45 · 17 answers · asked by mel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever regreted for what you have done to your family and for what you have not done to your family?

2007-05-09 18:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by Ashidh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm a female, in my early forties, and, seem to be attracted more to the younger age of 20-ish...(men) is this wrong? or, and i just a dirty ole lady? thanks

2007-05-09 18:00:39 · 11 answers · asked by oifgijane 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, I'm 17 and I've never actually asked anyone out, people have always just come to me instead. I'm pretty easily convinced but of course I can't say the same for everyone else.
So, here's the story: I met this new guy at my school, and he's a little bit younger than me but I think he does like me at least as a friend. We talk sometimes friendly-like and he smiles at me a lot.
The day I met him though, I had to make a decision to drop out of school and get my GED. That day I had been taking the pre-test, and the guy saw me and asked about it, so I told him. So today I went to register for the series of tests, and then there he is at the office registering for the very same thing. I thought, "Huh, that's weird!" but I'm kind of happy about it because then I'll get to see him again.
So during the tests I assume we will have at least a couple breaks in between during which we can talk quietly or whatever. Should I ask him out then? And if so, how? I wanna subtle because I'm shy...

2007-05-09 18:00:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't want me to work nor go to college to get my Master's degree. When she 1st heard about me going back to college, she tried to talk me out of it. Also, my brother asked me, "Why don't you become a doctor. You should be a doctor because you're very smart." & then my mom intervened & said, "Candy, you don't have the mindset to be a doctor." I want my career to be a medical translator/interpreter.

Does my mom sound jealous? She has nothing going good for her life. She's afraid I'm gonna outsmart her, in which I already did. I'm the youngest & only person in the family to graduate from college.

2007-05-09 17:55:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-09 17:42:39 · 3 answers · asked by Smart_Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

Its seems to me more girls fall apart due to a break up. Do guys break down because of a break up or divorce? Maybe because guys try to hold it all in? Have any of you just lost it over a girl?

2007-05-09 17:40:09 · 1 answers · asked by Just Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so we fought over our wedding plans so much that I just gave up completely and we just got married after church one sunday. No dress, no reception, NOTHING. We never had a honeymoon, and on our wedding night I was bawling because after we got married he wanted to go to his cousins house and finally we left about 3 hours later after he finally got the hint. I thought that MAYBE he'd planned a nice dinner or something, but no. We came straight home and he ordered pizza. He never does anything special for me for Valentines day. I got a rose and a bag of m&ms this year. For my birthday he let me bid on a Vera Bradley on ebay and then just invited his family to a resturant to eat and gave me a card, which actually was better than last year.. last year he didn't even get me a card.. we just went to the mall! I had bought a few new outfits so he said that they would be counted as my bday presents. For our first anniversary we went to an outlet mall and he bought me two fossil watches.

2007-05-09 17:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by ... 1 in Weddings

My husband wants teenager to pay rent.The thing is;is that he wants me to be the one to to tell the teenager.Why should I be the one to have to tell him when it's his fathers idea that he pays rent.who do you think should address the teenager & why ?

2007-05-09 17:19:18 · 102 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-09 17:19:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a boyfriend of almost 4 years and i was talkin to him on msn. i was jokin around and sayin "ur momma" then he got so mad at me and called me a B****. Now he dont wanna talk to me, so what should i do? should i leave him alone till he's normal or talk to him and say sorry again... i said sorry to him and he said i was disrespectful.... i was just jokin:(

2007-05-09 17:18:32 · 35 answers · asked by BrownSugah 1 in Singles & Dating

Especially if he or she went as far as to e-mail this to your entire family

2007-05-09 17:18:26 · 14 answers · asked by golfnuttoday 1 in Family