she knows i like her very much but evry now and then she tells me i shud stop callin/sms her. but when i dont call she calls saying that i dont care bout her and that i shud atleast call to find out how she doing. whats this, pls help coz im confused.
2007-05-09 19:50:42 · 21 answers · asked by mister m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep an eye on your rabbit.
2007-05-09 19:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Cass 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there Mas, Some women can be real b*tches! The bottom line is, if a woman is interested in you, you will definately know about it. They won't play you about like this woman seems to be doing. As you say, she knows you like her, and she is loving it. First she tells you to stop calling/sms her...then she wants to know why you are not calling to find out how she is doing, this is plain rude! She sounds like she wants to have everything on her terms, and she is playing you like a fiddle. Find yourself a woman who will enjoy hearing from you, and who will be just as enthusiastic as you. Have some self respect hon, and stop chasing this woman and dancing to her tune. I wish you all the best! :o)
2007-05-10 03:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For now maybe text her before you call and say something like "hey, wanna chat right now?" or "have time to chat?" or something...that way she knows your thinking about her and that you want to know how she's doing, but that way it's a little less formal, and a less nagging than a phone call all the time, that way she wont thing your drooling over her.
However...she sounds like a *****...I wouldn't do that...find someone that appreciates and anticipates your calls.
2007-05-10 02:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's afraid of commiting for the moment. It seems like she's rather unsure of what she's been doing to you. Go easy on her because the more you push, the more she will stay away.
Just let her know or show her how much you love and care for her and that it's up to her to decide.
2007-05-10 03:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds wierd! Way to much maintenance! She sounds like she has a bit of of strange personallity disorder! or else she has no self esteem and wants u to carry on about how u care and want her etc... I would find someone new! This isnt gonna work and ur gonna get frustrated
2007-05-10 03:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends where you are in the relationship. You don't want to call too much, and you don't want to stop calling completely. I say tone things down, and call her no more than twice a week. It'll give her a chance to miss you.
2007-05-10 03:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Amir K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you calling her too much? Maybe you should just call her once a day to see how her day was and how she's doing. Or ask her when the best time to call her would be.
2007-05-10 03:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by tieralc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes not playing hard to get, She is using you. Stop calling her, when she calls you say hi chat and say bye. She sees you as a push over and a safety net.
2007-05-10 03:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by bedfordbuschick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might just be calling too much or at the wrong time. ask her specifically what she has in mind. if you can't fingure out how/ when to talk on the phone, a relationship is going to be very difficult.
2007-05-10 03:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by jibberdam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just cut her out of your life. I had boyfriend that I was on and off with for 5 years that pulled the same crap with me. I just let him go, I didn't need the drama and neither do you. She's playing ya and will do that for as long as you let her and she won't feel bad about it cause you let it happen.
2007-05-10 03:06:29 · answer #10 · answered by missmrcr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Robert Burns.
2007-05-10 03:11:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋