my stupid geography teacher lisend in to me and my girlfriends conversation about how we were going to have sex on the weekend and thats NOT HIS BIZNESS but he called both of our parrents and now my girlfriends parrents hate me and they said she was grounded til she breaks up with me. of corse she lied and told them she broke up with me but really she didnt . i really love her and she loves me and i want to be with her for a long time but now i dont think thats posible because of her parrents caz we will have to sneak if we ever want to go out to like the movies or somthing...and i know i cant go to her house anymore unless her parrents arent home.
what should i do to get them to like me again??? please im desparate i really really love her.
2007-05-09 17:16:57 · 18 answers · asked by pyrokid000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, You are so screwed!!! The teacher thought he was doing you both a favor, By trying to avoid a teenage pregnancy in his class. And THAT REALLY pissed off her parents!!! As far as they are concerned, You tried to take something precious from their little princess, and they don't trust you!!! The ONLY solution i can see for you is to talk to her father and apologize to him for being out of line where his daughter is concerned.. And one day they might begin to trust you again, Since you came forward like a man and owned up to your mistake. If you don't do that, You may as well start looking around for a new girl..You might sneak around for a little bit, But in the end you will get caught! Never underestimate a girl's protective parents. Hope that helped..
2007-05-09 18:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well as a parent I wouldn't want you around my daughter either and I really don't think that there is anything you could do. Her parents do not want her to become pregnant and if you start sneaking around that is what will happen. Have you ever heard...Whatever is done in the dark will come to the light...think about what you are saying. Be a man and apologize to her family and maybe over time they can forgive you. Because when you start sneaking around there will be a lot of trouble that you will have to deal with..Are you ready for that? And do you think that your love can survive that?
2007-05-09 18:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ga's Peach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to sneak to see each other, then that's an obvious sign that the two of you are to young to be having or think about having sex.Don't blame it on the teacher...take responsibilty for your actions . As an adult the teacher was probably considering the possible consequences of what the two of you were talking about. You need to go to her parents and apologize for even the thought of having sex with their daughter. Admit to them that you were wrong and tell them you are willing to prove that you love their daughter by accepting your relationship under their terms.
2007-05-09 19:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have been speaking about it in class, but even then i agree its none of your teachers business.
I hate how parents make their kids break up with their boyfriends or girl friends just because they are young because yeah as you're doing you'll just sneak around behind their back and do it - why dont parents learn? Her parents should have realised - okay they are going to do it regardless, so i will teach her to use protection and teach her about safe sex.
I'm not sure they will like you ever again, they have judged you on something they have heard and i'm not sure anything you can do will change their minds
2007-05-09 17:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
They won't like you again now that they know what sex plans you have for their daughter. Do you think they want her to get pregnant? No. They want what is best for her and that's not you. You will be lucky if she doesn't get shipped off to some Aunt and Uncle for the next year or so. You are every girls parents worst nightmare.
2007-05-09 18:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the best thing you could do is to show your girlfriend's parents that you do respect her (and them) and prove to them that you really love her.... ... ... ... .. and even though her parents won't like you the way they did they'll eventually learn to accept you.. .. .. .... don't confront them yet.. but sooner or later you have to ... let the situation cool down a bit.... (if my parents found out i was sneaking out with my bf then i'd be dead right now..) after a while then you and your gf could talk to your parents about your relationship... of course they'd understand...
p.s. i think your geo teacher should get a life... even though he didi what he thought was best... good luck... :)
2007-05-09 18:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by rockin'_the_world 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so they hate you? what you need to do is go through her parents. Sleep with them and you're in. hopefully you got a laugh out of this. first of all... how old are you? if you're in jr high you really shouldn't have sex. waiting til marriage is actually the best (and most mature) choice. now i want you to ask yourself this question. would you still want to be with her if she said she wanted to wait til marriage? of course that doesn't include kissing/holding hands/cuddling/hugging. if you don't know, then you don't really love her. as far as her parents go, give it time. hopefully it will pass. tell her to stand up to her parents, but not completely rebell. go there and apologize and kiss their asses.
2007-05-09 18:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of that they hate you, i think of that its greater of a terror that they are "little lady" is turning out to be up. they may additionally presume which you will sell off her once you adult adult males have intercourse. i'm not announcing thats what is going to ensue yet father and mom think of and anticipate an excellent form of issues on an identical time as their young ones are turning out to be up. Giving them that apology letter or perhaps speaking with them will tutor which you're a mature, to blame, youthful grownup. you may not extremely do a lot in case you supply them the letter and that they nonetheless hate you; its purely them. You tried your proper and thats extremely all that counts. attempt and bear in concepts, that this burden shouldn't in basic terms take a seat on your shoulders. it is likewise your lady chum that agreed. stable success!
2016-12-11 05:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by klohs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,
just stay with her.
Its really not a problem... just claim to be just friends if you get caught, of course it'll outrage them,
but she'll love you more and more,
which is the best and only choice you have at the moment... fight to be with her, this is a good thing. Love, and never make that mistake, sex is supposed to be private... She was probaly annoyed, you waNNA have sex, make the move. SURPRISE.
If she's not ready, LISTEN!!
Show her your reliable and convincing, Remember, love her, not her parents.
-Piece of **** teacher.
2007-05-09 18:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
what a predicament, no parent wants to know that there little girl is having sex whiles still in school.
well what u do is speak to ur own parents, talk to them &say that yall are maturing &thats why yall where talking about sex.
u see if u can win ur own parents over, u can get them to go with u to ur girlfriends parents home and get them to talk it out.
if not try &talk to them urself &apologize, cause sneeking around is going to get u more in trouble.
2007-05-09 18:18:00 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋