Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

i mean i've just finally gotten over someone who i couldnt stop thinking about but now i need to give someone else advice as to how she can do the same.

it was easier for me and i know it will be much harder for her to get over her boyfriend so any ideas on what i should say?

2007-05-09 17:18:07 · 22 answers · asked by scorpio 3 in Singles & Dating

Well today was my last day of class for the college semester. Well I really like/look up to my college math teacher and I wrote her a letter and told her that I looked at her as not only a teacher, but a friend. Well, she wrote me back and told me at the end of the message... "One more thing...Call me (First Name)! So she wants me to address her by her first name and not by Mrs. (last name) anymore.. does this mean she is saying she wants to be my friend?

2007-05-09 17:17:57 · 8 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

once again i have relationship problems. I am madly in love with a boy i been going together with for 4 months, but my ole crush just told me that he had strong feelings for me. i dont like him anymore cause i was causing problems with his relationship and he said that he hated me. he likes me more than his girlfriend but i am in love with the boy i have now.. and i have a dude on the side hes my brother friend but he is in love wth me and always have. WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2007-05-09 17:17:48 · 13 answers · asked by Lilmama60 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all, let me say, I live in a really SMALL TOWN! We have one red light in the parish (which is like a county)! Anyway, with that said, it's way different than life in city and having friends!
When my husband and I first start dating his friends hated me, because they knew we were serious and they thought I was taking him away-as if! Anyway, at the time he traveled with work, they would always claim to see me out with another guy, even when I had been working all night! One of the friends is the worst of all and is now dating my best friend! He and I also work together, in different depts, but still together!
He has openly tried to hav eme fired, at the very least suspended by trying to claim I had not done my job correctly, even though there were recorded conversations and records proving I had done everything right, and these records CANNOT be changed, it's not possible! He actually tried to claim that I had managed to change them, I'm just not that good!

2007-05-09 17:17:46 · 28 answers · asked by jen 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my stupid geography teacher lisend in to me and my girlfriends conversation about how we were going to have sex on the weekend and thats NOT HIS BIZNESS but he called both of our parrents and now my girlfriends parrents hate me and they said she was grounded til she breaks up with me. of corse she lied and told them she broke up with me but really she didnt . i really love her and she loves me and i want to be with her for a long time but now i dont think thats posible because of her parrents caz we will have to sneak if we ever want to go out to like the movies or somthing...and i know i cant go to her house anymore unless her parrents arent home.

what should i do to get them to like me again??? please im desparate i really really love her.

2007-05-09 17:16:57 · 18 answers · asked by pyrokid000 1 in Singles & Dating

this person in my opinion uses me for there advantage putting me down and always expects there life/problems to be mine.. i cant just never see them, and when i confront this person they say sorry, but the next min do it over and over again.. please help

2007-05-09 17:16:47 · 10 answers · asked by la la la 1 in Family

2007-05-09 17:15:15 · 19 answers · asked by STALKER BLOCK 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She's shy and i'm shy so its kind of a problem, but she's always smiling at me, saying hi, and going out of her way to talk to me. How can I tell if she likes me more than a friend?

2007-05-09 17:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by xjchayx 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married nearly 4 years now, but I'm not sexually attracted to my wife anymore no matter what we do. Is this how it will always be, I love her a lot what should I do

2007-05-09 17:14:32 · 25 answers · asked by marccat80 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my ex called and asked me to escort her to someplace she was unfamiliar with and we went as friends. The next time she came by my house and ended up in my arms, and it went a bit further but we didn't sleep together. We agreed to be friends but she said she wanted to make sure her current b/f would be ok with it. When I asked her if she was going to tell her current boyfriend that she had hung out with me, she said no he would be hurt if I told him. We both agreed to behave ourselves and not let our feelings for one another allow us to do more than friends would when together, but in practically the same breath she mentioned wearing an outfit she knows I like and things like that the next time she comes over. Ladies especially and fellas to I am curious to what you all think is going on here, am I setting myself up for trouble or is she going to be fine being friends in this...

2007-05-09 17:14:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-09 17:13:30 · 14 answers · asked by nunes_judy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what are/will be your wedding colors?

2007-05-09 17:12:22 · 15 answers · asked by kc.rayne 1 in Weddings

We were at a light and were talking about the light being red and stoping. She is almost three in July. Well about a few seconds later I heard scretching and saw the driver in my rear mirror coming at me and BOOM! Our van was totaled and the truck. He had a big chevy truck. The guy that hit us had no license, no ins, no english speaking and was under the influence of alchcohol. He had a open bear can in his cab.
Thank god my daughter and I made it! I hurt real bad all over, especially my neck. We were taken to the ER by ambulance and were checked out okay. I have a lawyer coming over tomorrow, but should I see a doctor before the lawyer comes? to have on record? Or does it matter, since they ER gave me a CAT scan? my daughter saw her doctor today and was fine. She also had a chest xray at the hosp. She is fine too. oh yes he was arrested and handcuffed but did not get a breath test. Do they do that at the station? I will call tomorrow to see if a report has been made yet?

2007-05-09 17:10:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okayy.. so most of the time im REALLY on the quiet side and i really hate it! well its more shy.. but i really need to talk it up. i need help! and dont just say BE YOURSELF cuz really.. that doesnt help lol so yahh. ill love youu forever&&everr mannn if youu can just help:)

2007-05-09 17:10:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-09 17:04:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

....is a tier 2 sex offender? We met him 5 years ago and he use to come over to our house once a week to play cards. He was never alone with our kids or even givent he chance to do anything with them. But he never told us he was a registered sex offender.
It is very disturbing to know that he is one but worst of all that he never told us. What would you do and how would you feel?

2007-05-09 17:01:46 · 9 answers · asked by LaVeta G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well today was my last day of class for the college semester. Well I really like/look up to my college math teacher and I wrote her a letter and told her that I looked at her as not only a teacher, but a friend. Well, she wrote me back and told me at the end of the message... "One more thing...Call me (First Name)! So she wants me to address her by her first name and not by Mrs. (name) anymore.. does this mean she is saying she wants to be my friend?

2007-05-09 16:50:24 · 2 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-09 16:49:27 · 2 answers · asked by Josh A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is deployed and she admitted that she's been cheating with his friend. Is she entitled to his money? They haven't been married long. He's afraid she will automatically get half of his money. What should he do?

2007-05-09 16:39:26 · 5 answers · asked by digitalfoxx74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 16:37:58 · 118 answers · asked by gothic_gurl_demon 1 in Singles & Dating

so um... well i'm quiet person sumtime but i i talk alot anyway he's always get into trouble and say stuff out loud out of nowhere and agrue with the teacher sumtime.i hope i makin sense.
This guy i like he's in my first period class and he always call me ''Say Say" a nick name that he gave me. Everytime my teacher give out work,he sumtime ask for me to help. Then this morning while in class everbody in my class was waiting to get sum equiment for experiment then out of nowhere he touches my hair and that was weird.idk if he like me or not or jus playin with me idk.oh yeah we're both 8th grader.so yeah i'm kinda confuse.

2007-05-09 16:36:47 · 38 answers · asked by Say Say 2 in Singles & Dating

I find that I am attracted to UK women more so than American women. I would love to chat to a UK lady.I'm 6'4" 245 brown hair green eyes cowboy cherokee and Irish.

2007-05-09 16:36:47 · 79 answers · asked by Crime scene-xtra large unit 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey what do Boys look for in a girl. I mean both in Persoanlity and Looks or is it just one or the other. Please help.

2007-05-09 16:36:46 · 71 answers · asked by Stella Marie 2 in Singles & Dating

He does enough stuff that everyone thinks he like me...likes me. But I'm afraid it's head games. How can a girl tell the difference???

1. He doesn't want me to flirt with other guys.
2. Says he's not "cheating" on me or involved with anyone
from work. I don't know what happens outside of work.
3. Has told me I started a fire in him.
4. Mentioned my bed in a provocative conversation.
5. Denies that he has stopped loving me.

Yes. I realize we're not dating, but could these all be head games or is he INTO me?


Oh! And he's always interested what happens when I skip work or go to the doctor. I have fibromyalgia and I stay at the doctor...seems like it. He keeps up with my blood test and stuff like it was a pregnancy test ... if you know what I mean... but we're not there yet!

2007-05-09 16:35:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got married 20 yrs back. Relations have not always been smooth. We had fights, no sex for month or so...but ultimately we pulled on together till recently.
Now since last 5 months we are not on talking terms...but i guess both of us want to be together...but just waiting for the other partner to break the ice.
My question to all married females is that if both partners love each other...HOW LONG CAN THE WIFE STAY WITHOUT SEX?. pl. give an honest answer......AND also suggest that if YOU were the wife in such case WHAT WOULD U EXPECT FROM YOUR HUSBAND to break the ice.....and also what steps you would take (if u were in her place to break the ice)

Thnaks for your effors....

2007-05-09 16:35:04 · 65 answers · asked by sunil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just dont like kissing. I will kiss my boy friend but for some reason we dont kiss all that much, not that i know how much is normal heh, or if there is a "normal" amount.

Something about kissing just does nothing for me. Something happened when I was younger that sort of turned me off it. And I just can't get used to the idea.

Is it strange for a couple not to kiss hello and goodbye!? Am I just being stupid in thinking there are rules to kiss at certain times. I'm fine in showing any other physical signs of affection, but would just rather not kiss all the time.

2007-05-09 16:35:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well these girls at my private school cannot stop pressuring me about weairing make up they think its dumb.Iam 15 yrs old and im the only 1 that wears make up all the other girls dont!who doesnt right?!anyways does make up attract guys?

2007-05-09 16:34:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my gf broke up about...uh..say..almost 2 months ago...she got another bf..rather stupid one

Recent events are saying that she is trying copy my life basically...shes trying be independent as me and trying help this guy shes with out cause he does drugs and all..and shes getting rid of her selfish attitude and not trusting people...she loves me still..she wont admit it and neither will I.

I do not understand why she wants to copy my life? ....Does this means she wants to see my way of things and wants to try to be together again later or what?

2007-05-09 16:33:56 · 10 answers · asked by andy_nc2002 1 in Singles & Dating

okay heres the deal i have a huge crush on this guy at my school and i like him ALOT(duh!) and his neew girlfriend is one of my friends well tonite after our church meeting i was in the room with them and she kinda looked at me and smiled and then she looked at him put her arms around his neck and started kissing him!!!!! It made me sick to my stomach i couldnt even stay in the room another minute i had to get up and go outside! someone tell me why would she do that to me pleaze i really feel horrible pleaze help!!?!?!?!

2007-05-09 16:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont want to figth her because i will get in so much trouble if i get cougth or i will be send to anthor school but i do want to figth her for so many reasons and i dont want her to think im scared o her cause im NOT what should ido?

2007-05-09 16:32:56 · 21 answers · asked by :] 2 in Friends