there are these 3 guys at my school and i'm talking all of them. One of them never notices me at school (at least i think he doesn't) and he always messages me on myspace asking me to call him but i never see him. Then there is another guy who i went on a date with. I stopped talking to him because he never really called me at all. Now he's trying to talk to me again. Then there's this other guy but he's REALLY REALLY ugly. He HAS A VERY NICE BODY and i talk to him on yahoo all the time every night. He's really sweet and i always talk to him on yahoo. I really like him but he's ugly he has a nice personality. He wants to have sex with me but i dont think he wants to go with me. I'M A VIRGIN!! i'm thinking about having sex with him...even though he's ugly. HE'S REALLY SWEET. should i be talking to all 3 of them?? and should i have sex with that guy and lose it to him...he's really ugly, he has a nice body, and he's really sweet. OH the first guy has a girl i think yet he talks to me...
2007-05-09 10:53:51 · 19 answers · asked by 2much 4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HONEY, you are too immature to be dating anybody.
And I say that with respect, not because of your age but because of the way you talk about sex and looks.
Do you think if he heard you talk about him this way he would even consider being with you? If he's as good a person and as sweet as you say, he doesn't deserve to be with someone who calls him ugly.
Also, if you're even considering talking to a guy who has a girlfriend, you need to think again. Think about how you'd feel if you were her.
Stop thinking about sex. You're not ready, and it's very apparent.
2007-05-09 10:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by kelly4u2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ok to talk to as many guys as you want to talk to at once.
Sex is another subject. Before considering sex, there are some basic questions you have to ask yourself.
1. Are you ready to be a mother? Give up the next 18-20 years taking care of a child?
2. Is this guy a guy I want to have a relationship with for the rest of my life? (I didn't say marriage. A child will keep you in some sort of relationship even if there isn't marriage.)
3. Do I know this guy well enough to know that he does not have any diseases that will harm or maybe even kill me?
If the answer to any of these questions is anything but a definite yes, you should never have sex with that person. Remember, there is no such thing as birth control that is 100% safe.
2007-05-09 18:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'll tell you like I tell everyone else,
do not go for the body, or the face,
evil is those who look with lust,
the devil himself is coming through you,
oh, your age, 15, I happen to be fifteen as well, I think that if anyone that has sex this young is either very ignorant, stupid, they are also unaware of what is going on in the world, you would have a very hard time if you had sex, and Many people think that you can talk to as many people as you want, that's fine, but if you flirt with more than one, I call them "slutty" that term is not the best, but it's all I have at the moment, besides openly ignorant of all the deseases that are spread, ignorant because of people's minds, feelings and bodies go into play, you have your whole life ahead of you for all this, right now you need to think things over and if you don't honestly love someone, don't flirt with them, or have sex with them, I am very against playing with people's feelings, and I don't see why people do it anyway, what is everyones' problem, do they not see the destruction and havoc that they reek on everyone, I do not believe this question! I hope someone out there agrees with me, because this is deep, and I think that if you like the ugly dude, you should go out with him and all that, looks are one thing, being sweet, and nice, and personality, is what matters, I know a lot of couples who look like they would never be together, but it is working because they do not go for looks, weight, or any of that, they are determined to match personalities, I think that if you just think this whole thing over and look at the pros and cons, that you could make the choice for yourself, and that is how I'll leave this answer.
2007-05-09 18:07:00 · answer #3 · answered by Typewriter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im almost 16 and am in the same situation so i might be able to help!
the first guy has a which is not good for you if your looking for a realationship.secondly he supposedly never notices you and if he really cared hed make an attemt to see and talk to you.however he does seem to send you messages which may mean somthing bigger.
the second guy you tried to go out with but it didnt work.why not give him a second chance?
lastly if the guy only wants you for your body then hes really not that good.if you like him it shouldnt matter if hes ugly and you should go out with him and after a while of then maybe.............?
you can talk to whoever you want and you dont have to choose any of them if you dont want to!
hope i could help!
2007-05-09 17:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Linda Lou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to talk to the person you want to the most. Whatever you do, don't have sex with anyone. You are only 15! You could get pregnant and it can ruin your life. If you are at least 23 then go for it but not at 15!
2007-05-09 18:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the sweet guy, personality is all that really matters in the end. you also made it sound like you know the 3rd guy the best out of the 3. as for the other part, wait for the time that you want it to happen, don't do it just because he's pressuring you to.
2007-05-09 17:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by xoFifi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol its ok to talk to guys as long as your not planning on commiting to all of those guys (starting a relationship with them all) If i were you I would keep on talking to them until you know what there about to me you sound like you just met them and you dont really know him.. just because a guy talks sweet to you doesnt mean he can see himself being with you lets say 10 or 5 or even 3 years from now... you got to think about it in the long run.. There are consiquence to your actions and if you dont be carefull you will live with those consiquences and regret them in the long run.. I shouldnt have sex untill both of you are really really commited to each other and you can see yourself being with this guy in the long run. Have you thought of what might happen if you do decide to have sex with him.. you may catch an std, you might become pregnent, you might HIV you never know... you cant just decide oh ya im gonna have sex with this guy cus i think he might like me... you need to talk to them and think about your decisions and be realistic about them too. And for the other guys 2 guys 1 guy seems to not even be interested in you (the guy who doesnt notice you) and the other one seems like hes not interested either just because he talks to you it could mean as firends you know lol... not every guy that talks to you likes you lol.. anyawys I think that the guy who your planning to lose your viginity with only wants you for sex and the second guy seems like a player lol and so does the first one and they both seem un interested in you.. like i said before.. Make the right decisions and be relistic about your choices and try to think about how your decisions may effect your life..
BEst of wishes kehsa
2007-05-09 18:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok if u talk to all 3 of them but if u want to loose ur virginity to the ugly boy u could as long as your comfortable telling people it was him u lost it to...similar situation
2007-05-09 18:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by DaKing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont have sex with this guy,whait till u fall in love with some one ,who loves u and wont use u for sex,pluss u know what guys are like after he has sex with u .u wont hear from him again.and he will talk about u ,and soon every one will think u sleep around,i know u want a boy friend but u have to wait for the right one to come alonge.i met mine at 22
2007-05-09 18:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may surprise you, but your allowed to talk to as many guys as you want!
You do sound way too immature to even be mentioning sex (and no, you shouldnt have sex with someone that doesnt want to commit to you...dont be a whore).
2007-05-09 17:56:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋