Family & Relationships - 9 May 2007

I was with my wife since I was 15.....I deployed at age 25 were she divorced me while I was deployed not because I was a bad husband but because she got lonely.........well to make a long story short I never did the teenage or college dating thing and now that I will be coming home soon I want to see what's out there.........where is a great spot to meet DECENT women and do you reccommend the online dating networks? Any advice passed my way is greatly appreciated ladies!!!!

2007-05-09 07:43:01 · 16 answers · asked by sabresfan4ever1981 2 in Singles & Dating

if so why

2007-05-09 07:40:36 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well????

2007-05-09 07:39:57 · 27 answers · asked by Coxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 07:39:06 · 12 answers · asked by syko_069 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't want anything formal....Looking for something that includes...Our love has brought us full circle...something like that...we were married in our early twenties, divorces, we had our daughter before we got married, after the divorce we married other people, had more kids, and divorced again from them and now we are back together again...So something about our love survived it all but nicely written would be great...How would you write it..Any ideas? No websites please..I've already been on all of them..Looking for something handwritten..Thank you in advance for your help!

2007-05-09 07:38:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-09 07:38:14 · 13 answers · asked by judykiestner 1 in Singles & Dating

How to let go of someone you know needs to go?

2007-05-09 07:34:51 · 16 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

of the co-workers, but I still consider them my friends and would like to invite them to my wedding. Problem is I dont want them to think I only invited them so I could get a gift from them, cuz I dont even care about the gifts and I already have everything I need. If you were to receive an invitation in these circumstances what would you think?

2007-05-09 07:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I live in Hollywood CA. Help me start a new life. My old one is over.

2007-05-09 07:32:58 · 13 answers · asked by Millie G 1 in Friends

I have seen postings on websites where women will say they "speak greek" or "russian" and then give a price. Why do these women ask for money to speak another language?

2007-05-09 07:32:06 · 5 answers · asked by bxjazz 1 in Singles & Dating

They kknow that flowers will die in a few days anyways.

2007-05-09 07:31:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

eggs with a fork, instead of a wisk? Does it really make much of a diffference?

2007-05-09 07:30:27 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think my husband needs help. He is so insensitive. I say hunny please put the toilet seat down when you are done.....he says ok babe.....but he WON'T do it.....When I say hunny please rinse the sink out after you shave, he says ok babe......but again he NEVER does it......Hunny please don't feed the dog out of OUR dishes, rake it out in his bowl if you want to give him the scraps, I dont want to eat out of dishes the dog ate out of, he says ok baby, I understand.......but 1/2 my dishes are in the dog pen.....I am going to divorce him.....I don't think I can give him anymore chances.....Advice please????

2007-05-09 07:27:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

make an announcement at my wedding congratulating them. Is that proper? I ask because I know of several other couples who will be celebrating their anniversaries around that time and I don't want anyone to feel left out or whatever. My cousin is my mother's age so we're not close. I don't have a problem with it, but I'm trying to figure out where can I include the announcemnt in the reception. SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!

2007-05-09 07:21:43 · 24 answers · asked by newsgal03 4 in Weddings

If so...where can I find me one?

2007-05-09 07:21:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said that if ever we get to have a long and sweet relationship, and end up getting married, he's going to sing "Butterfly Kisses" (for his little girl and for the son-in-law he would be proud to have).

What's that supossed to mean?

2007-05-09 07:18:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she gets all emotional at happy events, then I get lucky!! lol

2007-05-09 07:17:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been asked to take the wedding pictures for my husbands best friend. I am an amatuer photography, I am pretty good at taking pictures, just very nervous about the wedding beign at the beach. It is at 11:00 am, so I am worried it will be too bright outside. I have a digital Sony Cybershot DSC-W80/P, it isn't a Professional camera, but does that really make a difference?? I have talked to the bride and groom and they don't seem to particular about the pictures. Any help or advice on planning out the big day?

2007-05-09 07:16:20 · 6 answers · asked by kristin22 4 in Weddings

I have recently been talking to this boy that has a girlfriend. we have sooo much in common and have fun together. We're now both going on hoilday to the same place and gonna be hanging out together the thing is that his girlfriend is gonna be there and he acts like shes not his girlfriend and treats her like any other girl. I'm i taking him away from her if i am should i stop or should i not care?

2007-05-09 07:15:51 · 15 answers · asked by Aamora S 1 in Singles & Dating

indian girls r smart or foreign girls and beautiful also

2007-05-09 07:15:25 · 24 answers · asked by Leo s' 2 in Singles & Dating

My man and I have been dating exclusively for a little over 2 years now. He wants me to move in with him, which is 90 miles away from where I live now.

I would have to quit my job, and lose my health insurance. I have asthma and my meds cost hundreds of dollars per month without insurance. Do you think it would be inappropriate to suggest that we get married so that it will be easier for me to leave behind the security of my job and benefits.

Also, I should add that I am without a driver's license or vehicle, so finding a job in this new town would be very, very difficult.

Should I bring it up?

2007-05-09 07:14:45 · 4 answers · asked by southerngirl84 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone jsut asked a question about cute/funny recessional songs and I have no idea what that is. Is it when you are leaving the wedding as a married couple? or the reception?

:-)

2007-05-09 07:11:29 · 8 answers · asked by T Rad Fools 4 in Weddings

I want to file for a divorce - we have two kids, what is the best way to handle the procedure without it turning too ugly. Also I live in the state of california are there any penelties if someone committed audultery? Also how long does a divorce take for it to be final? what steps can I take to prepare myself for this emotional ordeal?
Thanks so much for your answers

2007-05-09 07:10:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After I married my husband I found a tax return of his that said he was claiming married filing jointly and there were kids listed on there. We were already not getting along and I was already ready to leave when I found this. When we got our marriage license he said he was never married before. I would love to get a divorce from him but I am also scared of him since when I left I was 3 months pregnant and he has not tried to see this child or anything. He knows were I am and know were I live so its not like he could say he couldnt find me. But to my question how do I find out if he was actually married before because wouldnt that make our marriage void if he didnt disclose he was married before and if he wasnt didnt that mean he lied to the IRS? We had gotten married in October and I left him the last day of Novemeber so wasnt sure if I would also qualify for an annulment either.

2007-05-09 07:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by chefaid90 3 in Marriage & Divorce

about Maddie,But why would you leave Twins and a 4 year old child 200 feet away.It is not as far away as you think But still to far enough for young children to be alone In a strange apt and City.We do need to pray for Maddies return and for the Parents to have strength to go on with the search for maddie.

2007-05-09 07:04:54 · 1 answers · asked by Dew 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

As Dr. Laura would put it....My boyfriend and I are shacking up.
I hear so many people talk of studies done & how it decreases your chances for a successful marriage should you choose to marry.

I'm curious what other people think about this subject. I personally dont see the problem...I think it is a better way to get to know someone & wether or not you'd be compatible IF your considering getting married.

My mom & step dad have been together going on 19 years & the still have never legally married or done so within a church. My father & step mother were together around 15 years before they married about 4 years ago & even then only for tax purposes.

I've heard people tell me that it shows a lack of respect on both out parts, or I am just an unpaid whore "my personal favorite"
I'm going to do what I want with or without the approval of society & right wing morality police......I'm just curious what some people's opinions are for the sake of seeing different point of views

2007-05-09 07:03:26 · 45 answers · asked by cal_gal_81 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-09 07:03:03 · 8 answers · asked by pip K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in my back yard and decided not to do Hamburgers. Does any one have any good recipes for chicken or pork. I am having all the fixings with it.
Thank you

2007-05-09 07:02:49 · 6 answers · asked by collectivetheresa 2 in Weddings

a couple days ago i finally got the courage to have sex with the one i love. it hurt soo bad and i kept moving, we almost had him all the way in a couple times but i didn't know if i wanted my cherry to pop right away.. you know..? its just.... that is a really big deal to most girls... especcially me. i just was worried. i am still young and have NEVER let anyone get that close, i was nervous and had alot of thoughts going thru my head... i think i am ready to go all the way now... and i would just like to know if there is anything i should know... or what ever?? anyone have advice? or anything..... thank you

2007-05-09 07:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by B 1 in Singles & Dating

Last night after I got off work I went home and told my husband I didnt feel the same way about him as he did me. Sunday we talked about trying one more time and this time he was really going to try. But I can barely kiss him and touch him, or let him touch me. I told him I wasnt happy and that I couldnt be with him anymore. He spent $500 last month on speakers for his car that he wants to get rid of and then I found a condom in the washer and he swears on our son that he didnt cheat on me. But today he calls me crying that he doesnt want us to get a divorce. I didnt want to hurt him but I had to get out. Now I feel like theres been a wait lifted off my shoulders but I also feel horible for what I did.

2007-05-09 06:58:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce