okay heres the deal i have a huge crush on this guy at my school and i like him ALOT(duh!) and his neew girlfriend is one of my friends well tonite after our church meeting i was in the room with them and she kinda looked at me and smiled and then she looked at him put her arms around his neck and started kissing him!!!!! It made me sick to my stomach i couldnt even stay in the room another minute i had to get up and go outside! someone tell me why would she do that to me pleaze i really feel horrible pleaze help!!?!?!?!
2007-05-09 16:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes i know she was just kissing her bf but she did it in rude fashion she could of waited till i left!
2007-05-09 16:46:26 · update #1
and yes i know she was just kissing her bf but she did it in rude fashion she could of waited till i left!
2007-05-09 16:46:36 · update #2
there are two reasons, one she was just kissing her bf and there is nothing to it or she could be making it clear to u that this guy is her boyfriend and she really does not care about how you feel about that. either way it stupid and childish. it seams that she does not really care about your feelings because a good friend would not do that in front of you if she knows it would bother you.
2007-05-17 16:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by fortheloveoforange 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend probably knows you have a crush on her b/friend so when she saw you she immediately claimed her "possession" and wrapped her arms round him and started kissing him*..with the smile* she gave you before she did that....is just her way of saying "he's hers...not yours". It was not a nice thing to do...and yes i know it's her b/friend but still..she purposely put on a lil show for you to tick you off* it worked cuz you left the room to go outside and get air. When you have a crush on someone it would really be sickening to watch that person kissing the other person.
Guess you'll have to just move on and try to forget bout your crush on him...once she sees it's not bothering you anymore or that you're with some guy of your own..she won't go out of her way infront of you anymore*~~
2007-05-09 16:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she is your friend, sorry, she is not. What she did does not justify a friendship. She became aggresive to your "crush" in front of you, thus dissing you. I think you should, from this point forward, take a proactive position with your "crush" let him know how you feel he will understand, he will also understand the kiss from your so called friend was shallow and without the true feelings that you have for him.
2007-05-09 17:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by the great achiever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i wouldn't trust that for a minute i have had way to many bad experiences in the past with that and it leads to nothing but trouble. if you two are in a serious relationship why is there a need for her to be with another guy. you should be the only one that matters and you should let her know that. and if she can not handle that then take a break until she realizes your more important and if she doesn't shes putting him before you which a relationship is not whats right between u two.
2016-05-19 04:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing that you have to realize is that she didn't do anything to you. It sounds cruel, but it is the truth. She was kissing her boyfriend. When people have a new bf/gf, that will be their focus. You have to try to get over him because unfortunately he is not your boyfriend. He is with her. I would do my best to steer clear of them when possible and try to get to know other available boys.
2007-05-09 16:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were only 3 of you in the room. Who else could she have kissed?
2007-05-09 16:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh dang! i know what ya mean! me and this one guy had a thing going on and my ..ex...best friend took him from me because shes 18 and im only 15 dang it. and they kiss in front of me and do stuff that me and him use to do allot..in front of me. but yeah. here's what you do. if you know he likes you. get one of his friends interested in you. and go for him. that will make the guy you like jealous. orrr. if you're nice and don't want to use some guy...find a new one!
2007-05-09 17:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by California ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes we do bad things unintentionally. my best friend is dateing my ex and it all conspired around the time that he was talking about getting back with me. when u like someone, u tend to stop thinking about everyone around u and only them and what u can get.
2007-05-09 17:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by gitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but get over it and move on! She was just being innocent-----maybe showing off that she has a new bf. n
2007-05-09 16:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes trying to make u jealous...
2007-05-09 16:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by kalepersia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋