What do guys look for?

Question

Hey what do Boys look for in a girl. I mean both in Persoanlity and Looks or is it just one or the other. Please help.

Answer 1

I'll tell ya right now what boys look for in girls:
#1--Confidence
#2--Intelligence
#3--looks-to a varying degree
#4--they like girls who aren't clingy, girls who are overly emotional, they like girls that aren't complicated
#5--they like girls that don't act, and ARE NOT desperate
#6--they like girls that ARE NOT phoney

Answer 2

I think it's looks at first then personality will keep them around. Just make sure to play a little hard to get. Because no matter how great you are and how perfect the two of you would be together no guy is going to call you the next day if you sleep with him the first night or act too desperate. Just act like you don't care what they think about you and you don't care if they call you or not and they will be eatting out of the palm of your hand. Men always want what they can't have.

Answer 3

Both , yes I like hot girls but looks can only get you so far, say u meet a hot grl/guy what r u going to do besides stare at each other all night long if you do not have a personalty And while they are not the primary thing, looks do matter, And if they say different they are liking if likes really did not matter than ask yourself when was the last time u were with an ugly person or have you ever heard someone say dang your ugly as hell i have to get with u

Answer 4

it all depends on the guy some guys go just for looks that are fashionable and poetic, and how quick they can get u in bed its true yes, that's a hit it and quit type. their are guys that look for what a girl has in common with them and would like to know about u rather then what u look like are act like, they my be look in for a relationship just to open their minds and see what it is the do like and don't they my find out that u are what they want or not, those are the ones that are figuring out want they what u my be the one. there are the ones that know but are looking those are the ones interested in marriage most of the time sometimes they just what a uncommitted relationship and want to make sure the are ready for it all. hope this helps

Answer 5

My opinion (as some other guys are different) but Personality will always outweigh looks any day! I mean...sure, you could be the sexiest thing on earth but if your personality is about as intriguing as a cardboard box than a guy will eventually stray off. Personality and looks depends on the guy preference, Some guys like women that are witty and spontaneous, while others may like women that are independent and kind but I don’t think any guy likes a woman that is too caught up in herself to give a damn about anyone else.

Answer 6

Looks are only skin deep. It's what's on the inside that counts. I've known and seen a lot of really good-looking people that can't find a long lasting partner, once the partner gets past the original looks. If there nothing of value on the inside, why date just the looks?

Answer 7

1. Looks. afterall it is whats on the outside that catches your eye.
2. Her Mind. smart, able to hold a conversation. This is what keeps a man interested
3. Her interest in me....Does she seem to really be interested in what I am about.
4. Interests....do we have roughly the same interest and enjoy doing the same things.
5. moral and ethics...do we seem to share these
6. Her Heart....this is what will make us fall in love.


now if you wanted to know just about looks...I can't help you there becuase EVERYONE has their own taste.
some like skinny girls, while some like fit, average, or curvy. while still others like chunky or big girls.

some like red heads, blondes, brunettes or black hair

some like ethnic girls

I think most would agree that they like girls who look good with little or no make-up....that way when they do wear make-up it makes them even more beautiful.

Beauty is in the eye of the Beholder.

Answer 8

We all look for something beautiful in life. If you decide on what's important to you first ,then you can be better able to hold a conversation with a boy about his interests. Believe me, guys are interested in whatever will interest you as long as it is a genuine interest that you are developing honestly, Then you can decide if honesty, respect , passion are important as you engage in dialogue. If you want to mold yourself into something beautiful , don't base it on some boy's values but on values you find from experience and wisdom.

Answer 9

Lets be honest, every guy in every part of the world looks for an attractive women when he sees one he'll go in for the kill, but if she doesn't have the brians than more than likely he'll take her home for a night and then say goodbye. but if she's fun than he'll try to keep her around! So the main answer is Guys just think and look for sex

Answer 10

I used to go for looks, but I have dated with girls who only looked for materials (money, expensive watch, or bags) for guys. They were pretty, but they did not fullfill my heart at all!! After that I started to look for a person who can be interested in my personality. Of course, when I expect girls to look for my personality, I also look for girls who have a good personality. Definately, personality first and looks can build up the relationship of a couple more romantic afterwards.

Answer 11

They are looking for an entire package. Looks is the first things that attracts them. They like nicely dressed and put together girls. Next the notice personality. Girls with confidence and who are secure with themselves are attractive. They don't like women who are driven by emotion and have issues with jealousy or co-dependency. I hope this helps. Good Luck