He does enough stuff that everyone thinks he like me...likes me. But I'm afraid it's head games. How can a girl tell the difference???
1. He doesn't want me to flirt with other guys.
2. Says he's not "cheating" on me or involved with anyone
from work. I don't know what happens outside of work.
3. Has told me I started a fire in him.
4. Mentioned my bed in a provocative conversation.
5. Denies that he has stopped loving me.
Yes. I realize we're not dating, but could these all be head games or is he INTO me?
Oh! And he's always interested what happens when I skip work or go to the doctor. I have fibromyalgia and I stay at the doctor...seems like it. He keeps up with my blood test and stuff like it was a pregnancy test ... if you know what I mean... but we're not there yet!
2007-05-09 16:35:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he likes you ...let the realtionship flow...and grow.I doubt they are head games.If it is meant to be it will be you sound pretty offical already.I am sure there is more to come.
2007-05-09 17:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by Brianna M 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ok seems like you have secrete admirer borderline stocker. If you're not dating him, there's no reason he should asking you to not talk to other guys, also why is he mentioning your bedroom, when you don't even know anything about him outside of your workplace. Seems like he more of an office flirt. Everyone has at least one guy in their work that flirts with certain people more than others. Want to find out he really likes you or if he's just an office flirt....suggest you guys hang out for lunch or after work sometimes, if that's not possible work something out to get know him outside the office. Also do research check girlfriend/wife status and mental state. Just get to know him a little bit more and there will be no questions.
2007-05-09 18:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this might deffinitely all be suggestions video games. Do you spend lots of time with him or is he going out with human beings on the weekends? Do you notice him adequate to comprehend he's not enjoying a set of different ladies as nicely? in case you could telll which you are the only lady he looks attracted to then decide for it, he's in all possibility severe... in any different case i could stay away.
2016-10-31 00:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure about him, stand back for awhile and keep observing him. Look for red flags. Some men like the chase when it comes to sex, and then you don't see them again. Why isn't he asking you out yet? He seems interested.
You will know in time just take things slow and casual. It takes
time and experience to really know how someone feels about you. Enjoy his attention, and wait awhile before you go out with him. He may be genuine or just looking for someone to
put his fire out! Good luck.
2007-05-09 16:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by messenger 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You find out by taking a direct approach and asking him! If all else fails go for drinks and after a few, ask him! If it's a not good answer, then you can always play like you don't remember asking him the question once you sober up!
Either way, you have to ask to find out!
2007-05-09 17:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you started a jealousy fire. don't believe everything he says.he seems to be playing a game telling you all right things you want to hear to make you thing that he loves you.he wants you on a leash so he could have you at is command .if your not dating you shouldn't worry about you mention into me there is the motive.there is more guys out there who treat you like a woman and respect your boundaries.who you are as a person?????
2007-05-09 17:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by clifford d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he likes you. Give him a chance. ask him out to a dinner or movie. If he jumps at the chance and asks when, where and what time ??. Then he wants to be with you. If you offer and she says " i don't know " or something like that then he was just playing mind games. But it sounds to me he is really into you. Now before you go on a date with him check and see if you like him in that way first. If not don't even ask him for a date.
2007-05-09 16:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2007-05-09 17:05:31 · answer #8 · answered by Uptown Girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys just like to have some sort of control over any females they are attracted to, even if they arent even dating. Guys like to see how far a female gives in... In your case, sounds like genuine interest not head games. Be careful though, if he hasnt gotten any from you, he's just trying to score some dunks. Trust me..
2007-05-09 17:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by BkLeftist 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm weird... I'm going to be honest with you. If you're not dating and you haven't slept with him I think he might be interested. BUT he also sounds like he might be a player. "You start a fire in him." Sounds like a player line to me. I'm not too sure, not enough information to give you a good input. Good luck though!
2007-05-09 17:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like the offering part, it is tried and true. There is only one way to feel loved, after going through all this.
Is he waiting for you to say yes, have you pushed him far back, or are you asking us for our approval. Yes, go now.
2007-05-09 16:54:10 · answer #11 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋