OMG I'm not sure of anything right now!!?

Question

I really like this guy. Only thing is he is 10 years older then me. I'm 21. Well almost. Anyways. He's really cute. I know.... I know. We had some problems in 2001. With some of my old freinds. They were harrassing him and what not and he turned me in for it... not knowing where they lived. I guess. Damn people. Anyways we went almost 6 years not speaking. I would completely ignore him. And visa versa. It broke my heart heart cause I really thought he was something (still do) he always waved, smiled, and talked. But cause of some idiotic people that all stopped. But he was my wake up call. Shortly after that happened I stopped running with that crowd. And have never spoken to them since. So 6 years later. We see each other and do the occasional wave, and what not. Seen him in town one day and he just stared at me as he walked past me. Since then we have been waving, and smiling at one another. I am really shy and took a chance about a month ago now, and seen him managed to say hey

whats up and get a reply, he was laughing a bit and had a bit of a nervous act. I have had him in my car 2 times so far giving him a ride to work, first time he talked and was so sweet. Was asking questions and was so respectful. I was amazed by him and I fell again. But harder. This time. He barely spoke. Wasn't really cranky... But seemed like something was bothering him. (Pisces mean anything?) But at least he talked and said thank you for the ride..... so what do you guys think I am so confused... if you were in my situation what would you do....... Help??? suggestions and advice??? And dont say stay with your own age cause age has nothing to do with it.

Answer 1

I'd realize one he is older and the fact that he is acting like he is younger then me would shoot off some warning signs. Also would be suspecious of why he is so insecure. Really wouldn't even mess with the guy, but thats me and the fact I don't like to half-****-my-life. But since I know I can't talk you away from this guy, only good advice is what your to insecure to do for yourself, talk to him. Its that simple! Theres no magical words, no quick action, no prayer, or anything else thats going to answer your question other then him. Which helps to tell me more about why "warning" signs wouldn't be going off in your head about this guy...... usually when you get over 20 you began to loss some of those childish insecurities, if not then someone has a complex..... but good luck getting the gutso to talk to him.... because thats all thats left to do....