continued and she like me and there is tis other girl who wants to be with me and the other day she cheated on me and she told me and i tried to forgive her and she made it seem like i was the bad guy and everything and then today she said she really wants to be with me and then the other girl that i like wants to be with me i want a decent relatiponship not a half one if you know what i mean 'i mean i want to be with the one that did not cheat but on the other hand i want to be with theone that cheated cause i do have feelings for her but truly i have never met either of them in real person but i think i am in love with the one that did not cheat but i also like the other one one is from missouri and te other is from cali i live in cali i would like to get this confusion out of my moind and everything i mean i am so confused on who i want to be with right now i know there is a possibilty that she can cheat again and i forgave her for the first one but idk she does have alot of issues
2007-05-09 18:06:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many will give you advices but the best (and the one you'll least regret) is your own decision. We live and we learn, I'm sure the chances of you having a really long term relationship with either are slim (unless you think otherwise, in which case you should choose the best "most attractive [in all aspects]). Having read some of your previous answers on this board, I've realized that you are a superb being who will eventually get the woman he truly wants. Do whatever you think is right, just make sure that you learn from your mistake(s), which is what dating is all about.
2007-05-09 19:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by secretdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that this is a very complicated situation for you. Online dating is difficult and not for everyone. The people like yourself that do decide to cyber date, have a different set of standards and rules than traditional dating. If you feel more comfortable dating online than in a bar or club, dont let anyone force you into going out and meeting people the "conventional way".
It seems to me that the honesty of Cheater Girl took some guts and caring for you. You need to take that into consideration, not just the fact that she cheated. Girl #2 seems to be more faithful, but because she's only online this gives her an opportunity to deceive as well. If you are judging these two on distance, cali girl is best. If your judging on honesty, Cheater Girl girl is best because she came clean to you. No one can tell you who to pick or why to choose one over the other.
I think that you should sit down and weigh the pros and cons of starting a relationship with each of the girls. Pick the one that you are most comfortable with, because if you want to get serious comfort is what matters most next to love.
2007-05-09 19:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow your heart and take a step back and look at the situation with no feelings. The first girl cheated on you, so her intentions are not good or moral. Which may not be the love of your life if she brings pain and betrayel to the relationship. The second girl sounds like she has feelings and lives close. I say take things slow with girl number 2 !
2007-05-09 18:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fisrt off why would you want to be with someone that as cheated on you but i would also like to say why dont you go out and find a girl in your area. You did not cheat you did not i promise you seem like a nice a enough guy go meet a nice girl.
2007-05-09 18:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not rack my head over someone that I have never met. How do you know that you could love either one? They both could be lying to you, and you would never know. Just enjoy the talking, and stop trying to convince yourself that these are real relationships. If you find one you like, invite them to meet you, that way you can truly get to know them. Then you can decide if you love them.
2007-05-09 18:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest why do you care that she "cheated"? Actually, you can't be mad at her at all. Cuz for one she is not your girlfriend! she has no ties to you, you just talk to her online so their is no relationship. Second of all you're talking to another girl, so unless they know about each other wouldn't you be "cheating" also?
2007-05-09 18:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by PlainJane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama king.
2007-05-09 19:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by BkLeftist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋