of the co-workers, but I still consider them my friends and would like to invite them to my wedding. Problem is I dont want them to think I only invited them so I could get a gift from them, cuz I dont even care about the gifts and I already have everything I need. If you were to receive an invitation in these circumstances what would you think?
2007-05-09 07:33:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I guess I should add that most of them did not contact me either, even after my surgery, but I was still close to them before my leave.
2007-05-09 07:41:29 · update #1
If you want to invite them but are worried that they might think you are only after the gift, then put a hand note in the invitation that simply says"Gift not required, just come and enjoy my wedding because I want you there."
2007-05-10 18:15:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not kept in touch with your ex co-workers for over 2 years, then no, I would not invite them. A lot happens in two years, and if they received an invite, they probably won't come anyways. Sure, you were friends with them then, but this is now. It'll be a lot of wasted money if you do invite them and they don't show up. Plus, it may cause an awkward situation for both and them.
2007-05-09 14:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by chicyuna 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you had not kept in contact with me all the while you were out on medical leave then send me an Invitation for the wedding, I would think that you probably were only inviting me for the gift. And I probably wouldn't go...
2007-05-09 14:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Real friends pick up where they left off no matter how long it's been. If you want to invite them and can afford to include them, then by all means please do. If they think you are inviting them just for the gift, then they will not attend and you don't need their friendship anyway.
2007-05-09 14:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Marianne D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite whoever you want to share your wedding with. If you feel you need them to be there, then invite them. If they question your intentions then they can stay home.
2007-05-09 14:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by twosey ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--if they were really your friends, you'd keep in touch. Even phone calls would have helped. I think it would seem too random.
2007-05-09 14:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not unless you were pretty close to them.
2007-05-09 14:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by erink1799 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no only close friends and fmaily
2007-05-09 15:27:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope why?
2007-05-09 14:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by ME2029 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋