I feel like i still did not achieved anything in my life....?

Question

I am 28...


I have lots of debts....
Turned down by universities that i have applied for my post grad...now start university hunting again....and afraid to hear the result again
My family business is in shaking boat...and i am one of the person responsible for it..
No time for myself to do my hobbies; read novel, write story, draw comic...


and...still single...never had boyfriend or been in any relationship...why this is matter? because i feel like i am carrying all the burden alone...feel like if i can share my problem to the person that i trust, maybe it will lessen the pain...


so..please anybody out there..don't misjudging me and make any statement that may put me into worst situation.


i don't have best friend either..since they all have been married and have their own set of problem..

Answer 1

sometimes life hands you alot, like you i feel shafted like i've been lied to and mis led about life, the only thing i can say is to keep moving on as hard as it is at times and even if you lose everything be lucky to be able to wake up, i know its hard a times but just keep going and one day this time will make you stronger.

Answer 2

There is only one way to get where you want to go. Set some goals for yourself. First decide what is most important to you.

Decide on a few short-term goals that will get you there. Take those goals and attempt to acheive them one at a time. Then when you have reached the major goal, set another and do the same thing. Pretty soon you will have what you want.

Never try to acheive everything at the same time. It just confuses you. Take one step at a time, and you will get there sooner than you think!!