i have been married for 5 years.but now i am in love with my husband's brother.he loves me too.
2007-05-09 19:05:45 · 23 answers · asked by blonde beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
whoa, classique. :)
2007-05-09 19:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
@#$$%^%! Get a divorce and marry the brother! When u r tired with him, change to another brother, cousin, whoever available!!! U know, that is what we call life...so complicated! We will never satisfy/content with what we have. But life is also about choices. We make choices everyday and be responsible for it. Now u hv a choice to make: to go on, sneaking behind ur husband's back OR tell him, get a divorce, and move on with his brother. Do u think it will satisfy ur need? Will u be happy? How r u going to face the in-laws? Friends? IF it is ok, then why not....go 4 it. Good luck!
2007-05-10 03:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by ni2penang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think stop your brother in law from coming round altogether .it is obvious that you have had contact or you would not know how your brother in law feels about you. but the kindest thing you can do for your husband is to give him his freedom. he deserves to be happy and he wont be with a cheat for a wife. and you don't deserve him. how could you ? and with his own brother to.i don't know what you were both thinking of.because it is not only your marrage that you have ruined but you have come between two brothers and this can and will split his family apart.so you will have ruined the lives of a lot of people just because you did not keep the sacred vows you made on your wedding day
2007-05-10 02:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like ... lust then love....
i'd ask the brother to not come around anymore, at all. keep far far away from him, the situation can only get worse. either divorce the husband now before it ends up with some serious pain, or cut off any contact with the other guy and put your heart and head back in the right place.
2007-05-10 02:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Technical Difficulties 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married and left my husband for the man I love and it was so worth it. He was abusive though.I am so happy now.
You should be with the one you love. You will find lots of people will disapprove of your decision but you just have to care about what you and your boyfriend think and don't worry about any one else.
2007-05-10 05:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by TTC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to the vows that you took? What kind of a person are you and his brother anyway? You arent't supposed to cheat in the first place, much less with his own brother. You belong on the Jerry Springer Show!!
2007-05-10 02:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to wake up to yourself. Marriage is a lifetime commitment! And the only way you "fell In love" with your husband brother is because you let it.
Be a woman, and do the right thing. through sickness, health till death etc..........
Or are you just full of air?
2007-05-10 04:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Pebbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in same situation, one of my friends wife start liking his husbands brother, well while the husband was out of the country the wife had a sex with her huby's brother. the situation got worst when she got pragnent. how the result of all this is.................husband gave divorse to the wife. the two brother are each others enimy, the wife had got abortion and she cant get pragnent again, the whole family is disturbed. and its a big tenssion among them which cant be cured now. so be careful,love your husband, he will live with u whole life not his brother.
2007-05-10 02:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the worst thing you can do is succumb to that as it is going to hurt not only your poor husband but you and his brother and the whole fmaily as well... this is a very difficult situation to be in and i think that the only right thing you can do is ignore it and if you really love your husband i dont see how you can eb in love with his brother as well... maybe you are just flattered by the attention he gives you..that could be a possibility..
2007-05-10 02:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That means your love is ONLY skin deep... so if you continue in that fashion, you will obviously is going to hurt your husband plus his family and rivary among brothers.
If you have any descency left, do the right thing. STOP having this affair with your husband's brother.
take care..
2007-05-10 03:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by trymejames 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Isn't this the storyline for a movie I just watched? Well you could just move to Arkansas and marry them both. They're not doing the Brokeback mountain thing are they?
Be a bigamist, go for it, then write a book and title it, "I got one brother and now I want the other."
2007-05-10 02:33:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋