Did you cheat just because you did not get enough sex in your marriage or did you just want to hurt your spouse?.
Really there is no excuse but I was just wondering I could never cheat on my wife.
2007-05-09 19:47:00 · 6 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I cheated when we were engaged, he was gone for six months to Korea, visited for a couple weeks then went back for another six months. I was confused on whether or not I wanted to marry him, and I needed sex while he was gone too, but I never intended to hurt him what-so-ever, I thought "what he doesnt know wont hurt him". He did find out on his own eventually though and I feel so guilty now even after being married for four months. Believe you me though, I will never put myself in a stupid situation like that again. Because that's exactly what it is, we put ourselves in stupid situations and let things happen, knowing we are doing wrong, when we know damn well we could get ourselves outta that situation before something stupid happens!
2007-05-09 20:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by ELpaso23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my husband about a year before we got married and I figure it was because I came accross an ex that I still had some feelings for. And when I seen him, the feelings re-ignited and I just had to have him again. Needless to say, I try to stay away from ex's now LOL!!!
2007-05-09 19:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by j_elmo28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me we did not want to fall in love we knew it was wrong but we did and the sad part is afterwords, feeling so guilty about loving each other and hurting others, not trusting each other completely hurt even more - believe me i know
2007-05-09 20:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by cheri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you must be in love with her, and she must satisfy your needs intimately... thats not rocket science.
2007-05-09 20:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wasn't because of the sex it was because he wouldn't treat me as a equal. and i don't regret it either.
2007-05-09 20:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by browneyes7c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was none of those things. It was because I was drunk.
2007-05-09 19:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋