How to let go of someone you know needs to go?
2007-05-09 07:34:51 · 16 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is he your boyfriend? Because if he is, and you don't like him or something he's doing, girl, GET RID OF HIM. And quick! I've had this happen to me before, and when I broke up with him, I felt soooo good! If it's not like that, you need to confront him and tell him the things that aren't working out. Be GENTLE about this. Boys are actually pretty sensitive. If he promises to change, give a second chance, but ONLY a second chance. If that doesn't work, he's sooo not for you! Trust me! I wish you luck!!!!
2007-05-09 07:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just told him that I was in a new relationship and have not heard from his since . I do feel kinda bad but now I know that is was better for my future to let him go . My new relationship is with my College because I know my future will be stable more as opposed to dealing with his crap .
Just decide what is best for you hurt and pain or a better life . You know the obvious choice .
GOOD LUCK
2007-05-09 14:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to really be strong. It's hard I know but you need to be around your friends and go out and have fun. I went through the same thing as does everyone and after about 3 months I finally realized that life is way to short to be sitting around hurting because some loser broke my heart. I love me too much to be having those kind of feelings. You will eventually get over him the only thing is, when he comes around or start calling you again and trust me he will, you have to be really strong and not answer his calls because that will do nothing but cause the hurt that you finally got over to come back.
2007-05-09 14:44:33 · answer #3 · answered by teri d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same process. I was married 7 years and my relationship was an abusive one. I never wanted to realize that the reason that my husband was so mean was because he was falling out of love with me. In the end, things got really ugly and I knew that no matter how much I loved him and love him still, that I cannot make him love me the same. So I left after an ugly scene and here I am, not happy but at least I loved him enough to let him be.
Sometimes it's how one shows one's love.
2007-05-09 14:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Millie G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to be nice about it, but let them know this is not working. Maybe you all could still be friends, but if not. Wish them farewell and a happy life and move on.....a good book to read is "Value In The Valley" by Iyanla Vanzant. God Bless!
2007-05-09 14:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by pwellons1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew, because I am so in love with this man. Sometimes I think he thought appreicate. I want to leave, but I am going to hang on just a little longer. Life is too short enjoy live free.
2007-05-09 14:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut everything. No contacts with him, no more pictures of him, don't even talk about him until you have moved on. After a year or two, you will talk with him better when the hurt is over.
2007-05-09 14:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by brain beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple. just leave. its alot easier than you think. dont say we can be friends. no u cant. just leave and explain in a letter or explain when emotionally u are ready.ultimatly if u really wanna go then u can go. the fact that ur hesitant says ur not ready and ur going to deal with being unhappy.
2007-05-09 14:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by jacqucora_turner 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Miss Kitty, Your head needs to convince your heart ! If they need to go just let thm go.
2007-05-09 14:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need get into someone else.Here I will give you my email and you can email me sometime and I will help you rfrandy2007@yahoo.com so get ahold me if you want im looking for friends to.
2007-05-09 14:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by rfrandy2007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋