can anyone help with a broken heart?

Answer 1

Awww... I hate broken hearts.
=[ they make me sad
I've had one-too many.
Well all I can tell you is eat a lot of ice cream
and try to move on.
If the guy breaks up with you,
He just doesn't know what he is missing.
all of my friends go up to my ex's and say
"It's because your gay isn't it?"
Mostly I use the ice cream for brain freezes.
It helps me get my mind of things.
But if you need to talk to someone.
Just e-mail me.
I'm willing to talk.

Answer 2

Well, ouch, broken hearts hurt, and they take some time to heal, but there is for sure some things you could do to ease the pain. First, I suggest buying chocolate, and lots of it. This may seem pointless, but chocolate is actually shown to lift your mood (nice, huh?). Second, spend a lot of time with your friends. They will be able to pull you through your hard times and keep you smiling. Thind, use creative vents. You could paint, draw, sing, write, make jewlery, or anything really, it's a great way to get rid of unwanted feelings. And if you are not artistic, you can look at other people's work or listen to music. Last but not least, get outside. Being outside and getting active stimulates the endorphin production in your body, which naturally makes you happier. Even all of these things combined can't get rid of a broken heart, but they can really help with the pain until your heart mends. Hope I helped!!

Answer 3

Hey, I don't think any of us can heal your broken heart but we can def. lift your spirits. Love is wonderful whether it be a love for a family member, friend or lover. It is something that you should be thankful for, enjoy and cherish. Even if at some point your relationship with that person changes, you should still remember the good times you had with them and take comfort in the fact that there once was love there. Remember that love hurts and that time heals. Look forward to tomorrow and a better day and soon you will be a month away with wonderful memories and a new healed heart ready for new love. Good luck and best wishes.

Answer 4

All in all, it takes time.

In the mean time, while it hurts the worst, distract yourself. Do something fun. Do something you've always wanted to do. Dont do anything you'll regret though....been there done that (i.e. tattoos, rebound relationships, drunken evenings).

Dont forget to deal with your broken heart though. It is okay to cry; its sort of like the death process. You are grieving a loss; the loss of a relationship. It is ok to cry, its ok to be angry, its okay to ignore it for a little while, and its okay to want the person back.

Find ways that help you express the feelings youre having. If youre a right brained person, paint, take photographs, do something creative. If youre left brained, make lists (why the person isnt right for you, things you want to achieve, things you can do now that youre free, etc).

I know it feels like the world is awful right now, but it gets better. Take good care of yourself. Get a makeover if it makes you feel better. Remember that the best part about breaking up is finding someone else you cant get enough of.

Answer 5

Perhaps knowing that you are just fine as you are can help.

Often we think it is us when our heart is broken. We question if something is wrong with us or if we should have done something different and things would have turned out better.

Remember that a broken heart is just the beginning of finding the person that we are meant to be with. Love isn't one sided. It is about finding someone that accepts us as we are. Just like we love the person we love completely.

Somethings were not meant to be and finding out now is the best thing that could happen. Just imagine what it would feel like after investing even more time into a futile future.

Hold your head high and smile. It is ok to cry and be sad. It is just the universal pathway that all experience in their life at some time or another.

Answer 6

Yes, play happy music. None that reminds you of "the one that broke your heart". Go out with friends. Keep very busy, so your idle mind does not keep thinking about the broken heart. Put away all the things that remind you of that person. Try to turn your life around, eventually it will happen. If you feel out of control, write in a journal. Get your personal and inner feelings onto paper, it will help ease the way you feel. Good luck, it's hard but it does work.

Answer 7

THE KEY BEHIND THE BROKEN HEART CURE: PEOPLE WILL SAY GO FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND THIS WILL MAKE YOU FORGET ABOUT THE LOST LOVE. THATS CRAP: BECAUSE YOU WILL SPEND TIME THINKING ABOUT THEM REGARDLESS.
1. TAKE THE TIME TO CRY AND GET IT OUT OF YOUR SYSTEM. 2. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE CLOSURE WITH THIS PERSON. 3. UNDERSTAND THAT IT'S OVER AND LET GO. 4. TAKE A LONG LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND REALIZE THAT YOU ARE STILL YOU WITHOUT THEM. 5. DO SOME YOU SOUL SEARCHING GET YOUR RELATIONSHIP IDEAS IN ORDER. 6. LOOK AT THE BREAK UP AND EMBRACE IT DONT REGRET IT. 7. BE HAPPY WITH THE THOUGHT THAT THERE IS A NEW BEGINNING OUT THERE FOR YOU. 8. RECONNECT WITH YOUR" SINGLE IDENTITY". DONT GIVE INTO SEXUAL GRATIFICATIONS TOO FAST THE REBOUND EFFECT IS HORRIBLE SOMETIMES. IN THE END KNOW YOU ARE WORTH IT. GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Yes. Here are my ten suggestions. :)

1) Consciously decide to think about every happy moment or thing you are grateful about which happened BEFORE you met the person who broke your heart. Think those things all over. Make a list if it helps you focus.

2) Read about relationship red flags on the internet. Try to learn as much as you can from the situation so that you don't fall into the same kind of pain with a new person. Look at it as a learning situation and as an opportunity to become more compassionate, be able to give better advice, and to learn important life lessons.

3) Go outside or to the gym. Get your body moving. You will feel better as you move.

4) Fill your life with beauty. Maybe even get a camera and take pictures of flowers close up. Look at things that are beautiful and uplifting. Play an instrument (or a cd). Put on music that is beautiful-- (and not the old songs you associate with that person).

5) Talk to G-d about the hurt you are feeling. Yeshua (Jesus) cares about you.

6) Expect that the next few holidays are going to be somewhat tough. Be proactive to make plans to be with real friends who have stood with you through thick and thin and who won't bail on you during those times.

7) Forgive the person. You won't have residual bitterness which will mar your perception or leave a nasty emotional infection for you to fight.

8) One of the best ways to forgive someone is to continue to verbally or silently want good for him or her. People who are real don't turn love on and off like a spigot. I believe that once a person loves someone else-- really loves someone else-- there is always some love still there for the person. Just want good for the person, whether it is with you or someone else. That will do a lot to help you overcome this trouble you are walking THROUGH.

9) Find someone to help-- whether it is a neighbor kid who is struggling with homework or an elderly person who needs a kind word or someone to talk to. If you give of yourself-- even when you are hurting, you are planting kindness. Kindness and relief from your pain will come back to you in time.

10) Someone in your life--maybe your mom or a teacher or a favorite aunt or uncle-- someone in your life has been through a broken heart, too. If the truth is know, almost all of us have at some point. The most important thing is for this to be a clean wound which doesn't get infected with fear or bitterness. Get to know yourself again, all over again. Write down your strengths, your best qualities, your funny quirks, your goals, your dreams, your places you would like to travel. Spend time building yourself up (and hugging an animal if you have one). Talk to trusted older people about how they overcame heartache.

As for me, knowing G-d cares is a huge comfort. Day by day,
as you keep living, hope and perspective will be revived for you.

Hugs and peace to you.

Answer 9

This will not help at all with your feelings.
I have come to realize this late in my life that who I am today is in a big part the pain I have caried with me for many, many years. So this implies when I was young I was not strong enough to rationally decide which relationships to get into and which to reject, and I blindly walked into relationships back then, the ones that did not work out. They were not suppose to work they were suppose to strengthen me for what I am to evolve into. Only then will I be able to find a relaionship that will last the test of time.
Love is truly a learning process for your Heart and Soul, until they have become strong enough to know which relationships to get into you will end up in some wrong choices but will evolve because of them.

My thoughts are with all of you who suffer heartache..... I know how deeply I was effected - - sometimes it is with you 15 years later....Like me.
I am the person I am today as a result of the pain I carried all these years.

Answer 10

Every time I cried because I was thinking I had lost the love of my life, I found someone better and I regretted all those days and nights crying for someone that obviously wasn't for me,
My best advice cry as much as you can for couple of days, you'll get tired remember the worse times you spent with that person it will give you an idea of why you are not together and the best: find a new love as soon as you feel better! trust me there isn't anything better than giving yourself the chance to fall in love over and over again that's the beauty of being single enjoy your time don't suffer it. The true love of your life will come one day and that person will love you forever and will not break your heart or hurt you.
Good luck and please don't forget that life it's too short, we never know if we'll be alive tomorrow try not to waste too much time suffering because every new day it's a gift and we have to appreciate it!

Answer 11

Maybe the most painful part of life is coping with a broken heart. Unfortunately there is no quick fix. Confide in people you can trust. Allow yourself the proper time to grieve. Don't fight the pain; fighting it only prolongs it. Pray to God to heal your broken heart and begin to help others in need.